Preferred Physician Gender

Female female female except for playtime when I'm pretty open to both sexes lol

My wife has had many different gynecologists over the years and they have always been male. She flat out told me the she prefers to have a man examine her vagina.

My first gynecologist was male. A older man between 50 to 60 years. It was very embarressed for me to be examined by this man. So I changed to a female doctor. This was no good

idea, because she was very rough and careless. Now I am again at a male doctor. He is very carefully and explains all parts of his examinations.

Wife's answer to this question is somewhat of a paradox. She says that male or female doctor makes no difference. But then, to the contrary, she says that she prefers the touch of a male doctor for intimate exams because "a man touching my body feels more natural than a woman." Evidently, there is more than just "feels more natural" because her libido stays unusually high for several days after the exam. I can't complain. In her heightened lustful state, her wants and desires are dramatically increased and, I get the pleasure of fulfilling those needs.

My ex-wife has never been examined by a man, except for her first childbirth. She would never go to a man. My current girlfriend would never go to a man. But several times the man was examined her. A lot of women told me that women are gross and insensitive that men are fine in the examintion. Well, I do not know :-)

I see a female OB/Gyn. That's my preference. I've never entertained the idea of having a male OB/Gyn. I'm married to a doctor. He's a retired Orthopedic Surgeon. He's the only man other than my father that's touched my girl parts. I have a reason! My childhood friend was molested by a male doctor years ago. This was on the Chicago News the other night. http://www.fox32chicago.com/news/local/woman-says-suburban-gynecologist-sexually-assaulted-her So this crap continues to happen to innocent women. The percentage of female OB/Gyn's continues to increase. Years ago women did not have much of a choice but now they do. https://www.huffingtonpost.ca/2018/03/09/female-gynecologists_a_23381583/

The article was interesting and brought up some significant problems with having so few men in OB-GYN.

All I have to add is that women will reap what they have sown.

I'm sticking with my male OB-GYN.

My wife prefer male doctors. She said a male are careful and gentle when examine her vagina., instead the female are a little bit more rough and careless... I believe she thinking like that because the only two or three time she went at female gyno she have had also the recto-vaginal exam !!

I think there is no difference male or female, maybe female rough and male careful or male rough and female careful, all depends on the person.....

I have found females to be rough and males not. I much prefer males for gyn exams.

I had a male gyno from the time I was 15 to almost 50, he delivered all 5 of my children. I always felt respected, comfortable and in qualified hands. I had all high risk pregnancies and when crisis struck he did not hesitate to bring in a specialist to assist.

Had he not been semi retired and getting on in his years I would still be with him today.

I would never rule out any dr based on their gender. I want the most qualified and who I “click” with. I based the same criteria when choosing drs for my children.

I agree with Bridgette! It seems stupid to rule anyone out because of their sex

I have a female General Practitioner Dr. The only reason I chose her, is I met her socially first, we chatted at a wedding I went to, when having a polite conversation she told me her occupation and I mine. I told her I was a bad patient, and didn't have a Dr. because I had so many bad experiences, she expressed that she also hated being examined, did not like being bullied by a Dr. and that she would avoid being examined and wanted it her way when attending a physicians office. She did state she needed 3-4 new private patients. The fact that she had a similar outlook to me in regards how her/my personal medical care meant she could clearly empathize. Since then she has been my primary care physician. I don't do annual physicals, If I do come in, which is rare, I give some blood, check of blood pressure, never have even taken off my shirt for her. Its a beautiful professional relationship. She has syringed a bursa sac once, phoned in a prescription when I threw my back out for a pain killer/muscle relaxant. When I do go in, she listens, and does not bully me, she tends to do whats is right for me and not for the billing department although all ethically. I could never see myself with any other Dr. If she had been a guy, would not have made any difference, its the professional aspect and understanding I respond positively to.

I don’t know why, but I have always preferred having a male doctor. I switched insurance a couple of years ago and had my choice of who I wanted as my general practitioner and I picked a male. I’ve always had a female gynecologist, but I found out that now my gp does things that my gyno used to do.

My wife prefers a female doc. I accompany her on all her visits and we try to schedule our routine visits back to back or to easily exchange information - we use the same doc. No issue on my part. And no preference male or female. Our doc is good.

Female, I feel I can relate to her better.

I’ve had both, but I prefer female. I have an amazing supportive female doctor and wouldn’t want to alter anything at this point.

My wife is about to have her first visit with a male gyn next week. She has had some rough luck in our area finding one that works for her and brought up being willing to give it a shot. I helped her find a highly qualified and extremely well rated one. She then let me book her an appointment (through the internet). She was a little apprehensive because of everything in the news and just because of his gender anyway.

After she received e-mail confirmation I had a huge rush of emotion the rest of the day and it was hard to focus on anything. I care first and foremost about her health and a quality Dr patient experience, but it has caused very intense feelings of being turned on for some unexplainable reason as well.

As I am in healthcare and because I like to play Dr with her anyway I have debated having a sensual exam before to go over what is appropriate touch and what is not to also alleviate her main concern a little more. I have found through reviews she may be likely to have her first rectal exam as well so trying to find a way to explain to her he may spread her cheeks and put a finger inside her back there. I may also try to explain he might pull her entire gown down to her stomach and look at her whole chest at once as opposed to one breast at a time. She is in her 20's so not a ton of experience with different Dr styles.

If anyone would like to discuss further or has any other advice/thoughts please share.

I am more comfortable with a female doctor but I do get a thrill from a male doctor examining me.

For a real exam definitely female but DEFINITELY male for play exam

Most women I've discussed this with tend to feel more comfortable with a female examiner and in the UK most of the smear tests are done by a female nurse. Those women I've spoken to who have had a male examiner often say that they think the men try harder to be be gentle than the women.

My gf always goes to a male. In the beginning I hated that. I didn't want anyone else seeing or touching her, but especially not a guy. Then after seeing it, I loved it. I wouldn't want her going to a female.

Most women that I have talked to actually prefer a Male. Their usual comment is female are less sensitive. They figure that they go through it so just deal. They find woman doctors more rough with the exam.

Theoretically I would prefer a female, but after one rather horrible experience, I've gone exclusively to male doctors. I'm sure that isn't the norm, though I have heard others say that female doctors can be more abrasive and harsh as well.

@couriousintx

Would you like to explain what the horrible experience you had the one time you had the exam, i am guessing other people on here as would i would like to hear what the horrible experience you had with that exam

I've had both for real doctors. I actually prefer a male as opposed to a female. Only reason why I say that is because for me it's easier to communicate with men lol and it kind of adds to my excitement. And they seem to be less rough. I've had a female doctor before and it was a bear for me to tell her stuff without feeling judged, and she was super rough with me.

My wife has seen both over the last 25 years since we've been married. But she has been going to the same male for the last 13. I guess it's safe to assume she likes him.

I know this is outside the scope of the question, but I get more of a thrill thinking about her putting her feet in the stirrups and spreading her legs for a male gynecologist than a female.

I've gone to and been examined by both female and male gynecologists. I've also had both sexes as my PCP. My current gynecologist is male and I'm comfortable and happy with that. He is attentive, takes time to listen to concerns, answer questions and is gentle and thorough in his examination of me. To me having a competent and knowledgeable doctor that listens to my concerns is more important than their gender.

I am ok with both fem and male dr. But i agree that males seen to me a little more gentle then female. I book male if i can but not always i can choose.

It all comes down to a " feel" and previouce experiences how you feel about this subject

I prefer competency over sex. It’s not always possible to research the person first or talk with others, but for elective visits, procedures etc it helps.

I prefer female mostly