Punished in front of company

He asked me if I was lying about something from awhile back. He told me if I admitted I lied I would not get the strap. Stupidly, I admitted to lying. Immediately, he ordered me to get undressed, took his belt off, told me to bend over the bed and warned I was about to get the beating of my life.

I don't suppose your father saw any inconsistency in all of this? By his logic, he should have gotten the beating of his life too, for lying.

Just what kind of lesson would anyone learn from this? I'd say that in the best tradition of crime novels, never, ever, ever. ever confess to anything. Take the Fifth, clam up and admit to nothing. If a sense of humor would have done any good, I'd have asked for my lawyer to be present.

As long as they are kink friendly or in the community and are cool with it, having company would add to the humiliation for most folks. Since humiliation is almost and inherent part of the punishment the more the merrier!

Would love to be punished in front of strangers. Not really spanking but something more suttle in frony of vanilla strangers.

Like eating/ drinking what was ordered for me ( not by me)

Remote control vibrator.

Hiding golf ball in panties

Having pussy waxed by unknown male.

In front of not so vanilla starngers:

Having my pussy checked out and comments being made by how wet I am

Bend over, hold onto my ankles whilst pussy is being fingered.

Not allowed to make a sound.

Having to verbalise in front of a group how I am getting horny and having to tell them a fantasy of mine.

Being tied up whilst my pussy is being licked .

I only remember 2 spankings in front of company... Once in front of my uncle.... and once not in front of but in my room door open when my parents friends and their kids were in the living room listening to it.. I was really embarrassed about my uncle but the other one not at all I real deserved it and I had heard my friends get it before...

I waa spanked in front of company before. My dad most of it when I was a child and even in front of my big sister. If it caused me to have tears run down my face, I always hid under a bed and my brother-in-law would think it was funny to stand in the hallway with a big ? on his face thinking that it was funny. I was under age 10.

I was punished in front of company when I was fourteen during a family gathering. I was in the garage with my male cousins all younger than me, my Dad and their fathers. I remember the adult men were drinking and telling jokes. I swore and my Dad yelled at me “What did you say?” He immediately grabbed from behind pulled down my jeans and tightly whities and gave me 10 hard seats with his hand. I was in tears when he finished, never swore in front of him again.

Not exactly in front of comapany but in front of guys in locker room 7th garde to seniors----I was the biggest strongest senior and the coach a mean little twerp He paddled my naked butt damn hard in front of everyone someguys 12 or 13 It embaaarssed me as i was so much bigger and stronger than coach I do not mean to brag but i was bigger and stronger than anyone in locker room----It hurt on my naked butt alot but it was also humiliating-----He made me tell him (and everyone) why I needed to be paddled--(as I stood there naked before bending over) and after the bare paddling-- thank him for the paddling and shake his hand-----the latter making me almost vomit----I hate to give the littl Hitler any credit but he sure did know how to make a guy's bare butt really hurt!

I hate to give the littl Hitler any credit but he sure did know how to make a guy's bare butt really hurt!

What kind of credit is there to give in that?

Out of curiosity, were the punishments really justified? I mean, what in the world can you do in sports that justifies physical punishments and public humiliation? If you were really a deliberate screw-up, you would get kicked from the team. So what was it for? Losing a game?

If you'd later have beaten him up after graduating - being stronger and all - and if you had come into a court where I was presiding judge, you would have a case of justifiable retribution in my ruling.

Getting spanked in front of extended family was not at all exceptional. I hated being spanked in front of the adult family members. I wasn't too concerned about my similarly aged cousins seeing me spanked. I'd seen them spanked plenty of times.

One event that stands out in my mind was a spanking I got in front of 8 or 10 women when I was 7 or 8. It was my mom's turn to host one of her committee meetings at our house. Before their arrival I was told to not interrupt them. I did ok for a time but became bored and started to do things to get attention. Mom reached her limit and then reached for me. As the women watched she started removing my pants and underwear as I struggled to get away. She warned me to stop resisting or she'd get the paddle. I certainly didn't want that and quickly ended up across her lap as she spanked my bare butt as these ladies looked on with expressions of approval and satisfaction.

Fiance was paddled in the nude in front of one of our female friends. Then, the friend also got nude for me and let me take pics of them next to each other.

Working on getting the GF to let the friend watch me give the GF a full gyno exam as well.

The friend did let me use the violet wand on her breasts and nipples though.

We were having a barbecue with the neighbors. My sister and I and the neighbors two kids started throwing cups of water at each other and got some of the adults wet. The four us had our britches pulled down and got a sound spanking from my mom.

I was not, but my youngest brother was. My future husband and i were helping with the Christmas decorations and my youngest brother shoved my sister against a side table. As a result, she cut her head slightly and the lamp was knocked over. After attending to our sister, mom took my brother into the kitchen, closed the swinging door and paddled my 12 year old brother. I did not need to open the door to know that he was pants down, over her lap, and getting soundly whacked with her favorite oversized ping pong paddle. i think I was as embarrassed in front of my fiancee as my brother was, when he came out of the kitchen red faced and doing up his pants!

Was often spanked in front of relations. My Dad always carried out the punishments we had earned on Friday nights.We haed an old padded chair oin the cellar that we had to bend over with our pants down.Usually his brother(my Uncle Tom)would come down and watch as myself and brothers took a good spanking .It was quite embarrassing knowing they were watching.We were also spanked in front of our Grandad when he came to live with us.

Just fantasizing about being stripped naked, restrained and punished in front of a group of strangers who would be allowed to participate is making me very hot. No part of my body would be off limits.

Never spanked as a child in front of anyone , very rarely got a spanking, just a swat now and then but always dressed. As far as the coach who paddled those boys, thats child abuse , he had no right to do that. I was in the 60s too but that did not go on where i attended school. And any discipline by parents should be private not with an audience. Harsh spanking when disciplining children is not acceptable and i totally disagree

Toshe: It happens that teachers exceed the bounds. For instance, in France (as opposed to some US states even today) corporal punishment was officially prohibited in schools. Yet, my mother and other older people recall teachers hitting children's fingertips with a ruler.

I grew up in the 50's and 60's in a small midwestern town and corporal punishment of any kind was prohibited at schools, sports etc.

I did take piano lessons from a catholic nun - Sister Mary Edwards - who used a ruler to rap my fingers when I played a wrong note - or couldn't find the correct key. Not violent but it hurt. Sometimes I was so worried about the knuckle raps I couldn't concentrate!

I grew up in the 50's and 60's in a small midwestern town and corporal punishment of any kind was prohibited at schools, sports etc.

I don't think that applied to Catholic schools did it? When the kids from the Catholic school joined the rest us in the 7th grade public school in the early 50s they all talked about the ruler whacks.

@Nipples20

Just fantasizing about being stripped naked, restrained and punished in front of a group of strangers who would be allowed to participate is making me very hot. No part of my body would be off limits.

Just fantasizing about that too. Vermont would be about half way.

We rarely got spanked. Sometimes mom would go after someone with a wooden spoon and wherever you happened to be would be where you got it and if there were others around too bad. Dad took you into a bedroom for the even rarer belt.

i am guessing you are much younger than I and probably not of rural high school background thanks for writing

I'm pretty certain I am older than you, I went to grade school in the 1950s and high school in Belgium in the 1960s. In suburban USA and then in urban Belgium ... so indeed, no rural high school experience (which seems like a lucky break for me after reading so many posts here ... ha ha)

Nope, never been punished in front of company really. I was generally on my best behavior when company was present to start with. If, when correction was rarely needed in that context, a word or even better a word with an accompanying look was all it took for this good girl to fall into line! INSTANT and future compliance effectively achieved, but then I had been well prepped for the expected behavior particularly when company was around. My little sister somehow did not inherit my compliant streak!

PS My personal thought is that after a child's certain age and maturity, physical punishment is inappropriate and a child can better understand things like words, maintaining a relationship, natural consequences, reasoning etc.

I did take piano lessons from a catholic nun - Sister Mary Edwards - who used a ruler to rap my fingers when I played a wrong note - or couldn't find the correct key. Not violent but it hurt. Sometimes I was so worried about the knuckle raps I couldn't concentrate!

That is what often galls me, the utter stupidity of physical punishment and how counter-productive it is. Of course a pupil can't concentrate if they have to worry about being whacked over the knuckles. So utter obvious. Especially in an endeavor like learning how to play a musical instrument. Doing it well requires a different state of mind, a sort of automation of the reflexes, feelings and technique.

Just try and get into that state if some sadist nincompoop keeps rapping you with a ruler. Stupid, stupid, stupid ... sometimes I wish I could read some accounts about how those dishing out needless punishments got it back tenfold. Or at least a good punch to the jaw ...

When I was 22 or 23 I was visiting a friend I worked with who had a super cute sexy daughter who was too young for me at 14. She had just come home and was in the shower when he found out about something she had done while she was out that was not on his list of things she could do. He went into the bathroom, dragged her naked wet body out of the shower and into the living room where we were sitting, put her over his knee and proceeded to turn her sweet ass pink. Those slaps must have stung on her cute wet ass and I wanted to comfort her so bad but didn't like the idea of dying young.

I don't know how embarrassed she was but she always seemed to be closer to me after that even though we had to stay apart due to our ages. Being a single guy living in a room they used to invite me over to eat quite often. She always insisted on making what she knew I liked to eat special for me. Of course she also delighted in stretching her shoulders back to emphasize what I was never going to see naked again. I think that was to torture me.

@roscoe

I don't think that applied to Catholic schools did it? When the kids from the Catholic school joined the rest us in the 7th grade public school in the early 50s they all talked about the ruler whacks.

Ruler whacks to the butt? Or knuckles? I didn't go to a catholic school - just took piano lessons there at zero-dark thirty one day a week. I got whacked on the fingers/knuckles during piano lessons. Don't know what went on in the schoolroom. I dated a girl who went to that school, and she never mentioned any corporal discipline. The catholic school only went through 9th grade - then off to public high school. The kids coming over from the catholic school said they were a lot more strict than the public high school.

To the knuckles where it hurt with no padding. I think I'd prefer the butt.

My disciplinarian has washed my mouth out with soap for mouthing off to her in front of one of her frnds I was also spanked in front her after the mouth soaping and stood in corner on display.

My senior year in high school my bff was spending the night and my stepdaddy warned us to turn down our music twice and she accidentally turned it way up again and he came in my bedroom with his belt folded in half and made me drop my shorts and panties and lean over the bed right in front of her. She was a true friend and never told anyone.

My girlfriend (I'll call her Lori) has disciplined me in front of her sister (I'll call her Mary) on multiple occasions.

On one such occasion Mary's boyfriend (I'll call him Joe) was also present. I had forgotten that the four of us were having a BBQ at Joe and Mary's place on a Saturday afternoon, and I was supposed to bring the pork chops. I was supposed to be there by 3:30pm. When I hadn't arrived by 4pm, Lori called me on my cell phone. I was at a friend's house, helping him build a back porch and deck.

Of course, I apologized profusely. Lori sounded VERY understanding when she said not to worry about it, but to please go home to shower (I was sweaty from the outdoor carpentry), and to please show up at Mary's place ASAP. I was about 25 minutes from home, so it took me about 45 minutes to drive home and take my shower. Lori texted me, whiIe I was in the shower, to remind me not to forget the pork chops. Then she sent me a second text that just said, "I love you." (with a ? emoji).

I was thinking, while I was getting dressed, that Lori was being very understanding (because of how calm and forgiving she sounded on the phone and in her text messages). Joe and Mary lived only about a half-mile away, so I calculated that I was going to be about 1.5 hours late. I thought to myself that, even though Lori sounded very understanding, I would probably be punished when we arrived home from the BBQ.

In my rush to get to Joe's and Mary's place, I almost walked out of the house without the pork chops. When I went to retrieve the pork chops from the freezer, they were gone... in their place, in the freezer, was Lori's hairbrush and her penis whip! I was absolutely horrified when I came to the realization that Lori had already retrieved the pork chops and intended/expected me to bring the hairbrush and penis whip to Joe's and Mary's place! Lori had previously disciplined me in front of Mary, but only at our house, and never in front of Joe (in fact, never in front of any male). I knew I had no choice, so I walked the half-mile, carrying the implements with which I would be punished.

Lori, Joe, and Mary were in the backyard and had already eaten by the time I arrived at the BBQ. When Lori saw me arrive in the backyard, she said very calmly, "You'll be going to bed without dinner and with a VERY sore butt tonight."

"And Mary wants Joe to see how she plans to discipline him moving forward, so I'm going to punish you right here, right now."

"Give me my hairbrush and penis whip, and strip down to your boxers!"

"Yes ma'am."

"Just like at home, you're not allowed to have an erection while you're over my lap. If you do, I'll whip it until it's flaccid."

"Yes ma'am."

"I can see that you already have an erection. Take off your boxers!"

"Yes ma'am."

At this point, I knew what to do. I laid myself across Lori's lap, face up... with my butt on her thighs and my bare erection presented for discipline where you would usually expect to find a bare butt during an over-the-lap spanking... a very uncomfortable position! Lori began thrashing my erection with her penis whip. At first the thrashing only aroused me more -- I went from hard to rock hard. But, after about 5 minutes, I went flaccid.

"Okay. Turn over, so I can blister your bottom!"

"Yes ma'am."

At this point, Lori began with the hairbrush. My erection returned after about 5 minutes, so I had to turn back over for another penis thrashing. Then I had to turn back over again for the completion of my butt blistering.

Having this discipline administered in front of Joe and Mary, in their backyard, was one of the most humbling punishments that I've ever received.

Not Yet. But I would like to be punished in front of her divorced girlfriend. I am a total Sissy Housewife Husband. Being exposed as the Sissy I am and getting a hard paddling would be very intense. Plus it would an excellent obedience training for me.