What is the best part of an enema to you?

New word, or at least new usage to me. Bunged up = full of stool, needing to defecate? Or is it specific to mean constipation?

Eric

My guess is constipated. Bung=the hole in a barrel (such as is used for wine). Bunged up has allusions to the plug being driven in hard and the stuff inside being unable to come out. Very descriptive and I like it.

Love ❤️ #467

Oh so exciting for me, with uncontrollable anticipation! Just how I am feeling right this minute!!! WOW Great post!!!!!

The large nozzle inserted is good but the warm water and filling me up is the best.

Loved you comment FiestySue of 2018/03/27.

Three things:

1. I like the insertions, especially when I can get a larger nozzle in past the second sphincter. It's a weird, but very satisfying, feeling.

2. I like the water flowing in. I .ike to go faster than some of the people on Zity, but I leak if the flow is too fast, so I have to moderate it, and I like volume, as much as will go in.

3. I like the empty feeling when I am done expelling.

This is how I also like to give enemas.

Expelling the very end when you have no control and it rushes out

So many choices!

1. The anticipation of getting an enema. Starts from the very moment my wife tells me one is coming. Can be an hour ahead or 2 days ahead, it starts me thinking and getting excited.

2. Seeing and hearing the bag fill while I sit and wait for the water to heat up, watching the soap go in, and watching the bag fill. WOW

3. The enema prep with lube being pushed into my ass with gloved fingers. She sensual massage before the insertion of the tube to relax me.

4. The entry of the nozzle. No matter what type or size, the nozzle insertion is heaven.

5. The start of the warm/hot soapy water entering my ass. The initial wash of water entering me.

6. The feeling of fullness in whatever position I am in getting the enema. Each position offers an exquisite feeling.

7. THE ORGASM (if I am allowed to cum). Usually it is during the last enema and only if I am able to take the whole bag. The orgasm is EPIC!

8. The release of the water. Feels like an extended orgasm as the water flows past my prostate.

I believe that enemas offer the closest thing to the female orgasm that men can experience. So I have to go with #1-#8 as my favorite!

The best part of an enema is when I am nude on my hands and knees on a towel on the floor and the woman or man, who is giving me the enema, places a lubricated finger deep inside of my anus to check for obstructions. Sometimes two fingers will be used if the enema bulb syringe nozzle is thick and long. The woman or man then slowly inserts into my anus the nozzle of an enema bulb syringe that stings when it is inserted and fits tightly. I become aroused by the feelings of pain and pleasure, imagine that the nozzle is a penis or a strapon, and become very submissive and obedient to their control.

The anticipation of KNOWING that i am going to give a female an enema. waiting until i am ready to tell her, "get ready, Honey..."

that "enema face" the look when she is about to be given an enema is priceless.

The clear return!

Because then it's over!

At least till next time

Let’s see the best part of the enema. Well there is this mild shuddering and spasms I experience on filling. Then there are the nice long whooshes of solution being expelled during my final 3-4 quart rinse. But the best part is when my body and the solution are in sync and I experience this gut wrenching, almost orgasmic, expulsion. It feels like my whole colon is trying to turn itself inside out to get rid of the solution. It doesn’t happen all the time but when it does its pretty awesome.

Just being loved in the enema way.

Just being loved in the enema way.

GyneDoll,

I've written on this thread and many other threads as have many other Zity klismos about all of our favorite features and experiences of making and taking enemas. I really have loved almost everything about them for >50 years since being a teen, and now at 68 they are a great pleasure as well as helping my often difficult orgasms (difficult to produce, not unpleasant) with my ED. But of all those lovely exciting erotic arousing sometimes submissive and just plain fun and delightful parts of an enema, I think Gynedoll just for me hit the jackpot.

We sometimes discuss here if we like or want or on the other hand would prefer not to have any or all of our particular fetishes. I have about 5-6 depending on definitions, and certainly enjoy doing all of them to become aroused and orgasm. However as nice as they are to experience and as much as they enhance my arousals and orgasms, more than occasionally I wonder if not having them be more or less a requirement for me to have arousal and orgasms might be better overall. I say that only because although I have many wonderful people that I love and cherish, I do have great difficulty holding onto very long term loving relationships and my list of fetishes could be a major factor therein. After 68+ years, my opinion is that I'll probably never really understand the difficulties and trelation of the fetishes to them.

Having said that, since in reality I still do have them, especially enemas, and I do find it nearly futile to enter a relationship with a woman who objects to them. So the feelings I have strongly equate accepting my fetishes with truly bring loved by a romantic loving partner. In addition to the wonderful sensations and emotions I experience in doing them, any time I momentarily stop to think about it I really have intense pleasure and similar emotions when my partner is practicing my fetishes with me - i.e., "she's accepting and sharing my fetish(es) with me, so she can love me enough to have a relationship with her." Now as I said above, not having to deal with these ffetishes I've had for ~50 years at all might make the whole issue moot and the relationships better and more stable, but since they're not going away probably anytime soon, I'm glad I can at least enjoy them with a loving partner.

Thanks Gynedoll. Nicely said.

Eric

I used to think that my enemas were mainly for physical health (I've got a sensitive gut, and that's legit). However, having to cope with COVID-19 and how it has affected our lives (thank God my family is still healthy), enemas are also giving me an emotional release if I'm feeling tied up inside and stressed. I did a full bag cleanse last night with sea salt and soda – and cried afterwards in Rob's arms before bed. It was so relaxing, and I felt so much better mentally. My wonderful husband's understanding also helps! He knows my emotions and "gets it." I've had these "best part" experiences in the past, but they are more intense and enjoyable now.

Thinking more about this question - the best part for me is when I'm on my left side, on my towel on the bathroom floor and looking up at the bulging full enema bag hanging down off a chord attached to the shower head. Now the big thing for me is to have the bag turned around so I see the back of the bag, not the front side. Seeing the bag this way makes it look fuller, and even more bulging than seeing it from the front. Its funny, but that makes a big difference...

I used to think that my enemas were mainly for physical health (I've got a sensitive gut, and that's legit). However, having to cope with COVID-19 and how it has affected our lives (thank God my family is still healthy), enemas are also giving me an emotional release if I'm feeling tied up inside and stressed. I did a full bag cleanse last night with sea salt and soda – and cried afterwards in Rob's arms before bed. It was so relaxing, and I felt so much better mentally. My wonderful husband's understanding also helps! He knows my emotions and "gets it." I've had these "best part" experiences in the past, but they are more intense and enjoyable now.

Vicki,

I always enjoy your posts including this one, but just an interested query this time. What sort of sensitive gut do you have? Are any of your enemas to help with your gut or all just for recreation? I've had pretty bad reflux most of my life, but it's almost always under good control with one or two meds. I just take enemas which I really enjoy for recreation and orgasm stimulation, but I need to be a little careful about what's in them because my colon/rectum/anus are very sensitive and easily irritated. So I usually need to llimit it to one or two large volume enemas for a long hold time instead of the multiple consecutive enemas other members seem to like.

Glad your family is still healthy with all the virus being passed around these days. We are too so far.

Eric

I'm getting an enema right now 3quarts... WoW!

It feels so good!

I am feeling good all over after my enema even if it was small (less than a litre). Afterglow and I didn’t masterbate or cum, but my body feels like I had

When I was a kid the best part was when it was all over with and my mother was satisfied with the results and didn't give me a second one.

enemas are also giving me an emotional release if I'm feeling tied up inside and stressed.

My ex-wife and I found, an enema or two, helped calm down our kids when they were out of sorts, plus, it also help the two of us, when we got stressed out. A couple of enemas never failed to calm either of us down, when one or the other, was getting grumpy.

The best part of an enema to me is feeling the water slide through my insides. The second best part of an enema is feeling full and mentally knowing that the fullness will soon need to come out.

Everything,.. starting with the gentle lubrication, the deep slow nozzle insertion, the stimulation to my prostate....and....an orgasm!!!!

The most important part of an enema session is knowing that the woman I'm playing with is enjoying it as much as I am. The best part for me is the lubrication. I like her to take her time and make a hobby out of it. The longer the better. Gentle and deep with a good amount of external finger work will send me to the moon. I think the oiling should be a sport unto itself. Oh, I guess it is!

When the table is turned, I love to spoon my lover and use my hand to ready her. I will spend time getting her to relax fully, and when she seems ready I'll just reach over and insert the nozzle while I'm still spooning her. A little finger work from me and things warm up nicely for both of us. This will sometimes result in a rather dangerous activity. Luckily, we have not had any "accidents" yet.

The most important part of an enema session is knowing that the woman I'm playing with is enjoying it as much as I am.

I posted several thoughts about this down below since the OP query and thread was started, and they still hold today. However, Odonata hit the nail on the head in his text I partly quoted above, but for me it also applies to any other kink or vanilla sexual experience we have together. If she's not enjoying herself, neither can I. My ex wife one night completely surprised me by trying to hit all my kinks at once, so she dressed me head to toe in a neoprene rubber wetsuit with hood and gloves and my favorite sneakers, tied my hands, inserted a butt plug and acted very dominant and controlling. The only one she missed was giving me an enema, but we'd never done that before so I'm not faulting her or complaining a bit. Once dressed and tied, she proceeded to give me the only oral sex I'd ever had that was so good I orgasmed from it. The whole kink preparation and actual sex time she acted like she was really enjoying giving me what I enjoyed.

But on another occasion she volunteered to have me give her an enema, but I (very possibly wrongly) declined just because it felt very much like she was really pushing her limits and really didn't want to do it. I've been really very fortunate in finding GFs and wives who didn't mind or actually enjoyed sharing my kinks with me. Here's to my finding another before I'm too old to enjoy it.

Eric

As mentioned before, all parts of the enema is exciting for me in its own right: from the anticipation, preparation, to the lubing of the tight naughty hole, to the insertion of the nozzle, the filling and then the holding and finally the release. When I use an enema can, the gurgling sound at the end is specially exciting.

And all this is true for giving and receiving enemas... I love the look on her face when she notices the large enema bag on shower rod in the bathroom or the big enema syringe next to the sink... The begging to stop the flow and the pleading to be allowed to got potty and getting privacy.