Punished in front of company

I'm seeing this thread again and I would like to add some precisions.

While I don't recall being spanked at home while non family was staying and thus in position of hearing the spanking, I recall being spanked at some unfamiliar place where I was taken to a "water closet" (room with toilet) and spanked. I don't recall why or where it was, so I assume I was at some friends of my parents' home. They probably could hear, despite not seeing.

Also, at some point my sister was taken to the ladies' room at a road rest area to be spanked. I'm unsure there were other people there, but if it was when going to holidays or coming back, when such rest areas are often quite crowded, one can assume there were other women in the ladies' room.

I am threatened with it too, at times. By my guy. On a few occasions, he did give me a couple of sharp swats. Like one time, we were on a yacht and I happened to lean too close over the railing. He had already warned me lest I fall. But since I was careless again, he went for it. There were people around but at some distance. Not sure if any of them saw or heard. A couple of them must have. Was royally embarrassing. Kept away from the railing after that.

I've learned a long time ago, punishing [no matter what the punishment] in front of others is a demeaning, humiliating event not just for the person being punished, but for the person doing the punishing, as it creates fodder for criticism and/or scorn by others. Criticizing, or punishing someone is a private personal event. It should not be discussed beyond the person/s being punished/criticized. Even in role/gaming playing...what goes on with your partner is a private matter, not to be shared with others.

Yes, I was spanked in front of my parents, close friends sometimes, but mostly other family members.

No I have not only have spanked in front of others when everyone there was to be spanked

When I was growing up my stepdad would sometimes threaten to spank me when we had company over or were out in public. Since he always spanked me on my bare bottom this would cause me to panic and try not to continue whatever I was doing wrong.

There were several times though that I was so worked up that I continued and got spanked anyways. At home the only people who really saw me get spanked were my mom, and my stepbrother and stepsister and a few times when I had friends over and several times when one of my stepdads friends was over.

The times it happened in public, he would usually grab my arm and lead me at least a little ways away from others and then either take me over his knees or have me bend me over and spank my bare bottom. Even though he would walk me away and tell me what was gonna happen I’m sure that people got an eye full besides hearing me getting spanked and crying about It.

I was rarely spanked at home but my Aunt often did when sent to stay with her in the school holidays. This was administered on my bare bottom pyjama bottoms removed often in front of her friends and male partner. My modesty was not a consideration before during and after my spankings.

Not really punished, but we were staying with my aunt and her family that include a girl and a boy… I had been out in the sun too long and gotten too much sun - when I came in my mother saw my legs were red and she pulled my pants and underwear down in front of everyone to see and compare my legs to the unexposed part of my body. So there I was with my little pecker dangling about, naked in front of my cousins.. I never forgot that moment. Might as well went ahead an spanked me as I could not be more embarrassed!

During my childhood my father usually spanked me in front of my other and my younger sister. Once I when I was in 1st grade I was spanked in front of them and a female babysitter. I have a vague memory of being spanked on the side of the road during a trip.

Growing up, it would not be unheard of to be spanked in front of aunts, uncles, cousins, etc, but not outside the family company. Those punishments would come after they had left.

As an adult, the closest I've ever come is having my girlfriend excuse ourselves from company and she'd take me to a private room to administer a spanking. No one saw anything, but they probably heard.

Huh.. well, now I do indeed want an audience the next time I misbehave.

Yes I did. The people present were part of the lifestyle so they weren't shocked. Some of them were there for the spanking, other seen just the end of it all as I was standing by the wall with my ass on display. It was…difficult to say the least…

I was spanked a number of times at family gatherings where people could hear my spanking. However my father always spanked private as it was bare bottom over his knee

Yes, and more than once. It was the sixties and seventies, and as far as I knew every family spanked.

One time, when I was 8, my parents and I were invited to a dinner party at the home of another couple with two kids close to my age, there were also two other adult couples present. While the adults had dinner we played upstairs, jumping around and I guess making too much noise. The host parents called their two kids downstairs to the dining room, they sent the boy into the kitchen to fetch the wooden spoon, and the father proceeded to give each kid about 10 whacks with the spoon, pants down. I was waiting on the stairs out of sight but I could hear everything.

As my friends came running out of the dining room to go back upstairs, my father yelled for me, (he didn't think it was fair that my friends got spanked and I didn't since we'd all been making noise). He borrowed the wooden spoon and made me come over to where he was, tugged my pants and underwear down and said “Over.” I leaned over his knee and he gave me at least 10 whacks with the spoon. Then I was sent upstairs with a warning to play quietly “unless you'd like a second dose.” As I left the dining room and crossed the living room, crying, I heard all the adults laughing loudly. That was my first experience with the wooden spoon, but apparently my parents liked the effect on me, and it became a regular implement after that.

To further answer OP's question, I don't think the adults had any problem with it, certainly no one was upset, – kids got spanked, and the parents in the house were frequent spankers (I don't think I ever visited when either one or the other of the kids wasn't punished, or threatened). As for me, I was embarrassed. When I was sitting on the stairs I kind of knew my dad would call me in. I don't think I looked at anyone in the room besides my father and my mother – but I knew everyone was watching. The worst thing was the laughter afterwards.

Every now and then my brother and I got it in front of each other. There were times when family that included cousins was over and one of us got our ass whipped for something we did, but I don't remember anyone getting spanked in front everyone. We were usually sent to out parents room to get it. My family made you drop your pants so they wouldn't make you do that in front of family or guests but hey had no qualms about discussing it with anyone, and they didn't care if anyone heard you getting it. It was totally normal for kids to get spanked back then.

Growing up we often had other families with kids around my age over and sometimes we’d get in trouble for roughhousing, making a mess, or generally not listening to the adults. One time our parents were pretty upset and my friend was taken over his dad’s lap for a spanking. I was embarrassed for him and terrified I might be next! They left shortly after and I truly thought I had gotten away with it. Until I heard my dad say, “Come over here right now, young lady. It’s time for the spanking you earned for yourself tonight.”

Some years ago, I text chatted many time at length with a woman who was subjected to all sorts of punishments by her husband, at least that's what I was told and I have no reason to disbelieve her.

She told me of being on her tummy on a padded spanking bench, wrists and ankles attached to the bench legs, catheterized with a plugged Foley, and retaining a large, soapy enema, and being spanked with a belt, as her friends watched. Everyone got to watch her vaginal lips being spread with a speculum and the catheter being inserted while in stirrups and the enemas given.

Other punishments included being given a very strong dose of Dulcolax pills, about 6 as I remember, and being diapered and shackled to the bedpost for the night. The laxative had to be taken and she was diapered as her friends watched. Everyone knew full well what was going to happen. She was left thus long after the laxative had worked fully.

The worst, I think, was having to lie under a folding camping toilet as her friends used it and others watched. The friends were given suppositories before sitting to be sure of a full effect.

She was also required to do housework or yard work, wearing a backpack holding an enema bag connected to an inflated retention nozzle in her butt. I think some of her friends were also receivers of similar treatments. She told me the enemas were very soapy, some times with added glycerin, and the required retention times long. Expulsion was always while standing nude on a deck, butt pointing outwards into the yard.

I don't know why she put up with such treatment, but it may have been she felt she had no other options and didn't want to wind up on the street.

@sean

I don't know why she put up with such treatment, but it may have been she felt she had no other options and didn't want to wind up on the street.

With treatment like this, it seems that if she wished to press charges against her husband for a divorce and sundry mistreatment, he would be the one that ended up on the street paying her the rest of his life.

So, if true, it may not have been against her will.

It she told you all this over the phone or internet - she probably embellished quite a bit of it. You never witnessed any of this?

@gwhap

@agracier

As I said, my only communication with her was via text chat. Buy I'm inclined to believe what she said because of consistency of the story over 5 years or more….. implying either the stories were fairly true or else she had a remarkable memory for fiction. Also, I did see some pictures. that were consistent with the texts.

Anyway, the issue is moot since she has disappeared from the chat, and I no longer have any means of contact. I hope she has not been injured or worse.

As I said, my only communication with her was via text chat. Buy I'm inclined to believe what she said because of consistency of the story over 5 years or more….. I

@Sean - Consistency is really hard to maintain when someone lies so I would tend to believe her as well - I think it was Lincoln who said: “No man has a good enough memory to be a successful liar.” Still, pretty outrageous stuff!

@GracieGirl I was embarrassed for him and terrified I might be next!

Kind of the way I always felt when seeing someone my age being spanked. As mesmerizing as it was, I would leave if I could so as not to see it happening; yet, the event would stick in my mind and I would find it exciting to later about. I can still picture a few.

@gwhap

From what she said, she had it pretty hard before she married the guy. He used that to control her. IMO there was no question in my mind that he was a sadist and was abusing her. I wanted to help her, but could not do so, having nothing but a screen name. I believe she could have gone to a shelter or something but that was her decision.

Also, I suspect it was a mixed emotion thing… she secretly liked some of the stuff, but hated other things. I know she really hated the overnight powerful laxative and diaper sessions, especially when she and a friend had to do them while cuffed together, but I suspect she secretly somewhat liked some of the spanking bench sessions.

I forgot to mention, she was often catheterized in the presence of friends and had to walk around nude in front of them with the Foley in her, connected to a leg bag. Later, she was given that pee as an enema.

I wouldn't be comfortable being punished in front of company.

@Kappy

Well Kappy, that's exactly why it's done. If you get a spanking or an enema, or both, in private, you may well offend again. However, if you get it while being watched by your friends, especially of mixed sexes, your punishment will be enhanced by the shame you feel, so the punishment will be more effective and memorable.

I was spanked by my gf´s stepmother in front of her. Full story here: https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=981526

She never said it straightly, but it´s obvious she couldn´t see me the same way again. She even started to get more dominant with me, both in and outside the bedroom.

I was spanked by my gf´s stepmother in front of her. Full story here: https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=981526

She never said it straightly, but it´s obvious she couldn´t see me the same way again. She even started to get more dominant with me, both in and outside the bedroom.

Reread the story. Sounds like using the word ‘spanking’ doesn't do full justice to what the stepmother liked to do. I doubt she was trying to correct any adverse behavior on your part. Sounds more like she'd found in you a pretty good object to work out her sexual fantasies on …

There were no physical punishments for me growing up. Only psychological, like silent treatments.

My first “spanking” was just some friendly swats on my cheeks by my teenage girlfriend, during sleepovers. Spanking is not much a part of my life, though I admit the thought of it is soooo intriguing, particularly because of the bare bottom aspect, bending over, pulling down my panties, obeying. A couple times, after being examined by one of my play partners, she's doled out punishments… once with her hand, another time with a thin rod. Both were very painful, but with me in such a state of submissiveness and erotic bliss, I admit that I loved being punished like that.

I just can't bring myself to ask to be punished, so…

@GraceT Well do what most submissives do when they want it but can't ask for it, misbehave, be bratty so the other person wants to punish you.

My mother seemed to go out if her way to make sure I was punished in front of others always bare bottomed and over her knee, was mainly done in front of family but could be done in front if her friends or my friend.