Hey Guys! Does you wife or girlfriend ever give you a handjob?

I would love either one. My wife will rub the front on my plastic pants over my diaper once in a great while but never a true hand job. She say’s it would be more like a finger job anyway as I am small, but she doesn’t want to get any wet on her as I am always wetting myself. Obviously a blow job is completely out of the question.

Handjobs are actually the only sex my wife and I now have. We have been married 37 years--I am 67, she is 70. She no longer wants intercourse and has never done oral. I am Ok with this, although I would love intercourse once in a while, but I have never looked elsewhere for sex, so, it s what it is. A good handjob feels great, but not quite like intercourse. Oh well!!

Yes. She gives me on quite regularly in addition to intercourse.

One of our favorite activities is to take turns lying back while the other pleasures you with toys and fingers. We've both experienced the most incredible orgasms that way.

I am gay, so I do not have a wife or girlfriend, but I do enjoy having a female see and inspect my penis. I have had numerous experiences with women giving me habdjobs. I quality handjob requires an appreciation of the appearance and function of the penis. The women who have beat me off like to see the penis go from flaccid to erect and then appreciating the changes that occur with stimulation and progression toward ejaculation. They begin with taking the pants and undershorts down to expose it. They and I prefer having them provide the exposure rather than just having me undress myself. Following exposure, a thorough examination of the penis and scrotum ensues with aggressive palpation of all the structures as a man knows from medical examinations. I have usually included inspection of the anus as usually a digital rectal examination to get the prostate stimulated. Then the woman beings stroking the penis after some aggressive squeezes to ascertain that the glans is engorged. I think a real lover of the penis wants to see the glans really red or purple with full engorgement giving flaring of the corona and the meatus. I like to have he balls played with with the left hand while the right hand strokes the fully engorged penis. Form then, it is just a matter of providing good long, firm strokes that extend the full length of the shaft until ejaculation begins. Take care to continue the strokes until I let her know that I have finished. Totally satisfying.

I'm really into "heavy petting" and love it when we both give eachother a hand job by reaching into our pants or from the outside. The wet crotch is such a turn on.

Occasionally she just isn't interested in having anything done to her - no real idea why and she can't explain it either. She is happy to give me a handjob which usually ends up with a lot of oral too and is very very good at it :-)

VERY occasionally, after being very thoroughly paddled, while holding a big, soapy enema, and with hands restrained to the headboard. Without exception, a good time is had by all.

I've given my share and half the pleasure for me is seeing my late husband's reactions, or that of a current BF.

I'm not one for the mundane. So, imagine being in a fine, fancy restaurant, white tableclothes and all and suddenly feeling your "lady" unzipping your pants and taking matters into her own hands. Planes are fun, too. Isn't that why they pass out the blankets, anyway? ;-)

(OMG! Did I just write this!)

My wife loves to play with my penis but it is primarily for her own enjoyment. I just lie back and relax as her gentle exploration of my glans invokes pleasure. Her movements appear random and I experience a rising and falling tide of joy. I can approach orgasm many times in a session but have never ejaculated from this type of handling. This usually happens in bed but once she began to play while we were at 10 km in the air in a darkened cabin of a 747.

Hundreds of times and excels at it. We met in our early 40s. She was very sexually active but other than foreplay she never made anyone she dated cum. Some of the best when I'm sitting on the toilet releasing an enema or on all fours trying to hold one in. Letting everything go at once is incredible!!

Yes my Partner/Friend with Benefits for last 12-13 years does give me a handjob least once a month sometimes more but when she does it always only One of Two Ways She either has me get on all fours and Milks me Kinds idea making me orgasm into her hand or saucer etc. then she rubs on breasts or has me swallow or lick it off her ,wanting me to know the taste so when see gives me a Blowjob (she forever telling me to drink or eat more Pineapples makes taste sweeter she claims) The other way If/when she does it is if were just leaving to go out ,going shopping ,to her parents for day/supper,to friends cottage etc. she gives me handjob and makes me unload in underware then she wipes off ONCE and tells me now I know how it makes her feel when we have intercourse and she leaks and panties wet all day .Still Love the Handjobs will never complain !!!!!

Yes my wife gives me a hand job at least once per week she loves to do it as a part of larger fun. She usually does one of 3 things when she gives me a handjob. One of her favorites is to get me hot and bothered then she slowly strokes me until I cum in her hand and then she uses this as lubrication for her strap on to fuck my ass. She takes it and puts some on my opening and the rest on the strap on wonderful. The second thing is she likes to make me lay on my back with my legs spread and my hands tied to the head board of the bed and slowly strokes me as she places a finger in my butt and stimulates my prostate. She spends usually an hour making me beg for her to let me cum it is unbelievable tease. She makes me so hot. The last thing she likes to do is make me wear a pair of pink panties and she gives me a hand job and makes me cum in the panties and the she calls me her little sissy boy and then licks the cum out of the panties and gives me a hot passionate kiss. This one I don’t mind it except for the kiss of cum.

My wife has but not many times, that I remember, 20 years since I were hard enough for this to happen by her. However 50 years ago my girl friend gave me one as I was laying down with her other hand holding my head to her breast to suckle, my ejaculation that night produced more semen than I ever produced since!!!

Crazy question to me! As a wife or partner it's a woman's duty. In relationships I gave long hand jobs and blow jobs daily... and sometimes multiple times in a day. I enjoyed it just as much as my partner. There's nothing like watching your man explode... on you, in your mouth, on your face... wherever he wants. It's his time and pleasure!

Nothing like getting a blow job while she is on the potty finishing up an enema. Very hot and oh so submissive for the lady. Not everyone is comfortable with it, but in the right play context it can be very hot.

My wife gives me handjobs quite often, as a part of foreplay. She is very skilled at it, she knows exactly how I like it done.

Even better is when she gives me a combo handjob/blowjob. Oh so good, and a powerful orgasm is guaranteed! She is the master of my organ.

For my wife and I, mutual masturbation is our primary way of having sex. It’s far more satisfying for each us than intercourse. Almost as soon as we’re in bed, she gets some lubricant on her hand, then grabs my cock and starts playing lightly with it. Then I start playing with her, caressing her thighs and playing with her nipples. It takes me several minutes of this foreplay, and at some point, she gives me some lubricant, and then I know she’s ready for me to massage her clit. At this point, her attention to my cock has increased, holding it more firmly, squeezing it lightly, and rubbing it up and down. Once I’m on her clit, she usually comes several times within a couple of minutes. She finally closes her thighs when her clit becomes too sensitive to take any more. During all this, she never lets go of my cock, but the attention she gives to it diminishes momentarily.

Then it’s my turn. I roll over onto my back, and she rolls over onto her side to reach me. I spread my legs a bit, and she gets some more lubricant on her other hands and rubs it into my crotch and anus. She continues to stroke my cock with her other hand. Sometimes she lightly scrapes her nails across the head of my cock and this makes me even harder. Occasionally, she will release my cock, and reach up and plays with one of my nipples. At some point, with the hand that’s in my crotch, she’ll grab an anal toy and insert into my bottom. After making sure it’s fully inside, she starts slowly fucking me with it. Then, she starts whispering about someone coming to give me an enema. She describes a hot soapy enema in a full bag with soapsuds flowing over the top and sliding down the hose to a large nozzle. She tells me that the nozzle is inserted and then pulled out and reinserted multiple times. Meantime, her hand playing with the anal toy is replicating the story of the nozzle and getting my prostrate ready to explode. Now I spread my legs even wider, and she knows I’m about to cum. A few more strokes simultaneous strokes on my cock and with the toy, and I’m over the edge. I squirt three or four times, and then one final time that always seems a bit delayed (but worth it), and I’m done and spent.

My wife bought me a stroker toy for valentine's day and gave me a "hand job" with it.

I find that handjob is the easiest one way for the girlfriend to relax me. For sure, it should be passionate and I try not to disturb her without the reason, but sometimes after cuddling or in the morning it feels so good. This can also be as a part of foreplay.

My wife masturbates me as part of foreplay. She rarely takes me to completion but almost always have intercourse after so hand play. I'd like to have handjobs to completion as an addition to our intercourse.

As part of foreplay.

Sometimes as foreplay and sometimes and the main event, and sometimes it is even medicinal. I am prone to really nasty sinus attacks and it is so nice to be able to eat a bunch of pain killer and lay back in a dark room, with just your parts exposed and have them be slowly brought up orgasm. The sex gets your heart pumping and I swear you can feel the painkillers kicking in faster, the orgasm brings a rush of endorphins, you expel just enough energy so you can very gently drift off to sleep. I wish doctors could write prescriptions for sex.

Sometimes when we’re pegging my wife will stroke me until I come.

I'd like to have handjobs to completion as an addition to our intercourse.

@Jimmy 1 Does your wife know that?

I like my handjobs better than hers to be honest.

My wife just about never does, she "doesn't like to touch that thing". When I have guilted her into it I wished I hadn't as she just yanked on it like a city dweller milking a cow. I did have a 16 yo gf when I was 19 who loved doing that to me. As soon as she was in the car she had it out playing with it. I asked her why she liked doing that so much, her answer was it made her feel powerful plus she enjoyed watching me as she progressed and then seeing me come. I told her she could do that as much as she liked.

Once my wife and I were at a friends house for Thanksgiving dinner. The girl was a drinking buddy of ours and her bf was the chef at a restaurant where we often ate and drank. We somehow ended up with her sitting next to me opposite my wife and him. During the dinner she reached over and pulled out my little boy and proceeded to pump away. Her idea was to make me come while my wife was able to look me in the face. I reciprocated but she won the matchup. I don't think my wife had any idea what was going on under our side of the table. I was never able to get her to give me one when we were alone where I could have enjoyed it she just got a kick out of the hidden under the table thing.

@roscoe

I'm with your previous girlfriend. I LOVE the feeling of power even though I am not normally into being dominate.

There's just something about watching your partner go through the stages of pleasure, talking, and encouraging him. Controling his pleasure by the speed and pressure. LOVE it!!! I cannot imagine NOT wanting to touch any part of my partner. I don't get that at all!

Yes, my wife will occasionally reach over when we’re laying in bed and start to rub my genitals through my shorts. Eventually she’ll have me get undressed and will begin in earnest to stroke. I don’t mean to sound ungrateful because I really do appreciate the gesture but she’s not very good at it. She tends to lose interest after a little while and doesn’t pay attention to her grip or the angle so I have to jump in for a little while sometimes to keep things going.

Why don't you teach her exactly what you like?

She probably gave you pointers on what she likes.

Grip your dick, say this is how you do it.

Stroke you shlong and say this is how you do it.

Lube it how you like it and show her.

The same goes for blowjobs. You can suck her fingers, press your tongue against them to show how much pressure you like, the lessons you give should make her better at pleasing you and she should enthusiastically take part.