Moms and Enemas

Along with the usual equipment, many moms brought a positive attitude toward enemas that that mean a more accepting time for the patient. My mom could have been more open with tails, but her promise that I would feel better after the irrigator can was put away. was true, as I had to admit.

Most parents now days are enema phobic which has been brought on by poor advise by people who should know better. I was reading where something like 23% of all pediatric ER visits are diagnosed with constipation. I am sorry that I am unable to cite the source but I remember being surprised when I read it.

The reason why so many Moms of today don't use enemas is simple. Their doctors tell them not to... And they believe them. If you look on the net you will see evidence of such... My Mother first heard this from her new doctor who replaced our family physician who retired in 1967. He advised her to stop giving me enemas immediately and start giving me oral laxatives whenever I needed some. He told her that enemas were very bad for me. I hated the stuff. She tried Ex-Lax, Milk of Magnesia, Fena something, and finally settled on Castoria. I literally begged Mom to stop giving me that stuff and start giving me enemas again. I did this for months and finally with her Mother's help I started being given enemas again against her doctor's advise. I believe the Pharmacy industry along with doctors are behind this and it's all about M O N E Y! Millions of dollars each year to be exact.

ShamamE wrote: ... I am curious, is it common for mothers to find their sons desirable?

Don't deceive yourself: no mother will answer "yes" to your question.

Even here, despite the anonymity guarantee, you have no courage to confess such things.

Based on some comments I've seen in the various posts, I suspect some incestuous and inappropriate activity occurred within family members, and I do not find it appropriate in this site, or any where else for that matter. I am not a prude, and neither am I overly religious. I just happen to believe that incest is illegal & wrong, as is pedophilia, and not a healthy activity by anyone.

Healthymale, I agree. I think many of these posts are made by people with unhealthy imaginations.

I think in a small way the answer is yes. After a lot of contemplating I think my mother had an medical fetish. She knew a lot about enemas as I know she used them on herself during the day when everyone was gone from the house. I often found the hag drying in the bathroom when I returned from school in the afternoon, then quietly put back in the linen closet before dad came home.

She was quick to give enemas at the slightest signs of illness or constipation. She would tell my grandmother, aunts and neighbors, she was going to give me an enema. Then when dad got home she would go over all the details of my enema session.

I know she gave my dad enemas, quite often in fact. A lot of mornings I saw the enema bag hanging in the bathroom to dry. One time I saw her walking down the hallway to their bedroom with a full enema bag, a towel and a jar of Vaseline. I listened to them through the wall. It was apparent that my dad was getting the enema, later I heard him go down the hall to the bathroom. This was the days before master bedroom suites.

Sometimes I would see the bag drying with the big black curved douche nozzle. I was always fascinated by it's size and secretly wanted it used on me. At age seven I started giving myself enemas, the intriguing douche nozzle was my first choice, and I often used it with my clandestine enemas

In response to Claudia I think it is probably similar to fathers and daughters.

As an only child raised by a single father I have actually done some real research in to this.

85-90% of Father Daughter incest is committed by step fathers It is very rare in biological fathers.

When it DOES occur, there is almost always a history of substance abuse, mental illness or previous sex-related offenses on the part of the father. Not unusual for the daughter to be given drugs or alcohol whether of her free will or not.

I dont KNOW that the situation is the same for mothers and sons but I don't really find clear evidence that it's different.

The most under reported aspect of incest is actually sibling on sibling. I'm an only child.

Bagman:

Imagine calling your mother a hag!

I remember when Mom had her period she would go into the bathroom for an hour or so. When the bathroom was open for use , we only had one bathroom, I would go in and the place smell of stong soap and the dripping enema bag was hanging on the back of the door but with no nozzles. My brother and I received many enemas but don't think Dad got any. I remember Dad being very 'goosy'. Sometimes one of his friends would goose him as he walked by and Dad would let out a big whoop and jump like he was shot and he would turn around and cuss this guy out. Dad was just to jumpy to get an enema.

When i had to have one, my father always gave it to me.....he would stick his finger in me first to get me ready for it.....always called me his baby girl and would wash me from head to toe afterwords.....loved taking a bathe with him.....washing each other....hugging kissing......Daddy's little girl

Once I was constipated after returning from the hospital. my mother told she going to give me a good enema to help me and she realized i enjoyed getting it. After that she would just tell me after any type of health problem that she was going to give me an enema and I think she just liked the Idea of giving an enema to a child that enjoyed it

My mother did not enjoy giving us enemas in the pleasurable sense, rather I think she tool pride in trying to help us feel better. I am the same with my kids, I dont get off on it by any means but i know they need it and i want to help them. Its no different from giving an aspirin if they had a headache - this is no taboo with that - why should there be with this

It was not my mother, it was my aunt (and to some extend my uncle) who was really into enemas. I even remember my mother saying, "OMG, Betty (my aunt) Penny doesn't need another enema!" It seemed to me that there always seemed to be a wet, recently used enema bag hanging from the hook behind the bathroom door. My mother also did not like the fact that my uncle gave the girls enemas. When I reached adulthood I realized he was probably a "perv"! I only received 2 enemas from my mother and I think both were needed. However, I did get an enema from my aunt when my parents took a vacation and left me with her. I think she really enjoyed my distress. She left the bathroom door wide open and I was terrified that my cousins would see aunt Betty giving me my enema. Of course I didn't mind sneaking peeks when they got theirs... LOL

I don't think that my mom enjoyed giving me enemas either. As a kid who "held back" though, I'd say that probably every enema that I got, I probably needed.

My pediatrician had recommended the enemas (Philippine man, old back then and really old when he died just a few years ago), I believe that was the common remedy for holding back back then or at least during his training. My first enema was at the pediatrician's office from his nurse.

From my grandmother actually. I lived with my grand parents.

Yes, I'm positive she enjoyed showing me how to take / use enemas. I was 14 at the time and was having a difficult period.

Gram said she had a sure-cure. After explaining the process she demonstrated on on herself to put me at ease.

I was hooked from that point on. I was rather a big girl at 14 - took the whole back right off which even surprised gram.

BJ

I'm not sure if she enjoyed doing it but if the doctor recommended one we got one. One time at the doctor's I was given a rectal exam and it was determined that I needed a mineral oil enema. When we were leaving two girls that I went to school with were sitting waiting to see the doctor. I know for sure they could hear the whole conversation and exam. We stopped by the pharmacy on the way home and my mom got the mineral oil enema. when she was just about to give it to me the doorbell rang. It was one of the girls and her mother offering to bring home my homework if I was going to be out of school. my mother invited them in for a minute she had the enema in the box in her hand when she answered the door. she then yelled to me get dressed and come out and say hi. I was mortified when I came out and the box was on the coffee table. They only stayed a few minutes the other mom said something like It looks like you are going to be busy for a while and the girl couldn't take her eyes off the box. They left shortly after and I got the enema in bed which never had before. I had to stay in position for a half hr after. when I went to the bathroom after nothing came out. another neighbor stopped by with her daughter we were sent out to play after they left my mom realized that the enema had started to leak out. I went back to the bathroom and only oily suds came out. My mom called the doctor and she said to get another mineral oil enema and make me hold it for an hour. that one worked

Based on how often I received them, I think she did enjoy giving. We were always alone in the house at the time.

I know my mom gave my dad enemas. We were pretty open about the fact that we got enemas. I heard my dad ask my mom for one on more than one occasion. If I saw my dad in pajamas in the afternoon, I knew he would be taking one.

I know my mom liked giving them. Sometimes should would ask me if I would "enjoy" having an enema that day. I always said yes and she would tell me to go out on pjs.

I know for sure My mom didn't enjoy for her own pleasure giving us the enemas we got just always willing to do what she could to make us better. Even if it was for faking being sick she just wanted me to focus on school...

Yes to the question . I grew up in the decade of the 1950's when home enemas were an everyday affair as to practice and our mothers of the day were very adept in this home nursing role . My mother administered an enema if I was ill and / or as she thought I had a need for same . She ' gave ' to our family and used them often herself . She had female relatives / friends who would come to our home , or we would travel there , for the express purpose during the visit of giving my mother an enema . We did have a conversation in which she indicated that yes .... she did derive a bit of personal pleasure in giving me enemas which continued thru my college / university days when I came home during or after semesters . I always knew that a ' good enema(s) ' awaited me to be given by a loving mother always with good results . I was very cooperative during our enema times which were of a ' bonding ' nature with her . Mother was a very good enema administrator which is why from my formative years until today the enema is such a part of my life . Thanks mom !!!! My mother passed away many years ago but her kind voice and caring demeanor when she ' enemaed ' me I will always cherish in my memory .

My mom and grandmother gave me enamas at same time. I was about five or six and my mother started to use the bulb and I'm of the red one and my grandmother was right there to make the Ivory soap water and give it to me tell me to hold it and watch. After a few years they went to the bag enamas. they take me in the bedroom tell me to take everything off Bend over and give it to me. After a few years my penis are get hard they tell me to stand up and hold it and watching started to giggle. They done that till I was about 17 years old. Where I got or 2 a week.I got used to it and didn't mind so. She can rub my stomach for a few minutes I was older and my penis got hard she just happened to hit it every once in awhile and they laugh a little bit more they do that at least once a week. My grandmother said oh oh that is getting big while my

mother was rubbing my stomach and hit myhard penis what's a smile on her face.

I just thought about this conversation and have another way to look at this: Lets say you wash your car, or clean your kitchen. Don't you feel good about all you hard work and the improvements you have made?? Well Moms may feel that way about having kids with clean colons too! I have to wonder if any moms have ever bragged to someone : " hey my kids have the cleanest colons in town" LOL

To "water wetter"---------That would make a great bumper sticker instead of child being on the honor roll

Not meant to be ' short ' or ' flippant ' answer to your question but .......... ' yes ' and ' yes ' as to both of your questions .

Now my wife gives me one or two a week. Nothing like mom giving you one.

At this point I can safely say that, if any of my children ever need an enema it is going to be as uncomfortable for me as for them

My mom, gram, and aunt all three gave us enemas, and gave them to each other. We were an enema family, and enemas were given at least weekly, and usually twice weekly. Looking back, all three were klismos, and took pleasure in being on either end of the hose. My father died in the war, so I have no idea if she ever gave to him.

There's no doubt that Mom enjoyed giving me enemas. She wold comment how much she appreciated me being so good for her and how it made her feel good being able to keep me healthy. I'm just not sure on what or which levels it made her "feel good". I am more certain that Ayda, the nanny enjoyed giving them and at what level based on comments and a few "situations" when I was a teen and could understand things a little better and more profoundly, perhaps.

I don’t remember the first time mom gave me an enema. It may sound weird but I liked them. I remember being told to go in the bathroom and undress . I was skinny and very self conscious but did as I was told. She was never mean about it, just was very assertive and in control. I have only done solo other than those given til I was 18. For me doing solo always meant being naked, aroused and I always climaxed after having one. I consider myself a submissive as a result.