Outed yesterday!
The client arrived for the consultation. Garnette, my secretary/bookkeeper came in with the files. In a ritual from day one working for me, she straightened my jacket & fluffed up my tie, making sure I was presentable. Today was different. As she was fluffing up the tie, she frowned and had a very worried look on her fact.
She whispered, “Ted, your bra is showing and I can’t cover it up with the tie. Take it off before you see Mrs. Tolliver.!” I was in shock! My mouth gaped and I tried to say something. Only incoherent noises came out. “Don’t worry. I’ve known you’re a cross-dresser from day one. We’ll talk about it after you see her. I’ll give you a couple minutes.”
I have my own accounting practice, with one full time employee, Garnette, and part-time bookkeepers usually working out of their homes as ‘contractors.’ As a cross-dresser, I wear lingerie under my dress clothes. Clients expect the lawyer and accountant to dress professionally, so I always wear a sport jacket or suit, with dress shirt and tie. The lower body dress up is no problem. I wear the garter belt & panties under the dress pants. I prefer to cut off the panty part of black tights and wear them as stockings. Sticking out of the pants and shoes, they look like black socks from 4-5 feet away. Alternately, I wear regular nylons and put on men’s socks underneath. Even when I was working for my CPA in other offices, the lower body was no problem. Wearing a bra was more of a challenge. I took to wearing thick sport coats so the band wouldn’t show. I always wore wide ties to cover the front. At first I was extremely careful about concealment, taking off the bra often to avoid detection, but as I became habituated to daily bra wear, I became confident meeting clients with a bra on. No one ever noticed. Or so I thought.
Garnette came back to my office after Mrs. Tolliver left. I flushed and became red in the face. “I’m sorry, Garnette,” was all I could say.
She said, “When you hired me five years ago, Pauline stayed on for a week to train me. The first thing she said was ‘Ted’s a cross-dresser. He wears a bra & lingerie under his dress clothes. Otherwise he’s a great employer. The only reason I’m leaving is that I’m getting married and moving to Arizona. He’s secretive about it and thinks he’s hidden it from me. It’s just that he couldn’t work in the same office and the lingerie not show. I just pretend not to notice anything, and everyone’s happy. If you’re not okay with his little secret, you should find another job.’ I kept looking for something showing, and after a week I noticed bra straps and the band barely showing through the sport coat. Then occasionally I could see the bra under your dress shirt. So when clients came I started fixing you up to make sure they didn’t see your bra. But today your bra rode up too high and the tie wasn’t going to cover it. I couldn’t let Mrs. Tolliver see it.”
“You never let on,” I relied lamely. “I tried to be careful.”
“You get busy, mind on your work. So the clothes slide around and what you’re wearing showed, like panties or the red garter belt poking over the top of your pants. I don’t’ have to look carefully to see lace under your shirt a couple times a week. A couple years ago you left the locked file cabinet over there open, and ajar.” She didn’t have to say what she found. It was where I kept neatly folded, spare bras, garter belts, nylon stockings. I remembered finding it unlocked, but thought she hadn’t seen anything.
“The air is clearer,” I said, stalling. I wanted to hear what more she had to say.
“I don’t know if you still want me to work for you,” she said. “But I couldn’t let Mrs. Tolliver see the bra.”
I breathed deeply for a while, thinking. She let me speak next. “Yes, I want you to continue, if you want to.”
“Of course I do,” she said. “You’re a good boss. We do very good work for our clients. They all like you and are loyal. The most important thing I like about you is that you really care for the clients and always do the best thing for them. Nothing’s got to change. The only difference is that now you know that I know.” She paused a moment. “If you want, it won’t bother me if you don’t wear your coat in the office. Days we don’t have clients scheduled, you don’t’ have to dress so formally.” Was that an invitation to wear a blouse or other women’s outer clothes?
That was about all that needed to be said. She went back to work in the outer office. I put on the bra & shirt, but I didn’t have the nerve to leave off the tie and coat yet. Later when we had to go over papers I left the coat unbuttoned. I saw her glance down a couple times at the now visible bra cups. She said nothing.
We’ll have so see how things develop.