Do you prefer a male or a female Enema GIVER?

Oh, I think you would find many males glad to be very gentle with you . At least I would.

A lady , absolutely

In the present situation, ANY enemas any of us need before this blows over are going to be self-administered.

With the exception of my son who is still too young. My twins are the same age now that I was when I started doing my own insertions, so I KNOW they can do it.

Must be a woman. They are just much more dainty, and perhaps because I was started by a woman giving me enemas.

It just has to be a woman.... some to take charge Maybe a little humiliation... could be at the doctors office, And definetly at least 20 years younger.... strapped down. For my own safety of course.

As a heterosexual, only a female.

A female definitely.

I would go for a male; I've had enemas from a male Zity member, and he was as slow, gentle and erotic as could be while administering to me. The initial lube probably went on for 3 to 4 minutes and was heavenly to receive from him. His nozzle insertion was also gentle and erotic to me!

Do I remember my first enema?

You bet; the first second etc., etc. My earliest memory, and of all that came later, but for the last was given by my mother.

The ritual is burned in my memory, fondly. All of the stories here are so incredible similar. Sometime I was present for the preparation, other times not so. What is indelible etched in my memory is being invited into the bathroom by my Mom. Usually the first thing I saw was her back, standing in from of the sink, a bar of the ubiquitous Ivory soap in hand swishing around in a sink full of soap suds water. Of course I was the only child in the world who was subjected to this procedure. Just think! How many of the kids you new ever revealed they received enemas. Something should have given it away, when as kids, when we played doctor, it always involved having a girl, in my case yes, I just always liked girls, take your temperature rectally.

Back to home style enemas. There was that invitation to come upstairs to the bathroom. When the door closed behind you and you saw the large red enema bag hanging on the back of the door, the deal was sealed. It was pants down and off, drape yourself over your mothers knee while she sat on the closed toilet, feel your but cheeks being spread, hearing the all to familiar sound of the Vaseline jar being unscrewed. feeling your butt cheeks spread and a glop of vaseline smeared unceremoniously on your back door in preparation for the enema nozzle insertion.

I don't remember if I liked them at that time, or not, which was totally irrelevant, but it did begin a life long fascination with them. This continued until my last one I received when I was twelve, and it was administered by my father. It was embarrassing and I never again had a man do that. I"m not being judgmental, as I believe that whatever two consenting adults do is no-one business but theirs.

I long for another session with a strict woman who will spank me and tell me I'm going to get a "Good Old Fashioned Enema" to teach me a lesson I soon forget.

Thanks to all of you for sharing your experiences.

OTKguy

Only a woman. I sometimes get contacted on Zity by men who want ro do enema play, but no thanks. As to women: There's more to giving enemas than sticking a nozzle in you and forcing the water in. If it's to be enjoyable, the giver needs to understand her subject, and what HE needs from the session. I've had very good enemas given, & I've had miserable experiences. Water temp, type of nozzle, rate of flow, quantity, position of the receiver, are all important things to know. I also like a woman who "gets it"--who enjoys enemas herself, and likes receiving them or is submissive and has them given to herby her Master, although if she's only a giver she can also be a good giver--sometimes. If a woman TRULY loves to give to a man it can be a very fine experience, and I've had one or two of those. My favorite scenario is trading--both are receivers. Both are givers.

Only had females nurses giving enemas to me so far, do not believe I would want male to give me enemas, unless of course that would happen in hospital and no female nurse would be available and only male nurse. But if I was my choice then females all the way!