Handjob immediately after ejaculation

I don't know if it's as psychological as it is physical, but it's extremely uncomfortable. My wife ties my arms and then proceeds to masturbate me.until I come. Instead of stopping, though, she then concentrates on the head of my penis, rubbing and twisting until I'm screaming for her to stop. What makes it psychological is, I know it's coming, but just can't keep myself from ejaculating, because THAT part feels so good. Pain and pleasure

My husband LOVES when I keep massaging his penis after he cums--even on the head.

Just relax and let her do it. Maintain your composure after you ejaculate and let her do it. You'll like it. Just settle into it.

By the way, one of my favorite things to do to submissive men, either my husband or other men at S&M parties is to tie them up and masturbate them until they are ready to cum---and then I walk away---just before they cum. FUN FOR ME!!!

It depends how rough the post orgasm stimulation is. If it is very soft and gentle, it is ok, but if it is strong turns to be uncomfortable.

As a switch, when I act as a sub I like to be tied and stimulated to the edge, then stop, then stimulated again. I should like to be in your hands, Switchablesusie.

I have a similar problem. my partner will put my cock in their throat and keep it there long after i've came. i love cumming in the throat but having all that stimulation post-cumshot is extremely unpleasant so I get off on the pain at that piont instead of the pleasure.

This is something that I insist on doing to my Male Patients.

From the moment of orgasm/ejeculation, either the patient or I as Doctor will continue the masturbation counting up/down to 100.

No amount of discomfort,begging or pleading will stop the countdown until 100 is reached.

Otherwise known as post orgasm torture.

I've never found someone to really help me experience it.

I really love it when my wife continue rubbing the head of my penis after I cum. It is unbearable pleasure. I would beg her to stop but she would just continue. The feeling is like it wants to ejaculate more but inside is just empty. A real good sensation.

This my dear friends is a very interesting concept and one in which I WILL be trying out at some point. I must remember to do this. My subject will have to be tied down naturally in order for it to work. Hummm, very nice, yes, very nice indeed. Thanks jwcoopuse for the fantastic idea. You rock!

Mashie

Do let us know how it turns out, Mashie. This sounds excruciating to me .... SO sensitive at that point !

That really sounds like a lot of fun in a very sadistic way. Let us know how it goes, I always hate the point where they are so sensitive after orgasm, because it feels so good to continue to stroke them. There is just something lovely and fascinating about having well lubed hands and stroking that so very soft skin of the penis when it is still so hard. I always feel like I haven't completed the job. However, stroking the man to the point that they are close to cumming and stopping before that point of no return is also fun 😈 . Doing this 2 -3 times before letting them cum is very enjoyable because their orgasm is usually so much harder and better when it does happen. And let's face it, seeing them tied down with a raging hard on that is twitchy because it is so sensitive at this point, is a thing of beauty! Talk about emptying the prostate, and you can't say that we do not love what we do. Just trying to keep our/your big boy happy and healthy. Break out the Stroke 29!

Never tried after ejaculation stroking, but I love tease and denial, ruined orgasm and orgasm control. EQueen you are my goddess.

I'd have to be tied down....ok i'll try it

This also works on woman, Later in life. once done she wants to stop being stimulated. would be a great punishment!..

Thank you for this tip. I have had my play examiners use this technique since I saw the original post. My two play examiners always get me an ejaculation after the exam is done. This has usually been done by giving me a hand job to the edge and then finishing me with ejaculation in the mouth--with full swallowing. I have enjoyed this experience because I think it provides humiliation for me--being naked with the examiner being completely dressed as well as seeing me at my most vulnerable as I reach orgasm and ejaculate--and also for the examiner who is giving unreciprocated service and having to swallow as much semen as I pump out. Just as an aside, I require them to take a swallow of a soda after taking my ejaculate just to prove it all went down. For the past couple of months, I have had them get me off entirely with a hand job and continue the masturbatory action for one minute after my last spurt of ejaculate has been expelled. This is painful but enhances my embarrassment. Every guy should try this. The pain is almost debilitating.

I haven't found someone to explore this with me. My last GF, couldn't grok the process. I can't do it for myself as I loose interest after ejaculation. Now, I'm not sure how well it'd work as diabetes has taken its toll on my nervous system.

I haven't found someone to explore this with me. My last GF, couldn't grok the process. I can't do it for myself as I loose interest after ejaculation. Now, I'm not sure how well it'd work as diabetes has taken its toll on my nervous system.

You are right that you cannot do this for yourself. As I mentioned in my post above, my two masturbators continue to beat me off for sixty seconds after the last ejaculatory spurt. Within about ten seconds or less the pain becomes so intense that I am moaning in agony. There is absolutely no way I could stroke myself through this degree of discomfort and, actually, part of the excitement is having someone else in control. I did not mention earlier that they beat me off dry, basically sticking to working the shaft of the penis until after I ejaculate and then put some lube on the head and stroke mainly on the head during the post-ejaculatory hand job.

I see a mistress that does this for me she is really good at it. She will tie my arms and legs and after about 30 minutes of teasing my head she rubs the glans and all over the head until I start cumming. She never takes her hand off my cock head uses my cum as lube as she keeps rubbing the head all over very fast while holding the base tightly with her other hand. If she keeps this going my cock keeps trying to cum over and over. I try my best to get away but she has a tight grip on me. I plead with her to stop but she just says this has to be done part of my treatment for masturbating and cumming too fast. She is usually wearing a lab coat and white platform heels for the medical effect. It becomes so sensitive she smiles as she sees me squirming and crying out. She notices when I try to keep my self form cumming but she knows how to tickle my nuts just right as her other hand is going to town on my cock head and I know what is coming after I blow my load. She tells me that what she does is keeps stimulating the glans and head while I'm cumming and if she were to stop for a few seconds the ejaculatory spasms would stop she wants to keep that going. Sometimes she will use a small sound and run that in and out after I cum.

This is a subject that I have had some interest in. After ejaculation, when I try or have a parner try to continue the feeling is intense and as if I have to pee. Have always stopped them as I did not want to go somewhere they did not want to go. WOuld love to have someone take that final step for me so I know what happens.

This is a subject that I have had some interest in. After ejaculation, when I try or have a parner try to continue the feeling is intense and as if I have to pee. Have always stopped them as I did not want to go somewhere they did not want to go. WOuld love to have someone take that final step for me so I know what happens.

You KNOW you could take that final step yourself to find out.

I fear a lot of u r fight evolution's design. Right after climax a guy gets super sensitive.

Why? Because that makes him want go go deep so that her motion stops. That's is evolution's way of increasing chance she will get pregnant.

Unfortunately that means that just when she wants increasing motion, he wants her to hold still.

Fortunately he can resume again in a couple minutes.....until he is soft.

Tricky business, sex. Getting recreation from biological necessity ain't easy

Hmmm. Would be difficult for me to measure that,because try as I might to avoid it, i usually fall asleep for about ten minutes after we finish. Its a guy thing,i guess.

I have tried it, but I have to be in the mood for pain as it is really painful for me. If I am not in the mood for pain it is just torture.

I have tried it, but I have to be in the mood for pain as it is really painful for me. If I am not in the mood for pain it is just torture.

The key is, you have to have someone else do this for you and I think it needs to be done by someone who gives you hand jobs regularly. I have several people who beat me off on a regular basis. They understand the stroke motion and rhythm that works the best for me and have become familiar with my sexual responses. I'm sure every guy has a particular grip, rhythm, stroke length, and grip position and tightness that gets him the best possible ejaculation. I find that when I have a new person giving me a hand job, it takes a good deal of mentoring and guidance to have him yet me off in a satisfying manner. I think the key to the post ejaculatory hand job being a good experience is having a service provider get you to the ejaculation in the best possible manner and get you a good complete ejaculation which doesn't leave you with that feeling that you didn't quite get it all out. I now have three people who are able to provide me with this quality of service with a hand job. We plan the post ejaculatory hand job In advance. They will see that I have completed all the ejaculatory squirts and then proceed to continue stroking my penis until I am literally writhing in pain. In an odd way this is somewhat of a humiliating experience which I have used at the end of an exam session to enhance the overall embarrassment.

I have had this done before. I wanted to be restrained to have it done. The thought of knowing it is going to happen is a real turn on before the orgasm. All pain that I like is that way. So after I cum I want nothing to do with it. So being restrained gives me no choice but to accept it. And after orgasm rubbing of the head is pure torture.

Hmmm. Would be difficult for me to measure that,because try as I might to avoid it, i usually fall asleep for about ten minutes after we finish. Its a guy thing,i guess.

You wouldn't fall asleep if she kept rubbing the head of your dick.

Its the build up to to ejaculation that is pleasurable for me, I get no pleasure from the actual ejaculation, so I like to prolong the build up as long as possible, However I have once experienced a tremendous head to toe mind numbing orgasm at ejaculaton at the hands of an expensive trantric maseur, and I have on one occasion had stimulation after ejaculation, it wasn't for long, but the sensation was extremely powerful, I've a high pain threshold apparently, but that was at the limit of my endurance, but I'd love to experience both of those sensations again

SS is absolutely correct, stopping and walking away is TORTURE, at some point most guys will beg to cum. I think SS could teach us how to be deliciously nasty, my wife is on her way with a few tricks of her own

Some excellent detailed points from exam doc.

There is scope for pushing the psychology here. During an exam for ‘medical’ purposes it may be necessary for the doctor to ensure there has been a complete emission. Indications for this might be if the testicles or prostate felt congested on palpation, or if the subject had become inappropriately aroused earlier in the exam. Any of these could be taken as indications of the need for a medically supervised ejaculation, which obviously requires proper stimulation and direct observation in the approach to, actual and post ejaculatory periods.

However it remains a medical procedure so if the subject appears to enjoy parts of the experience that is additionally humiliating for him. All in all this could be developed into an intense psychological experience leaving the subject properly physically and mentally drained on completion.

Dr Fox

I’ve been ‘polished’ a few times and although the thought of it is very exciting to me, the actual experience is pure torture. I have to be restrained because no matter how much I want it, for me it’s impossible to remain still or in place for it to continue. I have had rope burns on my ankles and wrists and it feels like I am going to dislocate my shoulders I want to escape so much. Usually I end up having another orgasm and if it continues, I have peed without any control. I will scream, beg, cry for mercy and promise anything to get the administrator to stop. Afterwards, I don’t really feel any pleasure at all. My penis is so sensitive I can’t even hold it to relieve the sensitivity. It is pure torture at that point and it’s still very sensitive and can even continue to spasm. Polishing definitely causes more sensitivity to me. I have remained inside a woman after orgasm and it they continue and I remain hard, it doesn’t have the same effect as hand rubbing. Even having a second orgasm inside her doesn’t make it that much more sensitive. Maybe the vaginal tissues are softer and smoother than the palm of a hand. All I know is a hand job that doesn’t stop will have me in tears and like a piece of jelly if it continues.

chubasian said

. . . . Maybe the vaginal tissues are softer and smoother than the palm of a hand. . . .

MAYBE ? the vagina is softer and smoother???

Have you felt one lately? 😁 😁 😁

The vagina is better lubricated too.