Music and timed orgasms during sex ever?

This isn't about kinky sex in particular, but rather about any kind of sex or even masturbation. I find that music can really augment or even enhance sex sometimes (Portishead, goes without saying, for sm stuff). It doesn't even have to be randy or sexy music. But, I've had lovers who find music distracting. Anyone else enjoy sex with music? I do. Anyone ever time their orgasm to coincide with a specific rift or point in a piece of music? Is there a certain snippet of music that can trigger an orgasm under the right circumstances?

Well, I like Steeleye Span and was using their music to time & hold my enemas the other night. Tam Lin is about 10 minutes long. The Weaver is about 6 minutes. Cam Ye O're Fra France is also about 6 minutes and a good rousing dance type tune. The Padstow song is about 3+ minutes.

It's more interesting than just listening to the tic tic tic of a timer. And I can sway my hips & body, rock back and forth and work my abdominals in time to the music to help redistribute the water flowing inside me.

Hadn't thought about trying to time an orgasm to go along with the enema & music.

Thanks for posting that. But, sometimes that tic, tic, tic is good also. The sound of things can be very erotic!

Timed orgasms???

Can't imagine THAT would be any fun! Or even always possible.

Orgasm is SUPPOSED TO come on at it's own pace!! That is part of what makes it so much fun!! Just relaxing and letting it happen!!!

Music is part of the relaxation process, and relaxation is SO important during an enema.

YES YES YES!

We ALWAYS time our orgasms with the climactic conclusion of the 1812 Overture where the cannons are fired. We can't have sex without it blasting in the background. My husband won't get hard and I don't get wet unless it is playing full blast! In fact, our daughters, their friends and anyone else in the house will know we're having sex because of the loud 1812 Overture being played.

NOT

For you non-musicians, that's the part used in the Quaker Puffed Rice commercial. 😁 😁 😁

But yes, we do sometimes have music playing.

Orgasms, etc. happen when they happen and sometimes at our age, we're lucky if they happen at all. Timing them to music strikes me as, shall we say, a little anal? We do usually have something on in the background, some Zen music. We can barely hear it so it's meant to cushion the experience we're having, not to drive it.

I've had lovers who find music distracting. Anyone else enjoy sex with music?

Music, combined with almost any kind of activity whatsoever is a real distraction. Or rather, let's say that music can only be fully appreciated if you concentrate on it and on it alone ... otherwise it's only annoying background noise that breaks the concentration necessary for special activity. Take shopping in a store that believes it should be recreating the decibels experienced at a rock concert - how in the world can anyone remember what they came in for in the first place with music blaring all around them? I'd say the same applies to sex ...

Besides, isn't it a well known fact that males can only concentrate on one thing at a time? Like walking OR chewing gum? ... ha ha ...

In my "Guy" group and the subject of sex came up....expecially connected to music in any way, it was always the goal to time sexual encounter with "Bolero"; if one could make it last all the way thru. (To my knowledge...nobody has that I've ever met.)

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Music, combined with almost any kind of activity whatsoever is a real distraction. Or rather, let's say that music can only be fully appreciated if you concentrate on it and on it alone ... otherwise it's only annoying background noise that breaks the concentration necessary for special activity. . . . .

Agracier, I partly agree with you. When my husband and I do an S&M scene, we usually have "scene appropriate" music in the background. It can be thought of as having positive and negative effects. It can help a submissive settle into subspace or keep her/him there longer than without it, but it may also at times be a distraction. It also gives the dominant one something to listen to besides the screams of the sub. When we're fucking, we may have music on, but when we're making love, the only sound coming from the room is us.

My audiophile husband definitely agrees with you regarding music being something you appreciate most when alone. If he is seriously listening, he doesn't want anyone else in the room, especially women because he says all we do is talk and we can't sit still with our mouths shut while listening to the recording. Men are OK by him because they don't talk when listening. To him, listening to his stereo system is an ethereal activity, more serious an event and more ceremonial (especially when he plays vinyl) than being at a live concert. He doesn't want to hear anyone breathe, let alone cough. Talking will get you thrown out of the room.

Sheesh! When I say time the orgasm I mean get there, at the edge of the cliff and wait for the music to catch up and then let go over the edge. I'm surprised by how many of you think it sounds so crazy. Kind of funny actually, considering some of the stuff on this site. :-) It's just another form of enhancement, not for everyone, or maybe not for anyone...but me!

It is possible to train a dog to poo on command. It would be interesting to train a woman to have an orgasm on command!

I guess women would rather train men NOT to have an orgasm on command.

I guess you could consider this teaching your submissive to come on command!

LOL!

Here Spot! COME!

I can see how this might be fun, or kinky. For most people, music seems to connect directly to the emotions, often without going through the part of the brain that does analysis. For some, that may mean that to have the full emotional experience there must be total concentration on just the music; for others it may be that the music is a mechanism for turning off distractions which are still present.

In the end, I expect there are as many ways to enjoy music during sex as there are different feelings about enemas, or orgasms. It is this individual diversity that makes us humans, and that makes life fun.

It is nice to hear people enjoying themselves. some times my girl and I will put porno on just for the sound effects"""""

I used to masturbate to Andreas Vollenweider's Dancing with the Lion album. The song, Ascent from the Circle, was where I'd have an orgasm. The song is rhythmic, layered with instrumentals to an amazing crescendo. That particular song is short, compared to my wanting to enjoy masturbating, so I'd have to start earlier in the album. I forgot all about doing that - so thanks for the question!

Not to go off-course, well, just for a minute; I actually used to get deeply engrossed in Vollenweider's Eolian Minsrel album, particularly a tune called The Painter's Waltz. Can't seem to locate it anywhere. Any ideas? I'm sure it wasn't a figment of my imagination, I remember rocking a child to sleep with it. If anyone is familiar, please PM me.

Here ya go:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZebwpBslT2Y

"Lo, how the red rose carries my name..."

There are some things you just don't forget, like the lyrics to a song you haven't heard in ten years. Thanks much to those who responded on the forum and privately, the album is on its way to me!

I have all Andreas Vollenweider's albums and like his earlier five or six disks best, but never considered masturbatiing or having sex to them in spite of the fact that the beginning of Behind the Gardens sounds sexy to me with the couple giggliing with the sounds of the babbliing brook in the background.

Try Samba Pa Ti, by Santana. Most erotic music ever.

I can't get off on Carlos for sex.

He doesn't do it for me.

I remember that lone ranger intro susie. we usta sing it on the way to dispose of our trash --- to the dump to the dump dump dump

Timed orgasm can also mean orgasm at command or orgasm in a fixed amount of time. When I play tease and denial with my partner, I often use this. After edging my partner tied 3 or 4 times, I gave her a time window (let's say 10 seconds) in which she can touch herself as she wants; but if she unable to come in this time interval, I tie her again. Very exciting.

We've tried having sex to Ravel's Bolero and many of you might have remembered the scene when Bo Derek did that. It sort of works for us, but that is probably the only music that we have sex to.

Every time I hear Portishead I'm immediately transported back to an sm play party (a great party at a great sm space) I went to in New York City about 10 years ago. Thanks for posting the music you all like above. I will check them all out.

Back in the day, I'd put on the soundtrack from the movie "Hilary and Jackie", and try to be ready to orgasm by the seventh track, which is titled A Day on a Beach. Even now when I hear this track, I experience frisson. But to orgasm with it is mindblowing for me. Here you go. http://youtu.be/EY9Ly4UNMDk

I had a job that required me to carry a 'beeper', which, at the time, was 'sound 'only.. One fine day, my young thing got frisky and, while undressing both of us, I put the beeper on an ironing board in the bedroom. And, of course, deep into our session, the beeper went off. I had not yet finished, and had no intention of quitting, AND could not reach it to turn it off, so I kept time with it until the end!!

Never had sex with music on. Could be interesting.

The first thing that comes to mind is the 1812 Overture, orgasm just as the cannons fire. Should work solo or coupled.

With a partner there is always the Beatles Come Together.

What a divisive topic! Recently, and after witnessing a truly inspiring spanking to music, I’ve been asking my kinky friends about their preferences in spanking to music and have encountered a similar divide.

Perhaps it is the dancer in me (dance has been a lifelong passion, practice and study for me), or perhaps it is some inherent relationship I have to music- but I love playing with myself or an enthusiastic partner to the right music.

The right music perhaps depends on my mood and the mood of my partner- as in partner dance, I can be really into a song, but if my partner isn’t, I can feel it and it won’t be the magical moment I hoped for.

I love syncopating my breath, movements and even where I am placing my focus to the music.

I have yet to come on cue with the music. I’ve surprised myself a few times with an unexpected ease at coming more on command with certain partners, but for the most part my body does as it will and trying to make an orgasm happen at a given time tends to feel stressful and make it less likely to happen. It is an intriguing idea however, and I can see the potential in approaching it with more relaxation and trust.

For whatever reason it has been a very long time since I have indulged in this and no longer remember the songs I liked best. I do have many memories of teenaged masterbation sessions, my fingers in an intricate dance on my clit, moving in time with one song or another. I remember also a time of kissing a friend and the music he was playing putting me so perfectly in the moment, enhancing and bringing more sensual energy to our kiss than I knew I had access to. And I remember also a pretty terrible play session with a guy who refused to turn off his playlist of 80’s rock power ballads even though I asked him to. So, absolutely- music during sex can be terrible- I can get that’s perspective too.

Anyhow, I was pretty thrilled to find this old thread and very much look forward to listening to all the songs posted here.

Yup, I've had sex to Ravel's Bolero.