How often are you spanked?

How much is too much for you?

Every now and then at a play party but it's not my favorite.

Not very often... I get away with a lot.

Depends on the week. I am not spanked for fun or anything like that. There are rules and an expectation to comply with them and act my age, polite, ext. There have been times I have been spanked more than once in a day or once a week. I usually haven't gone more than a week without earning a spanking. The severity and proceeding punishment is also dependent on what earned the spanking. When I'm warned that if I don't stop arguing or doing what I'm doing I'll get a spanking, I know that if I don't listen I'll make it worse. Spankings are non negotiable and are always bare bottom, how sore my bottom is later is up to me, if I earn a spanking, a spanking will be given. It's a balance between learning to listen and behaving and having someone who cares enough to enforce that bad behavior is punished. It's never out of anger or more than what matches the offense and rule broken. But it always hurts and is embarrassing and makes me think twice. From where I started and now, it's proven to work but obviously is still very much needed,

Lately not any , but before yes LOTS and I worked for them too.

She enjoyed them also , but differenly than I did .

WC

Not much as an adult buy 3 times a week as a teen and pre teen

It doesn't matter how often is too often for me, however often the rules are broken will dictate how often spankings are administered.

Not often enough! 😃 My spankings are not very long, or very hard, but I am spanked about 2 times a week. I do wish my wife would give me a few severe spankings a year!

Daddy always makes sure I cry when I'm spanked ... it can happen every day; or can be a month between spanking...

Depending on my behaviour and my husbands mood i get i one or twice a week.

I am about to get a spanking now! long over due! I do not get spanked enough, only 1 or 2 times did I not want to get another spanking soon! Hope my spanking today is one of those!

I was able to get two spankings in Wednesday. Before my wife went to Lunch with a friend, She took me over her lap and used the oak paddle on my naughty bare bottom. After lunch I called a friend who came over and gave me a second spanking with his hand, cherry paddle, and tawse.. One hundred with each implement. Left my tush bright red and me with tears in my eyes..

Unfortunately, not often enough. Usually I have to administer the spankings, but never can find enough people to give them to me.

I am awaiting a 66th birthday spanking, I know I want one & need one, but am not in my mind space for one. 2 days over due! Wish my wife would take control & put me in my place & spank me soon!!!

In a very good marriage i get paddled bare from my wife about two times a yr---it hurts but it settles things fast and things get back to normal real quick---I know i got it coming so no argument from me just a bare butt right out of the shower My wife knows i want it over asap so normally no wait period-- which would make me nervous though its a long standing event in our marriage and always the same I still always feel nervous right before I bend over to get it--she can make it hurt

My Husband/Daddy retired years ago (he's18 years older than I) When I was working I got spanked 3-4 times a week depending on my behavior. Since I retired 2 years ago I've been spanked more frequently. We are able to spend more time together which is great but it also allows him to witness more of my infractions than before. Currently I seem to get spanked 4-6 times a week. Still it all depends on my behavior. We're in a same sex marriage but have been together 26 years. We've practiced DD from the beginning.

I definitely don't get spanked enough, but I am starting to be spanked hard enough, lol. I also love to administer the spanking as well. I just love the whole concept of spanking, especially in a marriage or a marriage like relationship.

Mashie

I was spanked about 5 times last month. None to now this month, I hope she makes up for it soon! How many are too many? It depends on how severe they are, a severe one once a week might be my maximum. Quick spankings twice a day I would like!

Depends what the real question is in play with adult play partner ? or as child growing up at home with strict parent who believed in corporal punishment?

Not soon enough ! I cant wait.......yum !

Growing up in the state care system, the word spanking was never used,

We were beaten up, fists in faces, slapped around the head, I still have little hearing in my right ear from a blow to the head.

I think when in play I try to create play situation where disapline (sik)) I know that is spelt wronge sorry)Is done in a more decent and predicatable manner,

I think I am burying bad memories with good, and it seem so work,

Unfortunately not enough.

Never often enough....However ...Sunday is my 71st Birthday so I hope my wife will give each bare cheek 71 spanks with the implement of her choice..

I only get spanked once a week now as my partner & I only get to see each other on weekends due to our careers. He uses spankings as the first step to taking me into subspace. There are times my ass is purple with marks and other times not, depending on whether he uses his hand, a paddle or a flogger. Even, if my ass is purple, if he wants to spank me again, I will gladly bend over for him. He can often make me cum just from spanking me. Then, during the week, I love feeling my sore behind when I sit down. By Wednesday I am craving the feel of his hand on my ass again.

Growing up it seemed like I was always in trouble for one thing or another and got spanked. Mom believed in bare butt spankings. After I got married my wife and sister were talking, my sister told her about some of my spankings. In bed that night my wife started asking me about being spanked and asked a ton of questions, then she got up, told me to pull my underwear off and stand up with my hands behind my head---she was holding a ping pong paddle. I was totally embarased, yet did as she said. The spanking was not all that hard, but oh so humiliating. We had great sex after that, and more spankings followed.

Funny how easy it was to get a spanking growing up......now much more difficult :-(

Most definitely not often enough...

Elaine

Only been spanked once as an adult, definitely need more though.

As my husband and kids will tell you, I am the spanker at home. But, every August 14th, i get my birthday spankings from 6 or more people at our beach house. My younger brother, his wife, and I all have our birthdays within a 2 week period. So, they spend the middle 2 weeks of August at our summer home. The spankers take turns sitting on a wooden kitchen chair in the middle of our living room. The 3 of us wear T-shirts and elastic waisted shorts. Each spanker sits down, takes us over their knee, pulls down our shorts and undies, while everyone else sings, "How Old Are You Now?". As soon as we give our age, we get the corresponding number of handspanks- plus one for good luck, one to grow on, and one for good measure- if the number is odd. When they finish, they pull up our pants, we stand up, and the next spanker sits on the chair. One year, I got it from 8 people for my 40th birthday! Do the math!

Depending how naughty my spanker thinks I have been, I'm spanked a couple of times a month bare bottom OTK with back of woods clothes brush! It has me kicking, wriggling, reaching back and generally resisting discipline.

Recently she has become angry at my lack of control when disciplined and is going to use the short thin cane made for OTK. If I lose control again when spanked! going to learn control as I don't want the cane twice a month!