This is a great post for a newbie such as me. Thank you plumb3130 - your explanation, and many others, definitely helps ease my mind. Each situation, individual, circumstances, environment, expectations, mood, and such can change/alter the experience each time. A person can experience pleasure in the personal, as well in the medical, setting. This makes me eager to experience a true one myself. Thank you.
I grew up with a Mommy who was a Nurse Practitioner. She always took my temperature rectally and gave me checkups every Saturday. At the age of twelve she started giving me monthly enemas as part of my checkup.
Giving someone an enema and seeing their total satisfaction matches my love of receiving an enema. The dual role brings the best of both to me. Taking solo enemas mostly I enjoy each phase and each session and note the differences of each. It's never quite the same but always gratifying. Play on!
I have enjoyed enemas since I was a little boy and discovered my parents enema bag hanging in the bathroom closet. I don't know how I knew what it was for and what to do with it but it was the start of many years of exploration, excitement and pleasure. Because there has always been family in the picture and a spouse not participating, my enema sessions were usually weeks apart. The anticipation of having free time to gather my equipment, fill the bag and slowly enjoy having the water filling me was almost (but not quite!) as good as the session it's self. The final bonus is the feeling you have as you expel. An enema session is one of the most pleasurable experiences a person can have. The best part ;is you can match your mood. It can be relaxing and zen like. But you can also have cramping and pressure where it hurts so good.
As with all the other enema correspondents, it is very difficult to describe why having an enema is such a turn on. My first enema, as a young child, was across my mother's lap and I honestly cannot recall what it felt like. It must have had some effect, as for the remainder of my childhood I would always be fascinated by the rubber enema syringe in the bathroom medicine box and can vividly remember endlessly fondling it!I became a serious enema enthusiast in my forties and can remember one fantastic occasion when I received an enema as I made love to my good lady wife on the sitting room floor in front of a blazing fire. I suspect that I had already ejaculated with little over a pint in me and I am sure that my wife was barely aroused, let alone anywhere near having an orgasm!Apart from a brief blissful period some few years ago, when my wife and I would share a sauna then afterwards have a Jacuzzi (during which she would give me an enema with a Higginson's syringe and we would cuddle and kiss), all my enemas are now self-administered. I suspect that when she went off having a sauna altogether, it resulted in no more Jacuzzis and no more enemas! I suspect that I am by no means alone in having a wife that can't stand having enemas, possibly as a result of being given them before giving birth to our children. She doesn't seem to mind me enjoying my fetish, so long as it no longer has to involve her. Like many other, almost exclusively male, enema fetishists I would love to correspond with or even meet a female enema enthusiast but I suspect it is a pretty forlorn hope!Regards,Tom Bayley(bayleytom@yahoo.co.uk)
I like a slow enema to feel the pressure build up and see my. Belly expand especially when I take 4 qts but my usual is 2Then I try to hold it as long as I can, the feel of the urges to release excites me. I test myself on how long I can over come the urgesEventually the urge to expel wins and I masturbate just before I expel and it feels like the dam broke and it seems like I cum forever. As soon as I'm done cumming my flood gate opens and my enema roars out. The feeling of relaxation and cleanliness is awesomeBut everything multiples if a good woman gives it to me
I love the feeling of the nozzle going in. then the warm water flowing up my colon, usually with mild cramping, wince I usually do a mild soapsuds enema first. As the filling proceeds, there is some prostate pressure, which is sexually exciting. Finally, the release, sitting on the toilet feels great!
I have said this elsewhere, but it is worth repeating. An enema has its physiological aspects because it does clean me out and whether I really need that or not it probably does not matter that much because there is a feeling of relief that comes with it. Secondly, it also has some very serious psychological aspects because of the emotional release that comes from a good enema. It can be a major stress reliever, but to do so you really have to prep for it by making enough time time and forcing yourself to relax. A good enema cannot be rushed so why not take the time to enjoy it.
This afternoon my wife gave me a fantastic enema. Why that enema was better than previous enemas, I don't know. But, it was. She placed the douche nozzle right up against my prostate and the bag's warm to hot water sprayed up against it driving me wild. Wow! I squirted with such force, I felt like an 18 year old again. Outstanding.....
I often use a shower shot type device and completely relax my posterior, I aim the stream at my prostate and let the water flow out as fast as it's flowing in. The massaging effect is wonderful. I then progress deeper and deeper with a series of enemas, holding and taking my time to void. I always finish the last one with masturbating to help me hold it and cum very hard. Afterwords everything is just so loose and ready to go, you feel like you could do it again and again. It's very stimulating and relaxing at the same time.
I have come to enjoy them for a few reasons. One being that I am doing it in prep for anal play. That in itself gets me horny for the anal play which makes the enema more erotic and the two things feed off each other. Another reason is enjoying that feeling of cleanliness and emptiness. I try to fast before an enema too.
An Enema does the following, Great relief, erotic feelings and sexual relief.Total feeling of relaxation.Very healthy.Total enjoyment and followed by peaceful sleep.
Enemas are very erotic and relieve stress. My daily morning enemas a very relaxing way to start the day! At least once a week my husband and I have sex while taking enemas. Also, I usually have an orgasm during my daily enemas.
Tonight is enema night, the anticipation is overthe top thinking about it all day long, The visual of the bag and the filling with soap and water the waiting for the words "knee chest please, bottoms up, and then the inserting of the long curved nozzle or the inflating of the balloon nozzle knowing that the long waiting is almost near, The click of the clamp and the rush of the pleasure of the warm filling indescribable. Extremely erotic.
For me there is the pure physical relief in feeling cleared out below. On occasion when I'm over-stressed my insides bind up -- just the opposite effect from many women. Then there is the psychological effect, which you could say is "all in my head." Actually, it is!! Lol At times I've experienced a powerful emotional release, a feeling of well-being and relaxation. Add TLC following with my husband and it's even better!! Enemas can be an "oasis," a time to set the world aside for a few minutes. Especially for a woman, with our physical and emotional differences from guys, knowing the benefits of an enema is "good medicine" and one of those niceties in life we do for ourselves.
Put simply: what y'all said.An enema session gives me some "me time" thereby providing relief from the daily stresses of work, parenting, husbandry, home ownership and generally being a grown-up.They leave me rested and relaxed and, although it may be purely psychological, as opposed to physiological, having a cleansed lower gi tract just feels good.Thy excite me knowing that invariably they lead to an anal play session with my bag of toys and, open the door to declaring the back nine fit for play if my wife and I get it on that day.
In the case that the colon will not be completely plugged a high enema will give me a good relief. In the other case in my opinion an enema is a pain - so I shall choose another procedure for a complete bowel cleansing.
Just I wanted to share that I finished 2 hour enema session, stuffed with stainless steel buttplug in between... I great pleasure to be honest, I love the enemas, but I also love the cold feel of the buttplug inside me... It's heavy enough, but comfortable to stay in and walk around. I made a shower enema, than I stuff myself with the buttplug, took a really hot and long shower and I was stiff down there for the whole time... The filling to be urged to expel and at the same time to be plugged - priceless.Now I feel wetness back there, but at the same time I'm squeaky clean and ready to continue the anal play, I have loads of anal plugs and dildos ready to be used appropriate!Well, I don't know if you gonna find this post interesting, but I just wanted to share with you today's experience I had in a while. That's I believe my first time alone for so long since 4-5 months, I love it!
How do I explain the feeling when I first insert the nozzle into my anus and once arrives up my rectum and I release the tube and water starts rushing into my lower belly filling me up , this is done on my stomach,I spread my legs,bottom up in the air, squeeze my anus to hold things together because now I have one thing in mind, to put a towel between my legs and start the art of rubbing my clitoris with the towel all the while the nozzle is protruding out of my anus until I explode with an orgazm.Hopefully my anus was tightly holding the nozzle because I get great orgazms ,but then I want more. By the way I do love slipping the nozzle in and out of my anal canal and or rectum if you would do it only because it's a stimulus, this must be or why would I do such a thing. I wish somebody would slide a very large finger or a very tiny finger in and out of there and tell me to breathe deeply. Then pulled my clit a little to get it worked up then rubbed it till I came.I want somebody to see this. No one has. Does anyone want to. Please are there any interested persons?
Well, there is the anticipation -- especially as other people arrive at our house, or if we go to meet them when we arrive. Getting stripped (or taking off my panties, whichever I am allowed to do) is humiliating a little. Feeling fingers go in me to lube me up back there is god-awful in a wonderful way, as is having the anticipation of the nozzle moving in and out as I wait for it.The feeling of being filled as others watch and tell me I deserve it allows me to fully feel sexual shame -- in a good way!I usually expel alone, and go to my husband's waiting arms....Hugs,Beth
The surrender, I have given over control of my body, in trust, to be taken to a response out of myself.
Before I give myself an enema I feel excited. Thinking of the nozzle touching my anus almost drives me over the edge! During the enema, I enjoy the insertion of the nozzle and the feeling of increasing fulness. When I hold the enema, I imagine the relief that I will feel during expulsion. This is the best part in my opinion! The expulsion itself feels very satisfying! I really like the idea of removing all the waste from my body. After the enema, I feel very clean, empty, refreshed, and deeply relaxed!
What does an enema do for me , interesting question , and how to describe it to someone that has never had an enema , ok , well to me its like Pizza , i love pizza , who doesn't love Pizza !!!!
It is sinfully delicious with elements f embarassment pleasure and societal taboos all of which make the experience