What Happened to All the Good Role-Players Out There?

Role play is so much fun online. I like it to last a looooooooong time! Even sending role play emails is nice. You know you will have a sexy email waiting when you check. Role play should be very detailed.

I haven't role played much in years but I still know the ropes and I still like to engage in it but it's hard to find ladies that want to role play with me in the ways I like to role play. I'm a switch but prefer subbing less so if I find the right sub!

My last roll play lasted over a year. Over time we actually built an imaginary environment to play in. The play was very complex. We really got to know one another which made all the scenarios very exciting because we both knew how to share and we "tickled" each others little kinks and inner child. We actually became good friends. I am sure that if we had been closer in distance and age we would be together today.

I love roleplay. Try me. Im a very good player with a wild imagination

My wife and love to role play . She loves when we play The Handy Man. I show up to fix things for her and she pays me by tying me up and whipping me then pegging me. It's fun we have a blast

Role play is great--IT HAS TO BE IN PERSON.

Switchable Susie: Are you implying that it cannot be a "board game"?

I hate when people don't make the slightest effort in playing. They just answer with the bare minimum words and leave you all the work.

It can be difficult for you to write a lot (I'm not the best role player in the world) but at least make the effort to write something more than a simple "yes" or "mmmmmm"

I think that as people are using mobile devices more and more for their responses, that grammar, spelling, and proper punctuation are falling by the wayside because it is simply more difficult to add quotations with your thumbs than typing on a full keyboard. I used to be an avid RPer online but have become more frustrated with my partner's than amused or aroused. Too many of them are refusing to use even basic sentence structure which I find to be the biggest turn off. I have always tried to negotiate the generic idea of the scene beforehand so that we are both getting a scenario that hits Mutual fantasies and I found the Cajun Elise my partner achieves their goal the scene and prematurely before mine even bothers coming up.

Tl;Dr: people are lazy and mobile phones are ruining roleplay Communications online.

You may be right, Duckdactyl. I have experienced situations when I have found it quite difficult to understand what a RP'er has intended to say. I assumed this was because as females they were too busy responding to others and had constructed their messages in a hurry. But maybe it was because they were relying on predictive text. When challenged about it, I have on 2 occasions received the response that they were dyslexic! It is difficult to disprove that one other than point to occasions when the person's writing is perfect!

I like roleplaying about medfet or kinky

I like to do some role playing but there has to be some chemistry with your partner . Early on after joining zity I did a little gyno role play and holy crap there were a couple that were just so awful I couldnt finish ! Lol

It takes some effort from both players , get to know each others likes and dislikes first , communicate and feel each other out .

Duckydactyl & Roddy , when a role play scene starts to become really arousing I admit to losing all grammatical skills and my typing goes out somewhere in left field 😉

I predate the internet, so my first roleplay was in person. The problem for me was that even when the person knew what he was doing (he worked as a standardized patient) the apartment could be glimpsed: it wasn't in a medical office. So I stopped and, as posted, sought out real physical exams with someone who shared my interest. Our connection was anonymous phone calls. I have played doctor to would be patients via a CL post, in which I would talk through (tell by anonymous phone) the physical exam on someone, which seemed to work for them. I didn't have the setup which would allow for doing it in person, but, as a writer, I certainly could talk it. Which involved requiring responses from the patient to guage what was going on with him. Again, as a writer, I could 'do' a play exam with someone, although I much prefer reading a real one, or hearing about one on the phone.

I'm good at role playing if my partner does his part too. It can be very satisfactory. Even arousing...

Role Play together is the best. Play on.

Roleplay is my salvation. Being disabled and religious I can't just hook up and my gf is under a keeper's eye. Growing up just as inclusion was happening, I experienced separate special schools in the beginning. I want to make very clear, there was no abuse, but the academics took place in a semi-clinical setting. One teacher, for example, began math class, by taking every class members pulse So, I tend to get far more aroused by treatment than straight sex. This is hard for most people to get, but you all seem to.

Nope most certainly not alone,I don’t do cam rp like most since I’m in college it’s kinda hard when you have hardly any privacy, so I rely on a story line and details, I put in as much detail as possible when I’m writing. If you ever want to rp message me we can work something up.

I've met some good ones. Sometimes I've been told that I'm not too bad myself. Just keep looking.

I too, very much enjoy a good role play. Yes you need to take the time to set up the scene/situation and be descriptive in your actions. Too many people make role play a one sided affair.. their response is very short and add nothing to go from.. It can be very stimulating if both parties participate equally in the story/scene. Al

As someone new to this community, I would be interested in trying out a roleplay, and I am glad that other people care about writing this stuff in proper English. Yes, there is a time for simple, dirty, talk, but good description is what really gets me going. Good stories have a good setting, and the better the word pictures I have in my mind, the more I enjoy the read.

Mmm love role playing either in chat form or for real like to start slow and build up to the end mmmmmm

Unfortunately, it's common with everything in Todays World. So many People just want what they want and have seemed to lost respect, etiquette, manners and patience. It seems to be all about me, me, me and now, now, now anymore 😢 Then if you do finally meet someone worthy that seems genuinely interested and talks like a person, if there is 1 difference between you, you are judged for it. It's hard enough to find good friends or a relationship anymore. Much less for people like us who have healthy, original and unusual fetishes.

I used to role-play online, then decided to do realistic doctor/patient roleplays in a spare bedroom. For the past two years, I have hosted realistic style matter-of-fact male-male exams, me playing Doc most of time. Now that Craigslist recently closed the personals, it will be more difficult to get new patients. I've found most of my roleplay patients are straight guys and the doctor patient roleplay hits many fetishes - clothed male nude male, exhibitionism, voyeurism, control, etc., etc.

I'm grateful for meeting with and playing with such great guys.. I'm hoping to stay in touch with a lot of them and hope I'm able to find another free site like craigslist to meet new roleplayers. I cannot go back to Skype or Yahoo Messenger exams after experiencing in-person.. like watching the patient's facial expressions as he bears down, asking him face-to-face to clench his sphincter muscles around my gloved finger...

I may post some pics of my exam room here sometime

- bumming but grateful in metro Detroit :-)

I like to establish what a person likes and doesn't like. an easy way to do this is to do a scenario. I like to get a favorite scenario from a potential partner then tell them how I would change it or add things. this might go back and forth 2 or 3 times. That way when you get to RL there are no surprises. There has to be trust developed and this is an easy way to do it. Just drop em and bend over just really doesn't work!!

I'm with SwitchableSusie on this one. In person role play is the way to go if the stars, moon, and other planetary phenomena happen to line up. One has to be flexible and certainly adventurous. Fortuitous also comes to mind as one explores opportunities.

Experiences at EFEST certainly helped fashion some ideas and break down some barriers. While there are those negatives that occasionally create fear and disappointment if expectations are too lofty, willingness to step outside the box can lead to some fulfilling interactions.

While realistic gyno/medical exams may be precluded in most venues, some of us elders recall some old fashioned house calls that may well have precipitated our lifelong enjoyment of certain procedures. For the younger crowd, it's unfortunate that you missed out on some of those events.

I like to keep things fairly simplistic. I also like to plan for contingencies that often arise. A willingness to forego reciprocation can also allow for enjoyable interactions should things just not be conducive for success.

I've often said that my own satisfaction often results from providing a rewarding experience for others. This is especially true with those who are just starting to branch out. Those who seek a "mentor/teacher" or "friend" may be missing out on some viable options short of finding an SO or LTR.

After all, some of us have been indulging for more than half a century. Playing nurse or doctor as adults can be quite fulfilling. Addressing the various maladies and moods as our moms and dads did, can alleviate the various symptoms that plague us in the hustle and bustle we exist in. If we are willing to pay the various therapists and other providers of personal services, why not rely on someone who understands the idiosyncrasies of our best kept secret fantasies?

I love a good, detailed, grammatically correct role play. I am a reader and a writer so written role-play works best for me. One scene can go on for days.

100% AGREEMENT! OK I admit to being a former English teacher, but writing properly HAS to be part of establishing a scene. That takes both parties working together but, done well, a role play is fully capable of resulting in an intensely satisfying orgasm. (Not quite as good as real life, but an acceptable substitute if need be.) I can promise you that when it doesn't become that for me, I seldom continue to make the effort in conversing with the illiterate party thereafter. I do understand that at a certain point, with passions and hormones running on overdrive, the literary level of the scene does deteriorate a bit. Typing skills certainly become affected. That's when things other than printed words take over!

I also entirely agree with you anna. I also find it useful to have different notations to represent such things as: RP conversation, (Actions we are taking) {thoughts we may be having in the role play} [Thoughts that we are having in reality] #Actions we might be taking in reality#

Also in Role playing you really have to set then scene well and do not forget details and really live the part that you are playing.

I also agree with you that if you are getting sexually worked up during a role play then that can affect the standard of writing. I think it is far better to complete the role play and then masturbate afterwards thinking about the RP you have just had.

I did not know there were still RP out there. Nobody seems to want to play anymore.

I used to role-play online, then decided to do realistic doctor/patient roleplays in a spare bedroom.

I may post some pics of my exam room here some time.

Shame we don't live closer.

I would love to see some pictures of your exam room.