Homosexual men and anal sex...

I knew a gay guy once and he never had anal sex , he thought it was a gross act and i also know lesbians that do not go down on other women

I also think it's wrong to lump gay and anal sex in the same box. I have a gay couple in my circle of acquaintances who always object to discussions about anal sex and have no interest in it. It's an old stereotype that gay and anal go together, and that stereotype is wrong. Being gay means loving each other as men, kissing and exchanging caresses. There are just as many sexual practices between them as there are with other couples. I describe myself as heteroflexible. I have no feelings of love towards other men and would never kiss another man. But there's something about sucking a nice cock once in a while, and anal sex with both sexes is great for me.

Well aside from the existence of homoromantic, asexual people who enjoy relationships without the need for sex.

If grindr is anything to go by a LOT of men who have sex with men really like to give oral, specially of the giving head variety.

Many of those same men probably also enjoy anal but the amount of people I see focusing on oral with little to no mention of anal easily would account for the 40% figure.

If you feel comfortable with someone anal is great feels awesome.Guess the stigma stops some people or they think it's dirty.But bottom line do what makes you happy