Afraid of losing your MEDFET?

Nope, it has been with me as early as I can remember, among the first sexual desires. It has changed and evolved over the years, and I have periods of being more into one thing than another. But if anything it has just gotten more intense and enjoyable.

Not permanently. Sometimes I wish I would, because I feel kind of sexually addicted, but that's probably another thread. I have, however, temporarily burned out on anything sexual, as I feel we all have once we get satiated for the time being. It's not a fetish/kink thing, though. As soon as I get horny again, I'm back to liking female immune/allergy patients in masks. And/or footed pajamas, schoolgirl outfits, ballet clothes, etc.

For me, my fetish tastes fluctuate. Medfet is newer for me and kinda evolved in to an interest due to becoming increasingly interested in the power exchange dynamic and the intimacy of an exam (which was fueled by what, to me, was a very sensual exam by a real doctor a few years ago). My primary fetish that I had as a kid (thought I didn't know what it was at the time) remains but it has evolved and depending on they day different kinks have different appeals.

I do have concerns about over exposure to fetish stuff online diminishing things. I know that has happened somewhat to my main fetish. There was a time when I found medfet really weird but as I looked for new ways to stimulate myself it eventually took root. I just remember in my pre-internet days how incredible any snippet of something that aligned with my fetish seemed to be but now there's so much media one can consume that it can be too much. Just my thoughts.

I do have concerns about over exposure to fetish stuff online diminishing things.

It is a bit of a conundrum.

Either you abstain, see and encounter nothing fetish-related and it all seems weird and odd and you think about the possibility of being very abnormal in your desires.

Or you encounter fetish-related material and forums on-line and discover how you are not that abnormal after all.

Is anyone afraid that your medfet will diminish from lack of fulfilment or from over-exposure?

That's like asking if you're worried about losing your desire to watch movies in the future because you see all the good new ones when they come out.

That's totally different type of question from, "are you worried about your retirement fund running out before you die."

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OK, I'll answer.

NO I am NOT worried about losing any of my kinks or fetishes. If I become disinterested at some point in the future, I become disinterested. Why would I care of I become or became disinterested?

It's like being asked, "tell me the specific things you have forgotten in your life."

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I kind of go through cycles with it anyway. Sometimes I’m really heavy into it and active on the website and everything. Then sometimes, I back away from it. Idk why and there’s no rhyme or reason to when and why.

Like many others here, I’ll go through phases where I literally think of little but medfet, and other phases where I border on having a totally vanilla brain. I’ve often wondered if the stressors of life play a role (it certain impacts whether my fantasies are of being a doctor or patient!). At no point do I, or have I, thought that I’d lose the kink entirely.

As an aside, this was a really interesting thread to read.

No, I'm not worried about losing my medfet or any of my other fetishes. If I lose interest in a certain fetish, it would stand to reason that I wouldn't care anymore since I'm no longer interested.

Like others on here have posted, I go through phases when I am more active on here, and more active with my medfet role play with my wife. Sometimes we get busy and we don't have as much time as we'd like to do the role playing. It is time consuming to set up the exam table and stirrups, get dressed in our respective role play clothing, perform an entire physical exam, then have sex after the exam is over. Not to mention cleaning up and putting everything away when we are finished.

Other times I've noticed that my medfet isn't as strong in my mind as at other times. Sometimes I think it's due to being tired if I've worked a lot of hours or had a lot of chores at home. I've also noticed that it is stronger during the winter, probably due to being cooped up indoors, since I HATE the cold and snow, and having more free time than during the warm weather.

Another time my medfet gets stronger is the time leading up to our conjoint physicals. In fact our conjoint physicals are in two months, so I have already noticed that I want to have more play exams, even though we've been busy lately. That urge to examine my wife and having her examine me will only get stronger, and the frequency of our play exams will increase, the closer the date of our real exams arrives.

No, not afraid. None of my kinks has ever diminished since they began as a pubescent teen. I imagine that if my body ever slows down, too bad, but my brain will remain very kinky and horny. To this day, still undress women in my mind everyday, and sometimes my fantasies go well beyond that.

For us, we did so many exams in our exam room that it did loose the excitement for a while. For the last 10 years, we tried to find other couples to play with us to bring the excitement back. But none were willing to meet live so we headed in a different direction.

I’m never afraid of losing it. I am, however, afraid of losing the freedom to indulge; life changes and you never know what new responsibilities you may have to take on. I do Hope that I will Always have the means and the freedom to enjoy it, though!

Not afraid of losing it. It's safe to say that my kinks are basically my lifestyle. Over the years my interest in medfet surely has increased, and there are plenty of other things which I'm wanting to add up to it. I suppose since it's a part of me as a person as a whole, I don't think it'll ever fully fade away. It's rooted deep within.

I've never been afraid of losing my medfet. Actually, sometimes i wish i could lose it as it can be overwhelming at times.

I've never been afraid of losing my medfet. Actually, sometimes i wish i could lose it as it can be overwhelming at times.

Oh my, wait until you get older and the memory of the overwhelming desire is mostly all what is left.

I'd counsel to enjoy it while you can, even if it is only in your mind and emotions. Loose the desire and what is there to replace it with? Remember, you needn't always act on your desire, but just thinking and fantasizing about it is also extremely pleasurable, and harmless.

For myself it comes and goes, but I prefer it to remain strong and steady. For instance the first week of the lock-down, I was in overdrive, hyped-up and aroused to no end just by mental activity alone. Then it vanished to following weeks (months), almost so completely that the memory became painful to contemplate. It might have had something to do with the frigging virus. Who knew?

But now all is back and well and what a relief. It brings peace of mind I am not yet down and knocked out.

Oh my, wait until you get older and the memory of the overwhelming desire is mostly all what is left.

That hasn't been my experience!! While the body isn't quite as agile as it used to be - my mind still has the overwhelming desire ! I am now beyond being a dirty old man - the younger women just consider me "cute"! 😄

Not a chance! It took me too long to FIND Zity to give up now!

I don't think I would loose interest but I feel like I have nothing to contribute to medfet part of forum anymore unless I would find someone willing to play. I live in Poland and interest in this fetish seems non-existent. Small exception was going to real doctor but next time will happen maybe in a year as an annual check-up.

I'm not "afraid" of losing interest in anything. I've 'changed' interest in other things. I just move on to something else. I don't bowl, do live theater, or radio control model planes either. I do less intense tri-athlete training--bit of burnout. within medfet, in particular I used to do a lot of Foley Catheter, anal and overnight restraint, but I do much less or not at all. I still enjoy discussions, stories, get off on examinations by women doctors, spanking (which is pretty peripheral to medical)

With Craigslist greatly curtailed in access to women who were willing to experiment with some medfet play, I feel a definite loss in that area, as it’s now more difficult to find a willing partner. There are of course alternative sites, but I’ve not found any success using those. There is a city of some 400,000 fairly close to where I live, where I had to travel frequently for business. In the 1990s, on into the 2000s it was a simple matter to meet “women looking for men”, there, and discuss my medfet fantasies with them. A few were put off, a greater number intrigued, and surprisingly some had a bit of experience in some aspect of medfet and were interested in pursuing it a little further. I remember one particular lady who was in her mid 30s, extremely attractive and, after a couple of glasses of wine, excited to discuss a detailed medfet scene. After a lengthy conversation, she was to report to my hotel suite, wearing a sun dress, with no bra or panties. After an exchange of pleasantries, that included a bit of kissing and fondling just to be certain she had followed the dress code, we would begin with a through breast exam, looking carefully for signs of any abnormality, as well as extensive testing of nipple sensitivity. From there we proceeded to the well woman checkup. In order for her to relax, I’d prepared a scented bubble bath in the jetted tub, the next part of the scene. Part of the fantasy we’d discussed was that I would shave her pubic hair, slowly and carefully. By this time she was out of a long, enjoyable soak, and completely naked, on all fours, I began at the small of her back, and trimmed and used a nice shaving cream, and shaved all the way to her navel. This entire process was perhaps 25 or 30 minutes, just be certain every nook and crevice were devoid of hair. The next part of the exam was a slow enema, allowing her privacy to expel, and a quick shower after. That allowed for a long rectal exam, a change of gloves, and a lengthy vaginal probe. The last part of the exam was assessment of clitoral response. And she passed easily with a little help from a vibrator. Afterwards we had a brief nap, then a light meal at the hotel restaurant, during which she still remained sans panties and bra, and I required that she not sit on the sun dress, but bunch it around her waist and feel the coldness of the leather upholstery on her bare butt, which caused her to gasp in the cutest way. All in all, I’ve played that type of scene a number of times over the years, with a few variations depending on the lady and her preferences— and that, my friends, is why I’m currently missing part of my fantasies!

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Hi there. I have never got any opportunity to play with someone. But I had some situations where I felt I was overexposed. I watched so many ASMR doctor roleplays and before that I become member to some websites on web. But those websites didn't have an impact over me because my fetishes are not shaping around gyno or cpr. Those websites were shaping around them so I couldn't fulfill my fetishes right there. But luckily for me, Youtube gave me a good chance to fulfill my fetishes. Another case, after discovered my medical fetishes type paraphilias, I did quite extensive researches on the web about them. I found an information that according to, paraphilias reduces by ageing. İf you feel you may feel like you are losing your medfet desires, keep in the mind that ageing may also be a factor like overexposure.

You can loose it , its like a sport or a technique youve aquired . If you dont use it you loose it. I talk from experience.

I'm 30, and just getting deeper into it, now with actual play meetups happening soon! Wouldn't dream of getting out of medical, surgical, or hazmat fetishes, etc. Certainly not the PPE associated with them either!

With Craigslist greatly curtailed in access to women who were willing to experiment with some medfet play, I feel a definite loss in that area, as it’s now more difficult to find a willing partner. There are of course alternative sites, but I’ve not found any success using those. There is a city of some 400,000 fairly close to where I live, where I had to travel frequently for business. In the 1990s, on into the 2000s it was a simple matter to meet “women looking for men”, there, and discuss my medfet fantasies with them. A few were put off, a greater number intrigued, and surprisingly some had a bit of experience in some aspect of medfet and were interested in pursuing it a little further. I remember one particular lady who was in her mid 30s, extremely attractive and, after a couple of glasses of wine, excited to discuss a detailed medfet scene. After a lengthy conversation, she was to report to my hotel suite, wearing a sun dress, with no bra or panties. After an exchange of pleasantries, that included a bit of kissing and fondling just to be certain she had followed the dress code, we would begin with a through breast exam, looking carefully for signs of any abnormality, as well as extensive testing of nipple sensitivity. From there we proceeded to the well woman checkup. In order for her to relax, I’d prepared a scented bubble bath in the jetted tub, the next part of the scene. Part of the fantasy we’d discussed was that I would shave her pubic hair, slowly and carefully. By this time she was out of a long, enjoyable soak, and completely naked, on all fours, I began at the small of her back, and trimmed and used a nice shaving cream, and shaved all the way to her navel. This entire process was perhaps 25 or 30 minutes, just be certain every nook and crevice were devoid of hair. The next part of the exam was a slow enema, allowing her privacy to expel, and a quick shower after. That allowed for a long rectal exam, a change of gloves, and a lengthy vaginal probe. The last part of the exam was assessment of clitoral response. And she passed easily with a little help from a vibrator. Afterwards we had a brief nap, then a light meal at the hotel restaurant, during which she still remained sans panties and bra, and I required that she not sit on the sun dress, but bunch it around her waist and feel the coldness of the leather upholstery on her bare butt, which caused her to gasp in the cutest way. All in all, I’ve played that type of scene a number of times over the years, with a few variations depending on the lady and her preferences— and that, my friends, is why I’m currently missing part of my fantasies!

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This…it was a way for regular people to find others who wanted this. Not “pro doms” or group swingers or people acting out fantasies. It's really gone. The websites for “personals” and “classifieds” that you pay for, aren't very good.

I never grow bored with intimately examining and exploring MrsFn's beautiful body. However, I don't want the play exams to become boring, or “old hat” as they say, for MrsFn. I only schedule her for a play exam, on average, once every three months to try and keep it exciting. She is currently scheduled for a complete physical and GYN exam with DrFn, tomorrow evening. Due to some family obligations, it has been longer than normal since her last exam, and we are both very much looking forward to it.

This…it was a way for regular people to find others who wanted this. Not “pro doms” or group swingers or people acting out fantasies. It's really gone. The websites for “personals” and “classifieds” that you pay for, aren't very good.

First the Yahoo groups get closed down, then Tumblr goes banning ‘adult content’, then it's Craigslist and the latest I heard yesterday is that eBay will ban selling items with ‘adult content’ … and by ‘adult content’ most mean anything that shows so much as a nipple or bare breast.

Figure that within another decade, all the pay sites are going to end up having to close too. You can see where this is headed I would think.

My interest in medfet runs hot and cold in streaks, and seems to be seasonal. I’m more into it during cold dark winter months. I very much doubt it will ever go away completely.

First the Yahoo groups get closed down, then Tumblr goes banning ‘adult content’, then it's Craigslist and the latest I heard yesterday is that eBay will ban selling items with ‘adult content’ … and by ‘adult content’ most mean anything that shows so much as a nipple or bare breast.

Figure that within another decade, all the pay sites are going to end up having to close too. You can see where this is headed I would think.

Yes. It's quite scary. I wonder how much has affected the true porno sites. (Not calling Zity porn, here…)

I once heard that “porn” is the biggest money-maker on the internet. I am assuming that excludes normal everyday online retail such as Amazon.

Probably the big porn sites have the pols in their pockets.

I wonder if it's an attempt to get people to pay for for online fetish/kink. FetLife was always so drab, just the selfie-type photos and brag-fests.

So very sorry to admit, that although my interest remains high, my desire is fading. That, I think, is because of age. For example, as much as I enjoy masturbating - it seems as though it takes increased stimulation and I may not even orgasm from it; rather, I get a peak of pleasant feeling and then, it's time for bed!

Yes. It's quite scary. I wonder how much has affected the true porno sites. (Not calling Zity porn, here…)

I once heard that “porn” is the biggest money-maker on the internet. I am assuming that excludes normal everyday online retail such as Amazon.

Probably the big porn sites have the pols in their pockets.

I wonder if it's an attempt to get people to pay for for online fetish/kink. FetLife was always so drab, just the selfie-type photos and brag-fests.

I've always found FetLife to be pretty good for medfet/surgicalfet, and hazmat stuff. Still do. It's always been a “stomping grounds” of sorts for me. Despite putting stuff on Instagram, Twitter, etc… always come back to FetLife as my main hub. Just didn't want to ignore the others. And so far, it's “paying off”. Lots of upcoming playmeets. Sorry for the tangent, just my .02. The messaging DOES suck though, but I usually have most people I communicate frequently with on Telegram.

I don't use kik, or snapchat, or whatever.

On the video end of things.. it's pay for “FetLife support” for video access, thisvid, or xhamster. MindGeek saw to roaching PornHub or Xtube for anything. LOOOOT of good good stuff lost in “the purge”.

First the Yahoo groups get closed down, then Tumblr goes banning ‘adult content’, then it's Craigslist and the latest I heard yesterday is that eBay will ban selling items with ‘adult content’ … and by ‘adult content’ most mean anything that shows so much as a nipple or bare breast.

Several of the soft porn type Yahoo groups have moved to Google Groups, but I haven't been able to locate any medfet interest groups on Google as yet…