Submit to nurses

I read a book by a nurse who said a man may be very stressed by losing control and having to submit. A man accustomed to being in control now goes to the admissions and has to submit to the staff. He is stripped of all of his secrets; identification, SSN, birthdate, insurance; he has to give up his valuables in the hospital safe; then he’s ‘the kidney patient’ number 12345-678 placed on his wrist. He may, by hospital rules transported by wheelchair. Arriving on the ward he submits to the nurses who strip him of his clothes, left naked under the flimsy gown.

Nurses tell him he has to give a urine sample, stay in bed, or sit; tell him when he can walk and when to eat. He has to submit to all manner of strange things applied to his body: wires, IV’s, breathing tubes. He has submit to a strange woman who bathes him like a baby; or he has to allow her to see him naked several minutes as she showers him. He submits to the humiliation of being catheterized: a woman exposes his penis. Even if he gets and erection, she tells him, it’s ‘a normal reaction’ and then washes it, injects a lubricant, and then inserts a tube into his penis. Not only has she removed his control over his most private bodily function, but reduced his sexual organ to a urinary appendage.

A patient going to surgery has no more control than a condemned person going to execution. Nurses take away food & water after midnight; at the appointed time he’s wheeled away to the OR where more nurses put him on the table, strap him down, put in IV’s. If it’s a local he’s aware of being shaved, washed and painted, draped and finally having the surgery.

A patient going to surgery has no more control than a condemned person going to execution.

The patient actually does have a control - they can choose either to do the surgery or not do the surgery. You can always refuse medical treatment. Doesn't fly so well with the executioner!

@JTMac I'll second that, and add that I want to expire at the peak of climax, the ‘little death’ seamlessly transitioning to the real one… lol

@bratwurst said: I read a book by a nurse who said a man may be very stressed by losing control and having to submit.

Nurses tell him he has to give a urine sample,

She came in and told me she had to get a “clean” urine sample. That meant she did all the work while I stood there. She wiped it down with a wet wipe, holding the foreskin back she wiped it again then stuck it in the collection cup. When that was full she squeezed it to stop the flow and put it in a “urinal” bottle to let me finish.

When we first met earlier in the day she looked at me and said “I know you. You're the crossing guard I see every morning near the school” so I kind of felt we were old friends or maybe she did.

He has submit to a strange woman who bathes him like a baby;

Ohhh that was nice!!!!

Next week I'm going to see a nurse dermatologist for my first ever skin check. I expect she will see even more of me close up and personal.😁

Should I bring her roses?🌹🌹

A patient going to surgery has no more control than a condemned person going to execution.

That does not sound like my last surgery. I needed an appendectomy and after being wheeled into the OR, I was asked to step up onto the operating table by myself. Then both the surgeon and the anesthesiologist separately in turn asked me very specifically if I agreed to the surgery and being anesthetized. They made a point of asking so specifically that I was sort of impatient and still feeling awful from infection, that I said something to the order of: Yes yes, I agree, why do you think I'm here in the first place? Let's get this over with please.

I have a sneaking suspicion that condemned felons aren't asked if they agree to what they are going to be subjected to … 😃

@roscoe same urine sample experience happened to me! She did all the work.

Wished I was younger so I could have enjoyed it.