Who else knows that you get spanked?

My brother and his wife and her sister. I have been spanked in front of his wife and her sister.

No one really knows I get spanked. I told my friend once about it because it was during amazing sex that I was bragging about. That was the first time my husband spanked me. Never have mentioned it to anyone again.

Nobody!

Just the two friends who have spanked me.

A couple of years ago my ex Girlfriend lived in a Woman's group home where they had daily meetings where they shared about what was going on in their lives. One day my ex shared that she gave me spankings and divulged the intimate details of some of the spankings like stripping me naked, making me stand in the corner while she told me how she was going to spank me and with what and how she wanted me positioned to be spanked and that I had better not get out of position. Needless to say they wanted all the details and made sure she was the one doing the spanking and I was the one being spanked. They encouraged her to try some of their suggestions on how to spank and encouraged her to spank me harder and longer and suggested humiliating positions and places to spank me. They loaned her leather belts and the head Woman loaned her two paddles, one with holes drilled into it. I didn't catch on for awhile and found myself being spanked every time I came to go out with her. Finally one day one of the Women, in front of a group of other Women admitted they knew that I was being spanked and revealed details of my spanking that they should not have known. I was so embarrassed that when my ex appeared I asked her why the whole house knew I was spanked. Without missing a beat she said that since everyone knew, she was going to spank me right then. As everyone cheered her on she told me to go into the living room and strip and bend over the back of a dining room chair and wait for her. If I was not where I should be when she came in I would be really sorry. All the Women were laughing and teasing me as I went into the living room, stripped and bent over the back of a chair. I could hear them laughing and giving her advice. When she came in she had a belt, a paddle and a bath brush. She told me not to move and she gave me a spanking that left my butt deep red and on fire. I had to stand in the corner while all the Women came into the living room, sat down and commented on my spanked bottom. I was finally given permission to dress and we went out to lunch. For the rest of her stay I was spanked often in that living room and spent alot of time with my red rear on display in that corner.

To follow up on my earlier post, occasionally I would run into one of the Women that was at the group home during the period when I was spanked often and they would usually ask me if I was still being spanked and when I would reply yes they would be quite amused. When my Girlfriend and I broke up I ran into one of the Women and she asked about my spanking life and I told her I had no one to give me spankings so I had to spank myself. She told me that the ex always said that spanking me was a real turn on for her.

I asked her if she had ever given a man a spanking and she mentioned that after knowing us she thought it would be something she would really like to do. Of course I offered to teach her how to give a proper spanking with myself as the spankee and she agreed. Turns out she was a natural spanker and really enjoyed blistering my butt using the various spanking instruments. She enjoyed being in total control of the situation ordering me to do corner time with my hands on my head as she made comments about how red my bottom was and how much redder she was going to make it. I had her spank me in various position and her favorite was me bent over her lap with her leg locking me in position. She gave me three spankings over a week and then told me she was ready to start spanking her full time boyfriend. The last spanking she gave me took two hours and my bottom was swollen, sore, red and covered with red raised welts. I can only imagine the surprise and discomfort her boyfriend was treated too because of me.

Sometimes I wonder if its an easy read about me I have had more than one friend say they were going to spank me. Sometimes Im not quite sure how to respond.

A girl once spanked me in the kitchen at a party for pestering her, a few of the other guests watched. On another occasion, I was the only guy working in a college kitchen and the female manager spanked me in front of the others for being rude to her. The others thought it was funny.

All our families and friends. Most have witnessed us being spanked

Growing up only my family and my close friend knew I was spanked, she was spanked by her parents to. we use to compare spankings.

Growing up in the early 1950's, it was a forgone conclusion we were spanked. The only unknown was how our spanking were given and with what…

I think it’s fairly obvious the context of this question is relating to ADULT spankings. At present, I don’t think anyone but those who spank me know, however throughout my adulthood there have been unintentional “outings”, as well as suggestive statements that made me wonder if it was really obvious I was a spanko before I started getting spanked as an adult. Here are some:

I had a male co-worker threaten to “spank my bare bottom“ while working at a restaurant as a young adult. This was in front of everyone in the kitchen.

I had another co-worker call me a bad employee, to which another added “spank him!” a couple of years later.

Yet another co-worker when I confronted him about calling me a “little s—-” asked what I wanted him to do, pull me across his knee and spank me? I was about 30 by this time!

My girlfriend yanked my swim trunks down and spanked me at a hotel hot tub once. It was in a courtyard surrounded by all the rooms. When we went to check out the next morning the couple that ran the hotel started giggling, and about the time I started to wonder why the monitor behind them showed a clear view looking down at the hot tub area.

While living in an apartment my next door neighbors also giggled when they saw me and my girlfriend emerge from my apartment, making it rather obvious they had heard a spanking take place.

I do have a couple of friends that know I have this interest, but not much specifically beyond that.

Quite. a Few especially ones I spanked

When I was a child my mum used to spank me wherever we were at the time. Then she told me she would stop spanking me but I requested a spanking a few weeks later. We talked and I explained that I enjoyed being spanked and that I enjoyed the ritual. My mum always insisted I was naked for a spanking. I asked if in future if it was feasible could I be spanked in front of witnesses especially females. She agreed and said she would try. So from about 10 years old I was spanked every Sunday evening at home and I was also spanked when we had visitors or visited anyone. I've been spanked in front of all my female relatives and spanked by most of them too. My Grandma especially enjoyed spanking me and always insisted in spanking me whenever we visited. Once married my wife took over the spankings but she used to send me to visit my mum once a month for a maternal spanking. The year before last we visited by elder sister who spanked me 3 times during the visit. Cant wait for the next time. My mother in law hasn't spanked me yet but I hope she does soon.

In our family mostly all the males got spanked. It was passed on from mother to daughter so to say.

So everybody knew about it and got spanked by who was available.

Females mostly got spanked until 16.

I requested a spanking a few weeks later. We talked and I explained that I enjoyed being spanked and that I enjoyed the ritual. My mum always insisted I was naked for a spanking. I asked if in future if it was feasible could I be spanked in front of witnesses especially females. She agreed and said she would try. So from about 10 years old I was spanked every Sunday evening at home and I was also spanked when we had visitors or visited anyone. I've been spanked in front of all my female relatives and spanked by most of them too.

So that would mean you were also spanked naked in front of all the different witnesses as well? As per your own request? How did the witnesses react?

Growing up, obviously may family knew.

And I know two close friends knew for sure too. They had both seen me get my pants yanked down for a spanking. The one friend had seen it multiple times and I had seen him too. We used to talk about and compare our spankings as well.

Never got spanked as a kid.

As an adult I’ve been spanked exactly once. I have a feeling she told her best (female) friend about it. Just a hunch. Never discussed.

Having been to an appointment with bruises I didn't realize I knew, the super hot dermatologist who said “well, it looks like someone was naughty” clearly knows. But, dozens of fantasies though I might have, she's just not taking the bait.

Sir is the only one that knows about it, since he is the one who administers them.

Since we went to seven or eight Shadow Lane parties hundreds of people. But most of them weren't paying attention so I guess it's not hundreds of people. But we did sort of have our own group that loosely consisted of 30 to 50 people I guess. Non kinkos very few but we weren't very secretive about it. It's nothing to be ashamed of but people don't want to necessarily know about your sex life. There was a paddle that hung on the wall in the kitchen with a lot of other kitchen tools and if you didn't know any better you would probably think that's what it was. Her kids knew and thought nothing of it.

My daughters, a few of my girlfriends, some of my workers, and my wife's boyfriends.

1> my parents knew, before they passed away

2> my ex-wife (first marriage) knows, although she never spanked me

3> my two older sons (from first marriage) and their wives know, and both daughters-in-law have spanked me (and, i have spanked them)

4> my current (second marriage) wife knows, and she spanks me (and, i spank her)

5> my wife's sister and mother know, and they have spanked me

My wife and a women I met 7 years ago that was the office manager of a client I was doing some computer work for, I jokingly said if you don’t stop breaking your computer we are going to put you in time out, to that she said I would rather have a spanking and replied that can be arranged, she later text me and asked me to call her, I did and she said she was into the spanking life style and used to attend spanking parties but didn’t anymore but she had always liked my ass and would like to spank it, I said that would be awesome, I told her I liked to be paddled she sent me a picture of a pink oval paddle and said she has used this on many mens bare asses and a few women. we met a few times and she blistered my bare ass a few times, no sex just spanking and a few enemas, haven’t seen she her in a while problem won’t because my wife now takes care of paddling my ass and giving me enemas.

I do wish my wife would tell her twin sister about spanking me, I would really like her to paddle my ass with my wife watching.

One day when I was about 11 or 12, my school friend Mark came to call for me and at that moment I was in my bedroom bending over my bed getting my dad's leather slipper on my bare bottom. I could hear my mum letting Mark in and telling him I was upstairs and would be down in a minute. Then when my dad had finished slippering my bottom he went downstairs, and Mark would have seen him still carrying the slipper he'd just spanked me with. Then after that I emerged from my room still in tears and rubbing my sore bottom. Mark teased me about it but I managed to put on a brave face and joke about it. After that the word started to get around school that I got the slipper when I misbehaved at home.

My parents spanked my brothers, sisters, and me. My aunt (mom's sister) and her daughter- my cousin. Three high school gf's who played Paddle Poker with me in our basements. My two housemates, after I left home and shared a house. My husband, of course and a woman friend that I meet for spankings, a few times a year. I think that's it!

I was never spanked by aunts or uncles. Some of my dad's sisters were large, well-built ladies and I wouldn't have minded a good slippering from them, but it wasn't to be. If I misbehaved in their houses I'd get a slippering from my dad when we got home.

Two of my wife’s friends know that she spanks me and I spank her. At first I was annoyed she told them, but now I find it a nice mixture of exciting and embarrassing. I’ve never told any of my friends.

A select group of people are aware of my spanking fetish. Including a couple of my wife's female friends.

I try to keep it to the absolute minimum, to my mind 1 person knowing in rl is to many. But i know some of my family know, and certainly in my teens prob some of my friends. My parents although they never shouted it out, they never felt a need to hide the fact either.

Carly 23 UK