Other than the Locker Room, Have You Showerd With Another Guy?

While in the military, I shared an off-base apartment with another NCO. We were both into fitness, and would make a 3 mile run every morning about 5:30am before having to report for duty at 8am. Returning to the apartment after our run, we would both pile into the shower, scrub each other down (including genitals), rinse and dry off. No funny stuff, just good clean fun, although occasionally we'd both masturbate ourselves if time permitted.

When I was in college, I ended up in the shower with another couple. 2 guys and a girl all together in the altogether. Lots of groping and stroking. Everybody was touching every body. Hot times. We were the 3 cleanest people on campus.

There's a group car wash outdoors at Burning Man.

About 20 years ago, I played on an amateur football league for the volunteer fire department. It took some time away from our families. The fire house had a group shower and as a thank you to our wives, about ten of us let our wives watch us all clean up after our last game. Other than that, we had an outdoor shower at home my dad and brothers would use after working on the farm and the college dorm showers were group showers.

Have showered with gay mates after swimming and nothing happened. Been swimming with straight mates, got home and showered with them - helped out drubbing back, arse, legs and junk. Straight guys are a lot less hung up about being touched/ touching than I thought. Just a guy thing I suppose. Costs a lot, all that hot water lol.

In various nudist environments, there are commonly open, communal showers. There is usually no touching but occasionally there has been back scrubbing help.

We had group showers at my summer camp. A couple of them had curtains but most did not. It was interesting gong through every summer and seek how the year had changed everyone as puberty approached. Nothing ever happened that I saw but as I was a little hitting puberty I remember thinking how great it would be when I could wash my own hairy nuts! We also did a lot of skinny dipping at the same camp when I was a counselor there a few years later but only saw one other counselor get hard in the outdoor shower by the pond... It was grea seeing how both embarrassed and proud he was (it was enormous but in a kinda freaky way)

In college, we had a communal shower for each of 6 rooms. It wasn't unusual to have 3-4 guys in there at one time. Several times a couple of guys, including me, would get half or full erections. The other time is my dad and I played handball, and the showers were open, so I showered with him and anyone else who was around.

Up in the Boundary Waters my friends and I will strip off and jump in a lake with a bar of soap in a hot day. Not quite showering, but bathing. Fun to air dry afterwards in the great outdoors.

As a kid growing up I often showered with my dad, and when attending college in NYC I belonged to the YMCA so I could use the pool, and there guys showered together routinely.

At college we had to share but no one really bothered. Straight guys don't gave a big issue with it.

We had communal showers at uni and most mornings there would be 5-10 of us in there. no big issue as we all played lots of sport together except often 1-2 of us would have morning wood..

I've showered in the wet area of Korean spa before. The funny thing is there were dividers between the showers so the guys showering couldn't really see one another but they were in full view of the guys hanging out in the various hot tubs. There was also a cold shower just outside the sauna and steam room where you could pull a chain and get drenched with cold water to cool down--it wasn't uncommon for buddies hanging out together in the sauna or steam room to each take a turn pulling the chain and getting drenched.

I have showered in gyms that had open shower rooms. In college, that was the case. I worked out at a YMCA a few years back and the shower room was open. So I was standing next to 3 or 4 guys showing on a Saturday morning. In college I lived in a dorm that had shower stalls but no shower curtains. So everybody pretty much knew what everybody looked like within the first couple of weeks. In all these situations I never saw any masturbation or fully erect penises.

I will say that all these instances took place at a time prior to any type of trimming or shaving. Everybody had a full bush so there wasn't any unique looks in terms of pubic hair.

College dorm had open showers as well as the military.

My mate & I would go for a jog before work, coming back to my place to shower and change, then catch the same train into the city. At first we’d take it in turns, but as we got more familiar with each other we saved time by going in together. Being a single shower this was cramped, but over the weeks it became more uncomfortable to bump into the cold tiles than it did into the warm body of my mate so occasional body contact became the norm, even penis to penis.

Yes, I have always enjoyed showering with my boy friends. Some of my earliest "experimentation" was in the shower when a friend slept over.

Initially I was a bit shy for various reasons, then I took the plunge in group showers with my mate (neither of us having seen each other undressed before). To my dismay he had the mesmerizingly eye-catching whopper I thought I would have dreaded, but then I realised that showering with him actually took away anyone's gaze from me, & was something to be welcomed, as well as admired!

I got hot reading this topic because I have a fantasy of showering with a big group of men. My husband would have to be one of them though. I would look around at all the penises and all the men would be taking looks at me! I think I would chicken out if I really had the chance to do it though.

I am sorry for intruding on this man's topic but I had to say it.

Thanks Amethyst!!

Now I can fantasize about being one of those guys in your shower.

I got hot reading this topic because I have a fantasy of showering with a big group of men.

I'm sure there are any number of us who would be more than willing to share a shower with you.

OMG Jimmy and Al. I know I would regret it if I ever got the chance and didn't do it.

I hope you would all stand to attention and salute if you know what I mean. Hahaha

OMG Jimmy and Al. I know I would regret it if I ever got the chance and didn't do it. I hope you would all stand to attention and salute if you know what I mean. Hahaha

Hmmm. I guess that all depends on what actually goes on in the shower. Would you be willing to help us get squeaky clean? Perhaps you could lend a hand or two in lathering up our bodies, and then rubbing your hands all over us to make sure we get clean. Once we're all cleaned up, there might be a need for you to inspect us -- you know, just to make sure we're all clean. Or would you rather just watch us in the shower instead of actually participating? I suppose if you get the right group of men, they might be willing to lend a hand to each other in, um, getting clean. 😃 You might enjoy watching something like that too.

Hahaha There might be some back scrubbing and some liquid soap dripped onto me. I would need to inspect you all to be sure you were clean. When I make sure you all measure up I hope you would all be standing to attention. It is only polite! :-)

I've been to a few Japanese onsens (Japanese bath) if it counts. You are not allowed to enter hot water (pool) water with anything on you not to degrade water with chemicals etc. in the fabric. Before you enter you have to wash throughly with many other folks in your birthsuit.

Japs are not homophobic and there are even some bathhouses that cater for bi/gay folks. Anything goes there in showers, in hot water tubs/pools and mist/regular saunas....

I've been to a few Japanese onsens (Japanese bath) .. and there are even some bathhouses that cater for bi/gay folks. Anything goes there in showers, in hot water tubs/pools and mist/regular saunas....

Athough I'm not gay, but I've been put off onsens so far in case going so openly naked among other nudes in such close proximity for such a long time gives me an erection and folks got unsettled & thought me gay. From your insights, it sounds like the possibility of an erection is no reason to stay away from onsens? What do you mean by 'anything goes'?

Yes with another guy many years ago. Water running down us both he was pounding me from behind i was moaning pleasuribly. I received my first orgasm. Got an enema first to clean out the poop and one after to clean out the cum.

I got hot reading this topic because I have a fantasy of showering with a big group of men. My husband would have to be one of them though.

As long as your husband would be cool with it, you would have the potential to fulfill this fantasy by privately renting a communal shower area, whether it be a locker room at a school someplace, or anywhere that would provide that setting.

A pre-requisite may be to mutually decide who you both would be comfortable having along. Whether it's people you already know, interested people from here you want to meet in person first, or go for the complete stranger effect. However you wanted to play it out.

i bet you could make this happen a lot faster than i could make my fantasy happen, of sharing a jacuzzi with some nice middle age & mature ladies. The commonality of bonding over warm water.........

I am a late-starting bisexual older married man, and have had a small number of sexual encounters with other similar men. Last May I met with a friend that I had been intimate with two times before. We met in his hotel room, and enjoyed some mutual body contact, stroking and sucking each other. He is into watersports, so we took a shower together. I indulged him with a warm golden shower that he thoroughly enjoyed, and we finished off washing each other all over in a soapy erotic fashion. This was my first time doing this, and I really enjoyed it. Rubbing together like that was wonderful, and resulted in the exchange of delightful oral sex.

I never have, but wouldn't hesitate if the opportunity arose with a guy I found attractive.