Hey Guys! Does you wife or girlfriend ever give you a handjob?

One if the best orgasms I ever had was a hand job.

She was filling me with a nice hot enema as she pumped away

I had the bottle of massage oil and kept squirting it on me so she continued pumping up and down.

She would tighten and relax her girip as she slid up and down the super slippery oiled shaft.

As I started to cum she gripped real tight and I erupted a fountain of cum. Super memorable.

Thanks Debbie, wherever you are now

Thanks Susie. Believe me, I’ve tried...

You have my condolences.

Does she not do handjobs because she thinks it's a one-sided activity?

I hope she has sex with you.

It’s complicated. Mostly menopause and overall exhaustion from life’s demands. Generally speaking the gulf between our interest in sex has widened over the years. I don’t mean to lay all the blame at her feet. My kinks have become more pronounced and seem to contrast with her vanilla attitude on the subject.

My kinks have become more pronounced and seem to contrast with her vanilla attitude on the subject.

A handjob is just normal though. I do not think wanting to get a handjob is a kink and giving one isn't either, it is just part of sex. I do not think you should not get a good handjob because you have got kinks and she has not.

Agreed. I’m just using this as an illustration of a greater issue at play here, Amethyst. I don’t have the time to delve into the background at the moment. There are a number of factors that contribute to both her and my dissatisfaction with our sex life. The point I was making with my original post is that I am the grateful recipient of an occasional handjob, though if I had my drothers, the quantity and quality of the handjobs would be greater.

How in the hell - can you not give hand jobs at sometime or other with your partner? I love the feel - of a hard cock, soft cock, well - cock, in my hand even if it is just to caress that lil puppy. 😉 Getting the right angle - that might be a problem, but wow is it fun to just run my fingertips right under the rim of his cock, along down the shaft and barely skimming over the hair on his balls. It is a rush for me - because if I control his cock, I control him, and I love to watch his toes curl, the hair on his legs stand up, and using my hands I can keep him on the edge of cumming for forever. 😈

Hand jobs - and being willing to do them as foreplay, is where it's at when doing a man and giving him the complete sexual experience of just who I am. 😉 If I'm naked to fuck a guy - I've decided he's going to be part of my scene, and I want him cumming back for more. 😁

Handjob, blowjob, vibrator job and an occasional boob job. She is great.

Pam loves to give me hand jobs. She likes to watch me cum. She enjoys it so much, that she almost cums too just from using her hands to give me pleasure.

To get into our favorite hand-job position, Pam sits on our bed facing me with her legs apart while I sit between her legs, and I put my thighs over hers and wrap my lower legs around her waist. Then I lean back on my elbows. We can fuck in this position if we scoot together just a little bit more and Pam puts one leg over mine, and sometimes we do and forget about the hand job.

My best hand job ever in this position was a few weeks ago. Pam gave me a hand job while fucking my ass with a huge dildo with a head nearly 3-inches in diameter on 2.5" diameter shaft. It was the biggest toy she had ever used in my ass. . First she lubed up my cock and balls. Then she had me spread my legs wide and put my heals on her shoulders so she could lube up my anus and all around it for several inches. Finally she lubed up the monster dildo with tons of lube. It took her five minutes to slowly work it into my ass and get its huge head and some of its shaft into me.

Once impaled with the monster dildo, I lowered my thighs down on top of Pam's thighs as I wrapped my lower legs around her waist again. Pam then grabbed my cock with one hand and began slowly stroking while she used her other hand to push the dildo deeper into me and move it in and out slowly. Then she dropped the dildo and squeezed my balls and ran her hand up and down my taint. I kept the dildo action going by moving my hips slowly in and out to slide myself up and down the monster as Pam pinned it in place with one arm and her body.

When Pam felt me about to cum, which she is very good at doing, she backed off to delay my orgasm. She stopped using her hands to stroke me and switched to just squeezing me gently. She had my cock in one hand and my balls in her other. I went crazy and tried to cum by moving my hips in and out as Pam edged me. I moved my hips in and out faster and faster for several minutes. Pam just kept squeezing. I couldn't cum just doing this, but I tried as hard as I could to fuck myself with the dildo for several minutes until I was exhausted and dripping in sweat. Then Pam slowly finished me off by moving her hands at a maddeningly slow speed up and down my cock and over my balls.

After being on the that insanely pleasurable edge for at least 10 minutes, I absolutely exploded. Pam squealed in delight. I'm paraphrasing from memory here. Pam effectively said, "Wow! Look what you did! I've never seen you cum that much and shoot that far. Look. You hit hit yourself in the chest. There's some on your beard. You hit my boobs too. Look at the puddle on your stomach. We need a towel."

To get into our favorite hand-job position, Pam sits on our bed facing me with her legs apart while I sit between her legs, and I put my thighs over hers and wrap my lower legs around her waist. Then I lean back on my elbows. We can fuck in this position if we scoot together just a little bit more and Pam puts one leg over mine, and sometimes we do and forget about the hand job.

My husband and I do the same thing. A variation on this is for my husband to spread his legs as he lies back and I sit between his legs. This is also a good position for fisting, the difference being I back up a little to have a straight entry for my arm as I jerk him off.

One night a few weeks ago my girlfriend gave me a very slow and long hand job while laying in bed. She used her spit and my pre cum as lube. Once I finally came. She was impressed with the size of the load she got out of me.

On occasion, with substantial encouragement. Truth be told the finest ever handjob I got was from a masseuse for whom I was a regular client, once up on a time. She had an enormous rack, and would incorporate those phenomenal milkers into the finish along with her expert hand skills. My balls were never emptied so thoroughly.

With the bar set that high, it's hard (!) to be enthused about a prospective lesser performance, even from a devoted girlfriend.

If you're out there Rhonda I love you!

Yes my ex-gf love give handjob and make me ejaculate 2-3 times until my ball dry and my penis unable to get erect again. She doing that because love to play my penis when get erection and also love control my sexual function.

Sure. Generally hand/mouth in alternation. Most often as foreplay (getting me hard for her vagina) but sometimes going to the end. I love it.. when she goes to the end I feel she's in control.

Last gf did, but just as a foreplay, not reaching up to the end

Usually wife strokes me just as foreplay before fucking, but sometimes I cum in her hand because I am too horny to wait for her pussy. Feels good too!

Usually wife strokes me just as foreplay before fucking, but sometimes I cum in her hand because I am too horny to wait for her pussy. Feels good too!

Do that with me - and the only hand job you'll get in the future is a single finger salute as a wave goodbye. 😉 😈

She doesn't give me a handjob but sometimes when we pass in the hallway she will say fuck you and flip me off. Does that count?

She doesn't give me a handjob but sometimes when we pass in the hallway she will say fuck you and flip me off. Does that count?

No - that is oral sex.

Wife does as foreplay and on a few occasions has taken me to completion in the shower, quite enjoyable!

My Wife most certainly has given me a hand job both before we were married and after, I've worked her off too. We both enjoyed it too.

I do occasionaly jerk my sub, but not to orgasm. It is one of those "it just feels good" things I do for him.

When he was recovering and adjusting to his new meds it had a calming and relaxing feel for him.

I usually only quit because my arm got tired. 😜

Yes of course it's normal sex...

It happened very regularly during that time of the month and very pleasurable it was too. Nothing nicer than gently fingering a woman while she brings you to climax with her hand.

I particularly enjoying the woman watching ejaculation, that enhances the pleasure for me.

When we enjoyed an active sex life, my wife quite often gave me hand jobs, blow jobs, and vaginal sex just as I often performed oral sex on her, masturbated her, and rimmed and tongued her ass.

Mistress uses the Magic Wand on my sissy clit when i have been good. No hands. She brings me to my sissy orgasm and then i get to eat my sissy cum.

Master Toutatis: This is not very considerate...

If handjobs are kinky than most of the kids in my high school were kinky because handjobs were happening a lot!

I love to give a handjob! I love seeing and feeling my actions are having an effect. I like making him squirm. Some days it’s in lieu of penatrative sex for whatever reason, some days is foreplay, thanks to age and medication, some days it’s the finale. Any day it’s lovely!

Of course she does!!! Wifey likes my Cock (til now.....lol). And she likes the way she makes me feel when she does it. Sometimes, due technical problems, it's all I can have from her. But it worth it! 😃

My wife always gives me a hand job when we are laying in bed watching tv shows and when the show is over it gets serious

Of course 😁