Punished in front of company

Ouch, I'm sorry for the ping pong paddle. I used that once on Doc and he said it's the worst thing he's ever been spanked by, and he hates it. I still have it in my suitcase by the way. 😈

Mashie

Mashie, rijames99: I think it's indeed wrong to override the resistance to such a prank. Either it's done in good fun, and if the person does not want it, so be it. Either it's abuse.

This reminds me of hazing in certain French higher education facilities. Some people claim it's all in good fun but some people who had to go through it disagree - enormous peer pressure to go through unsavory things.

Pecan, you are completely missing the point here. It isn't anything even close or remotely related to hazing. It's something we ALL looked forward to and couldn't wait for. It was fun, it was our 15 minutes of fame for the year. It didn't hurt and it wasn't meant to be painful and it never was. We all laughed and had such a good time. I remember a few times when we ran out of time or the teacher forgot and the student who's birthday it was that didn't get to go through the spanking machine would complain and feel left out. Then the teacher always made sure it was done the next day. Also unlike hazing where the person doesn't really have a choice, we always had the choice of whether or not we wanted to do that or not and everyone chose to do so, and did so with great excitement and enthusiasm as well. Trust me when I tell you, all of us couldn't wait for this to happen, we loved it.

Mashie

Mashie: yes yes yes! Just stressing that children and teens should be able to refuse things done "all in good fun"

Ahhh birthday spankings ARE fun!!! They always were, until I met my (now ex) husband and my best friends ( also now ex) husband. Ok, I lied, it was still fun! They just hit hard, but it was still all in fun. Clay, my friends husband is a mechanic, and he is very strong. He can lift car motors by himself (for real!). My husband was just very strong. I always enjoyed the birthday spankings (and sometimes they were for no reason at all other than being mouthy). They were not because of BDSM, because neither guy was into that, and neither were my friend and I at the time. If it was me getting them (and it usually was), it ended up with a big wrestling match, with them trying to hold me down and me trying to get away. I lost the battles, but it wasn't from lack of trying! It was always fun and we were always laughing.

Last year on my birthday, I wanted birthday sex from our Dom. At the time, we still all 3 played together, my friend and I and him. He made me count out loud every swat, and I had to remember in between what number he was on or I would get more. They were more painful than the ones I just told about because they were on bare skin and not through clothes. That was fun too, but a different kind of fun. I didn't get birthday sex this year because I had carpel tunnel surgery in both wrists this month, on March 8th and March 22 (My birthday is March 20th). My hands and wrists hurt to much still for any kind of fun like that.

As for being spanked in public, that hasn't happened since I was a little kid. I remember being hauled out of a grocery store and spanked on the bottom (probably bare) in my moms car. I had thrown tantrums in the store. It happened more than once. I probably got spanked IN the stores too! I still hate the grocery store, lol!!!

Breeze, I am going to say this with all the love in the world okay, so please keep that in mind as you read what I am going to say.

What do you mean you didn't have sex on your birthday. Happy late birthday by the way. What do your wrists have to do with sex? Yes I realize that some positions are out i.e. doggy style for example, but there are so many others that do not require your wrists at all, trust me.

7 years ago when I had my kidney surgery, it was a lot more extensive than they had anticipated and they actually had to change surgeons in the middle of my surgery because I was in there so long, laser exposure, and the whole 9 yards. While they didn't actually cut my skin, it was still major surgery. I got out of the hospital and back to my hotel at like 9am the following day after surgery. I rested most of the day and Doc came over after work that night. I remember that night like it was yesterday actually, lol.

I was on 4mg of Dilaudid actually but hadn't taken any yet because I hadn't needed it. We were laying there in bed and he was talking to me, actually explaining to me more in detail about diabetes and how and why they decide what and how much insulin to use and or prescribe. I find that stuff very interesting actually. Then I rolled over and basically told him this, "your penis in my vagina, now please". He actually had a confused look on his face. So I started being all naughty with him. He was still a bit confused and actually tried to refuse me saying that as a doctor he didn't think sex that soon after major surgery was a good idea. I reminded him that my boyfriend was a doctor and if anything happened he could take care of me. Crazy as it sounds, that was really really good sex. Not that any sex with Doc isn't over the top great, it is. But sex that night was soft and slow, very loving. It was even deeper than how we even make love. There were not words for it. He made me cry that night actually. He thought he hurt me but he didn't. He just made me fall in love with him all over again that night.

Mashie

I have used punishment in front of company in the past to heighten the sense of humiliation. I'm often told that that aspect is worse than the primary punishment (usually spanking).

I have used punishment in front of company in the past to heighten the sense of humiliation. I'm often told that that aspect is worse than the primary punishment (usually spanking).

When someone is punished in front of company, isn't that really nothing more than an element of playacting? And if it is playacting, then it really isn't punishment but something that is in one way or another fulfilling if not even outright fun?

I got enemas in front of family, yes. Normally, my dad's parents. It was very humiliating! I hated it. I lost control of my body, and didn't understand what was happening to me! Now, I understand, and I still get enemas in front of others, and I love it!

I've been punished in front of a group. But let me say this first, I get off on the humiliation. That's what makes it so exciting.

Hubby arrange it. He has poker games and his close friends come. All men. It was awful and exciting time. I was made to. Kneel on coffee table and he used a belt. He also let each guy take a turn. Was a great time

My parents, grand parents, aunts and uncles were all spanko's back in the 1950s and 60's and 70's. So it didn't matter who was in the house at the time, my two older brothers and myself were called over someones lap then our pants and undies were taken down to our knees or ankles. It didn't matter if my cousin and her friends were present or neighbors or other family friends even though we were totally embarrassed we were spanked till our bottoms were bright red and we were crying promising to be good boys.

As long as we were living at home we got spanked. The old saying was the truth at our house..."You would never be to old to be spanked on your naughty bare bottom "

There was a story written in a Florida newspaper some 15 years ago, that the writer could dramaticly lower the crime rate in kids. The Florida county sheriffs would administer bare bottom spankings on the courthouse steps to all juveniles that were guilty a minor crime that week/month. Boys or girls alike with their parents and all townspeople present.

That would never fly with today's standards of "spare the rod" -----BUT I wonder if the humiliation factor might have worked???

There was a story written in a Florida newspaper some 15 years ago, that the writer could dramaticly lower the crime rate in kids. The Florida county sheriffs would administer bare bottom spankings on the courthouse steps to all juveniles that were guilty a minor crime that week/month. Boys or girls alike with their parents and all townspeople present.

That would never fly with today's standards of "spare the rod" -----BUT I wonder if the humiliation factor might have worked???

Oh for goodness sakes, what nonsense next? Ever stop and think what the resentment factor and the getting-back-for-the-humiliation factor might end up causing?

I suppose some folks eat up these kind of articles, maybe because they have a mean disposition and resentful character to begin with, maybe because they'd get their jollies watching this kind of stuff in public. I'd bet they're also the type who are pretty vocal when it comes to criticizing other cultures for what they think are 'inhumane and barbarous' punishments.

All good and well when it comes to fantasies and story telling, lots of fun in that case. But in real life? C'mon, get real.

There was a story not long ago about an American youth (16-17yo) that was guilty of some crime in Singapore and he was strapped down to a board and beat with some sort of stick in public (if I remember correctly---dont remember if he was stripped or not )---this was only about 8 years ago--and that story was all over the newspapers

There was a story not long ago about an American youth (16-17yo) that was guilty of some crime in Singapore and he was strapped down to a board and beat with some sort of stick in public (if I remember correctly---dont remember if he was stripped or not )---this was only about 8 years ago--and that story was all over the newspapers

You do understand that Singapore, for all its wonderful business growth and prosperity, is still nothing but a benevolent, somewhat watered-down dictatorship, populated by a very ethnic-centric population. You wanna make money? Fine, the place to be, but remember, Big Brother is alive and well. Some laws are draconian and needlessly harsh. Step out of line and you'll live to regret it.

At least we are sticking to the topic----LOL

Oh for goodness sakes, what nonsense next? Ever stop and think what the resentment factor and the getting-back-for-the-humiliation factor might end up causing?

Absolutely, there would be a lot of entertained pedophiles and sick perverts that would have live front row seats to their fantasies. As well as a breeding ground for school shooters and lone wolf attacks that would have one more really valid reason to get back at society.

We live in an FLR so the answer is yes. I have been punished in front of her best friend and also the couple that lives 2 houses away that we are good friends with and know about our relationship. My wife doesn't call them punishments but rather behavior corrections..... The first few times it was humiliating, but now it is just embarrassing....

Never been spanked in public but i imagine it would be very embrassing as i kick wriggle and clench and general resisit a sound beating i would probally wet myself in fear and embrassment and recieve a worse beating!

I was punished a few times in front of my Dom's friends. It was usually a spanking/paddling/whipping or I was receiving an enema.

Now I need spanking. Lately my behavior is beckoning for one. I'd benefit from one with my panties pulled down to my knees but it should be in front of some people because I really have the need for some serious humiliation to regain some humility. I need some shame and embarrassment.

My bottom needs whooping with a switch, paddling and probably a belt.The discomfort is necessary to take the edge off this naughtiness, it's intolerable. My bottom needs the pain to remember that a spanking will be repeated if I don't learn from getting humiliated. Seems to work with others. Ouch...now when am I going to bend over to feel my panties get pulled down only to wait for the first smacking my bare ass? ! I think my top should be pulled up for my tits to be exposed as well....it'll add to the humiliation.

Takeitin

You must describe your naughtiness then I have a paddle and a strap that will give your bare butt just what it needs. You will need to supply the friends to watch. Once you have been throughly paddled and strapped you will be sobbing, blubbering, rubbing and hopping in front of everyone.

When that is finished you will be placed naked on your back while two of the group holds up your legs and they will watch you get a large hot soapy enema. They will watch you struggle to hold it. The will follow you to the bath room and watch and listen as you get rid of it. That should be humiliating enough to straighten you out.

This would be part of a fantasy scenario for many of us, but pretty rare as a real occurrence. I was never spanked as a xhild, but I know of friends who were, and sometimes this would happen when people were around to see and or hear.

As an Adult DL, having my pants pulled down and my diaper exposed, being put over someone's knee, and being soundly spanked is all part of what goes through my mind from time to time, but it stays there. Add to the mix, again as a scenario, having this happen while several people are present, and you get a very exciting event.

When I was 13 I was caught with a friend taking his dad's truck for a drive around the block. The next day my mother who was a teacher told me to come straight home after school for a spanking. She got home just after me and had me undress and come out in the living room where she proceeded to spank me with a large wooden ruler while I was bent over the sofa.

As she was spanking two older girls came to the door to get a book. She made me stand there facing the door while she let them in and went and hunted for what they wanted. She brought it to them and asked them to make sure it had the information they needed and then resumed spanking me with a leather belt. I was soon crying. After a couple of minutes they thanked mum and left. I heard the laughing outside.

When I complained that they had seen me naked and getting spanked my mother said that if I didn't like that I should behave. After I was spanked I had to stand in the corner while she had 2 friends who were teachers come over for tea and a chance to see how well she had spanked me. This was in 1963 when spanking was very common.

Just a few years ago, about 6, I went to a friends house to pick up some diving equipment. His wife was in the process of spanking their 15 yo son. I could hear it from the closed front door and when she opened it their son was just pulling his underpants up. She then told me that she had caught him with drugs and was just going to finish his spanking which she did while I was still standing their waiting to pick up the scuba tank. I felt really sorry for the young man getting his pants pulled down again in front of me and getting his already red butt getting it again. This lasted for about 5 minutes and then she told me to go to the basement to get the tank. I left and the boy was still crying, and standing in their living room. The humiliation that he must have suffered must have been awful. I since have moved, but I bet he never did the drug scene again.

Hubby has only ever spanked me once in front of someone, but there has been occasions where I'm spanked in one part of the house for example our bedroom, and people are downstairs 😢

Donna

When I was 15, I went next door to BS with the husband. He was about 25 and a really cool guy. He was working on a motor bike and we were talking, when he called for his wife to bring him a beer. He took one sip of the beer and it was not cold enough for him. He called his wife back and told her the beer is hot and she needed to be punished. She must have known what that meant, she turned around and pulled her pants and panties down. He pulled his belt off and spanked her bare ass untill she was crying. That has been over 40 years ago, and I can still see that picture in my mind.

Whenever this topic comes up I am always conflicted, on one hand it can seem incredibly erotic when considerations are made to the disposition and closeness of the observers. But in most cases the practice seems regressive at best, and down right barbarous at worst. This kind of play is definitely nuanced and should be treated with much care.

I have been spanked by my wife when our daughter is visiting or stopping by to go shopping or something but my wife takes me to the den but anyone can hear the spanking it is on the bare bottom with a paddle !

Yes. I was a teenager and my uncles and my father's male friends were in the living room. My father took my into his bedroom which was right next to the living room. He asked me if I was lying about something from awhile back. He told me if I admitted I lied I would not get the strap. Stupidly, I admitted to lying. Immediately, he ordered me to get undressed, took his belt off, told me to bend over the bed and warned I was about to get the beating of my life.

My uncle and his friends were right in the next room and could see and hear everything. My father beat me with his strap. I screamed repeatedly each time the belt hit my thighs, ass, my back. He put his belt back on, told me get dressed and go to my room. I was so humiliated walking past my uncle and his friends.