Enema Discipline

Is there a better form of discipline than getting a large enema which you have to hold

There are, but a forced enema is pretty damn effective!

Hard physical labor with a large butt plug... Like mucking stalls at a horse farm, or doing yard work...

I have always found that working at the farm gave me plenty of time to think about my day. I've never tried it with a plug, but I know that it would add extra discomfort to the job...

I always thought the idea of being at the dentist with a gag is pretty effective. The control aspect of it is quite strong.

For enema enthusiasts, I think this would be the best discipline of all. I don't presently have a full-time partner and the use of enemas for either punishment or pleasure and everything else between those extremes is a longed-for fantasy.

Simmarrah, surely a large butt plug would enhance the punishment aspect; however, one that is more of a comfortable size greatly aids in comfortable retention.*

Deciding it was high time for some new play toys, I ordered the one shown here in the link and expect its arrival any day. It would seem to combine both uses of nozzle and plug and doesn't really have a truly oversize diameter. I especially like that the connector is recessed, so that it could be worn under clothes (or a diaper). BTW, this company has been in business for some time and is fully reliable in my experience. http://www.extremerestraints.com/butt-plugs_1/magnus-stainless-steel-enema-plug_7350.html.

*For example, the one shown here is the one I use for this purpose: http://www.extremerestraints.com/butt-plugs_1/ryder-silicone-anal-plug_56.html (in violet; black is NOT my color!). After six years of continuous use, it cleans well and appears as when new.

In reference to my preceding post, while some fine quality toys can be had from http://www.extremerestraints.com, the Magnus Stainless Steel Enema Plug IS NOT one of them! I have received it, used it once, and am highly disappointed in this one for the following reasons (FYI, lest anyone here should make the same mistake):

It does not fit the larger size hoses (5/16-in.) that I use with my Klystra bags. (Extreme Restraints suggests related items for use with this plug that are actually Klystras.)

When I did attempt to use it, hoping there would be a sufficient friction fit between the outside diameter of my hose and the recessed inside diameter of the nozzle (there wasn't), there was a steady leakage.

The sharply defined edge of the retaining flange painfully bit into my flesh (my pleasure does not include pain!) and the flange was altogether too small for easy removal of the nozzle.

Little is more powerful than being given an enema. It's intimate, it's invasive, and it's hard to feel anything except for submissive when someone is dictating how full you're going to be, how crampy you're going to be, and how long the enema will do its work and what you'll have to do -- spankings are better while holding an enema, and just about everyone gives better oral sex while holding a big, soapy enema -- before you're allowed relief.

It's a cruel form of punishment that my aunt used on me growing up. And if I leaked any I received a good spanking also.

Not for me, A nice large retention enema is my all time favorite kink!

Choosing between large and holding, I definitely prefer a large enema, even if I cannot hold for more than 1 minutes once I have 4 liters in me. The feeling of fulness which such an amount of water feels incredible. I prefer it by far on holding an enema for a long time but ... everybody has its preferences :-)

I got enemas as a child for the usual reasons of being ill, constipated, etc. But, I had a friend my age (7 up) who got punishment enemas for misbehaving, being disrespectful to his mother, etc.

I have never had a punishment enema, I have given a few to my mischievous second ex-wife (the kinky one) while we were still married, and a few to ex-girlfriends (all were submissive), but never had one myself. My dad believed in the belt across the bare butt - much more painful, trust me!

Sounds pretty sexy. I have only given them to myself.

Being given an enema and being made to hold it for a period of time, followed by a spanking, can be a very effective discipline.

Frankly, that depends totally on the likes and dislikes of the submissive! If she hates enemas, a large volume enema is a great form of discipline. If. on the other hand, she is a true klismo, then you are pleasuring, not punishing. Something I find very effective is using a very harsh soap, such as Kirk's with s standard 2 qt enema. There's no danger of a ruptured colon, ans she will soon be crying and begging for relief! Another effective punishment is a 2 qt SSE, followed by a couple of adult bulbs of air.

Once I received a spanking followed by a vinegar & water enema as punishment. It was quite effective.

I have a special question upon the subject "Enema Discipline". I remember that some years ago I have read some postings upon homes for girls with behavioural problems in the USA. Every saturday evening all these girls had to line up in order to receive a strong soapy enema, this in public of all the other girls: each girl had to bend on a bench, the well lubed enema tube was pushed in her anus and she had to take the high enema up to the last drop. Do you know more upon this special form of an enema discipline?

That's simply an urban myth or fantasy.

I would love to be restrained and given a large enema with an inflatable butt plug. My partner would be calm explaining why I was being punished during the procedure

and I bet I would behave from then on, or would I enjoy it so much I would be deliberately disobedientl

Toshe63 I would love to help you with that,,,and i would hope you don't learn your lesson 😃

Ohhh me too Toshe, I need a lesson taught as well.

Reading through the posts I have to agree with northernguy46 about that metal plug but for different reasons. Yes it is somewhat big, but it has dimensional issues in the ergonomics department. I have done a bit of research on the subject and like he mentioned, the Tantus Ryder plug is a much better fit and comfortable. If one knows what they are doing and are crafty, the plug could be altered to be made into a nozzle.

One of my methods for an enema discipline is a soapy enema with Dr. Bronners Peppermint castile soap added and made to retain while there rear end gets a hard paddling or caning.

Submissive humiliation sub into enemas here. For me, being given a punishment enema as discipline depends on a number of factors. I enjoy an enema, but if I was restrained and not capable of controlling the volume, contents or release of the enema, I don't believe I would enjoy it so much. Being under the complete control and mercy of someone else in this situation would really be a punishment for me. Ideally I'd be restrained, with an inflatable tube, unknown liquid and temperature, bag out of sight so I can't see how much in or remaining, maybe a cam so I don't know who is watching, that would be punishment for me. Even though I enjoy the humiliation factor and would find the idea exciting, in reality that would be a humiliation outside my comfort zone. I seldom reach my limit when solo and expel well ahead of it, but to have someone else now controlling that part I think would be the real punishment for me. Knowing there is an unknown audience viewing would make it that much worse. Using a vibe to make me cum while being filled or holding would complete humiliation and probably have me begging for mercy.

Once had a dome tell me to do an open cam wine enema online for a minor discretion. Then holding the 2-3 quarts I had to masturbate, cum and lick it up. A bit woozy from the wine mixture, it was very difficult getting hard and then cumming. That was probably the most embarrassing thing I had ever done in my life. Then I started getting emails from viewers and that made it even more embarrassing. That was the real punishment for me, the humiliation of them all seeing me, knowing who I was and able to make and send comments to me. A number of them sent me screen shots and it got so bad for a while I considered changing my email address. But my dome had me acknowledge and respond to each email thanking them for watching. It eventually died down, but that was the absolute worse punishment I have ever experienced or received. Maybe the real punishment was things I enjoyed, humiliation/enemas/orgasm/submission, was used to a point that I did not enjoy any of it at all.

I like to Give a RED ASS SPANKING followed with a Slow Big ENEMA! Then upon their return from the bathroom another RED ASS SPANKING and another ENEMA!! When returning from the bathroom maybe some Sensuous Ass Play and ORAL SEX? Or a Slow Balls Deep HOT COCK CUM ENEMA? or just some Mutual Masturbation?? I like it ALL and can sometimes SWITCH with the RIGHT GUY?? Bottoms UP!! (~;

Why is it so hard to find someone to give me enemas and spankings in my area?

There are more men around interested than women, so if you're a woman it shouldn't be as hard. The vital key is finding someone SAFE to do it to you.

I totally agree with @moliere here. I am pretty confident if I asked nicely for someone to administer to me there would be several takers 😉

You bet your booty there would be, Bridgette!

The problem that crops up, regardless of comparability, and assuming that this is for play and not romance (and even there sometimes) is logistics and proximity.

As an experienced slave, whose training began as a teenager in the Finger Lakes Area of New York State, I have been made to suffer discipline enemas as well as other torments for for the entertainment of a couple of ex-wives and other people. Starting with teenage girlfriends, who began to insist that I accept their torments and punishments to tears, making me beg for every sexual favor, I have become an adult man who continues to associate such suffering with my own fulfillment.

As a member of FetLife.com, I have recently posted a lengthy seven-part journal story about a multi-day session I experienced a couple of years ago with a very caring, sensitive, loving but sexually sadistic old friend along with others she invited. If you are a member (free) of that site, and look at my profile under "Slave_C2000" you will find under the "Writings" category that long descriptive session entitled "Long Labor Day Weekend". Reading them in chronological order (Part 1, then 2, etc.) makes it hang together.

I would be most interested in your reactions, thoughts, ideas, fantasies, and experiences in this range of activities.