I must confess I have a great deal of difficulty with the terminology dealing with this topic I am particularly confused by the terms 'transexual" and "transgender".
I have looked for explanations and definitions, but it is never entirely clear. I have seen women, who may not have been women, in many locations (Bangkok, San Francisco, Miami, Edinburgh, Toronto), and never really interacted with any of them. Some are very attractive people, but I never had the chance to experiment.
Recently, however, I was enduring my usual lengthy wait in my family Dr.'s waiting room, and the only other patients were an elderly lady and a slim interesting young woman. Long straight hair, sharp features, slim figure, and displaying an "attitude" by her demeanor. The three of us were chatting to pass the time, and she informed us that she was only present to get a referral for psychiatric or psychological counseling. She was quite far along in her transition, with hormone therapy, and looking forward to eventual surgery. She seemed very brave to me. I asked about her family and friends, and it was apparently a mixed bag in terms of acceptance. I must admit I felt an attraction to her. More in terms of looking after her, but a little bit in purely sexual terms. I live in a small city (approx. 50,000 pop.) and I queried whether this particular physician had any clue about her problematic journey. I asked if she had considered moving to a large city. She was unemployed and obviously broke, so that was a non-starter.
To get back on topic, (finally), yes, I would have liked to have had a relationship with her. I would have enjoyed finding out what parts she had, (presumably male genitalia), and hoping we could give each other pleasure. I'm in a relationship, and happy, so this was an idle fantasy, but opened my mind a bit to other possibilities.