I have been with three ladies four times, (one did not learn her lesson the first time!) I was not what women called a "good catch" for many reasons, most of all my own attitude. I'm 66 and just learning how to act.
Now that you have a quart of quite warm SSE in you I'm sure that you want to use the toilet, but not yet, girl. An inflatable butt plug slides in as soon as the nozzle slides out and you are ready for some more gently labia play. Feathers are good but I like to use soft animal fur wrapped around my finger for the opening moves, then, being careful to keep my fingers warm, a thick lubricant works well. I have found that I can mix J-lube to be as thick as vasaline which produces a good sensation without irritation.
I watch you squeeze your bottom as the enema does its job while you thrust your pelvis, trying for all the sensation that I will let you have. When I hear a good rumble from your tummy I know that the time is here, part your labia and use my tongue and lips to work your clit into a mammoth orgasm. As that fades I help you to the bathroom for a well deserved release.