I Totally Choked

Last night, my fiance took me out for dinner and was being generally more romantic than usual. He told me he wanted me to play naughty nurse with him (!!!!) We have played before but it always seemed more like my fantasy than his. He prefers the school girl teacher fantasy which doesn't do anything for me.

Anyways we got home and he unpacked my costume. As he was doing so, I wondered if he would bother with the stethoscope since he usually just flung it off me anyways. This time he placed it with my other items.

After I was dressed, I started moving towards him. He grabbed the stethoscope and said "would you like to check my heartbeat, nurse _________?" And I totally froze. I went straight into doing sexual things without screaming "I've been wanting you to ask me that since we were seventeen and first dating." I am so disappointed with myself 😢

Why don't you tell us what you should have done to him. Describe the detailed exam that, if you had time to think about it, you would have done to him.

I highly doubt he would mind, and he might find it very hot as well. Every partner I've brought it up with has been receptive. Good luck!

Don't give up!!

It's harmless and fun, it's not dirty or invasive and I'm sure once he sees how much you get out if it ( even if he doesn't know the real reason ), he'll have fun too!!

My husband auscaltates me all the time, and I auscaltate him too, and he has no idea.. Just that it makes me super receptive and honestly I don't think he'd care either.

I think he thinks it's super great to know my trigger. Like when we are watching tv and he decides to take my pulse or lay his head against my chest.

Gets me going everytime

It takes time to get comfortable with the idea. Keep trying

I know exactly how you feel. I have finally admitted my stething fetish Ito my boyfriend. He laid out my steth with all our other toys but I totally froze and couldn't bring myself to use it 😢

Swewtpea456 I would not be too disappointed that you froze. But I'm sure that he will understand and you just have to persevere. It might be advisable to to start off non sexual and fully clothed as it may relieve some of the apprehension.

Oh no. Dont worry too much im sure the opportunity will arise again. Good luck

That's a great story