How strict is your Dom with you?

I see on other sites subs are complaining that they wish their Dom was stricter with them. Are you happy with the level you are at?

Yes very much so.. hes as strict as he needs to be

Don't have a Dom. Not sure how strict I would want him to be. Hopefully would learn this together.

Sometimes I wish my dom would be stricter but then once I wish that I regret the strength of his hand against my bottom because I can't push myself to accept more pain.

I'm definitely happy with the place I am in with my Dom. He makes the rules and I follow them. When the time comes that I disobey or break a rule I am punished immediately. Sir orders me to strip naked and then I must walk to him and kneel in front of him. Sir sits in front of me and tells me I am going to be severely punished for what I have done. I remain kneeling with my eyes lowered listening to Sir. He asks me if I understand why I must be punished and not only do I answer in the affirmative but I also apologize for being disobedient and then I wait for my punishment which always begins with a very severe spanking. This happens whenever I disobey and Sir is absolutely right to administer discipline to me.

Mine are all dominatrix nurses who give me painful buttock injections. As with most real nurses, they can initially be kind and sympathetic so long as I am obedient but I can make them stricter by reluctance to pull down pants or bend over a receptionist's lap for my shots.

I have a very good relationship just mind her rules nothing funny.

Im awaiting a session of fun. My wife(dom mommy) and our friend Frank(dom daddy) will be home soon. I have followed her instructions. I am wearing my diaper with 3 suppositories inserted. I just got done shaving my legs, pubic hairs, butthole, and pits. I will next adorn my black high heels, bra, stockings, and black dress. When they get home, I will get to expel the suppositories. Frank will clean me and change my diaper. While I lay there bent over the bed eating her pussy, Frank will lower my diaper and will be making love to my butt. After he has gave me a load of cum and after my wife gets off, whoever came first will get my enema ready, usually Frank. After I have taken it in with the inflatable nozzle, and held it for 10 minutes, I will be making love to Frank's butt. After I cum inside him they will both give me a good spanking session. If I have been good, I will be breastfed afterwards.

After my last posting she texted me and told me that she feels I have been a good baby and after I have fun, and am properly disciplined, I will get a nice enema to clean out daddy's cum while being breastfed along with a clean diaper for the enema. AND, while the enema is in me, baby will get a nice little shot to relax me and make me sleep peacefully.

I live that being breastfeed is your reward. Sounds wonderful.

My partner and i are both switches, i am very happy with his firmness and caring during punishment, he would never harm me but hurts me pleasureably and i really enjoy this. Have no complaints at all.

At times I will be defiant just to entice him into being more strict. Mostly we don't have 'rules' or any 'true' punishment. The pain and surrender are all for pleasure and intimacy in the end.

I’d say things are about right between me and my dom. I’d say he’s not firm than he is strict. He’ll give me orders in a way that I know I’ve got to respect them but he won’t bark or shout them. He knows I’ll do it anyway and I trust him not to harm me in a lasting way.

She keeps me inline by reminding me to be submissive and or telling me to hold MY Spanking Bath Brush! BUT I do wish she would restrain me for the more severe spankings and that they were more often, only about 1 every 3-4 years😢! I do get lighter spankings “ Just because she can & wants to or for foreplay!

I have a Daddy Dom. He is not strict. I do have rules that I have to follow every day. Sometimes I wish he was more strict.

Mine is really kind with me, he is so nice, he's always patient, but when I'll lie or hide my feelings, he kind of planning to punish me in a soft manner (for example I won't be able to eat chocolate during some time), so it's really respectful and cute from him ?

@Pumpkin said:

I have a Daddy Dom. He is not strict. I do have rules that I have to follow every day. Sometimes I wish he was more strict.

If your relationship with your Dom leaves you unsatisfied, it might be a good idea to renegotiate some of its terms, means and dynamics.

My Domme / GF keeps me in line..

Strict as she needs to be, if I get out of control, then I get punished, which hurts... normally CBT with electo and cane whips.

So I behave! Simple really.

My dominant wife is never mean and does not punish me, but she is a perfectionist and will scold me if the household chores are not done to her high standards. She teases and denies my orgasms, but that's not punishment. I love being horny and on the edge all the time. Even if I never get a full blown orgasm, she allows me a ruined orgasm once or twice a month, but I always have to do my clean up duty.

I changed my sub into my Dominant Mistress because after several years of being a Dom I decided to become a switch at least at home. So I slowly butt surly have taught my sub on how to be a Mistress or Domme.

Over the course of several weeks she has become quite good in carrying out the role. I told her she needs to get on me for speeding when we are in the car, to carry a paddle in her purse so when we get to a store we find the family bathroom. Once inside she will have me bend over the baby changing table, pull my pants and undies down, take the paddle and give my naughty bare bottom 50 to 100 hard smacks to get my attention not to speed again. I will pull up my undies and pants and we will walk out with me wiping my eyes. People stare but I look straight ahead. I can feel my cheeks becoming red from embarrassment even though they don't know what happened. I watch my speed for the rest of the day, but I know when I get home I very well may be punished more. Aside from another naughty bare bottom spanking she may hae me put on a thong for the rest of the day and evening. Do corner time and then after another spanking before I take my shower, I would have to sit in a hard wooden chair for ten minutes. That really hurts my tush. Then just to assert her authority she may give me a quick 50 with a paddle before going to bed either commando or just my thong. She is also working on my procrastination.

The spankings do hurt, butt they serve a dual purpose. First to work on a fault, and second to help with stress relief.

I will have more to report as time goes on.

A Dom have to be firm

My longest dom that we actually got into our relationship for 3 years. I was 22 years old. He was 56. Years old. He was very strict. Although I was just a submissive. We both wanted it that way.

Since I've laxed up and it's mostly just over the top play now.