Experienced exactly the same problems. After a lot of comparisons in the sizes of my usual and appreciated toys and the Pig Hole Deep 2, I was convinced to make the right choice.. When I open the box it was a TOO huge surprise, that thing in my lovely little hole ! Because I buy it I try it, with no success. I made a erroneous choice. So waiting 6 monthes before to order the Pig Hole Deep 1 . Reading the sizes it seems to be a medium toy, in your hand it is a large one. If you buy one begin by the number 1.
The first times i played with it was not easy to slide it inside, but when it is positionned what good feelings, full filled, gaped, open and more. To slide it inside doing solo, after lubing the PHD 1 both inside, outside, and in the tube my ass and the tube, I hold it folded in my hand and lead it in my passionate hole, when inside using a finger or a " Small sized dildo I open the PHD and it stay open, it is gaping me softly so delicious.