Mother massaging son's sore bum

Hi All,

This is my first post here but I've really enjoyed reading other peoples experiences! It's good to know I'm not alone with these various kinks. My first memory of anal play (and the reason I believe I absolutely adore having my anus stimulated) is when I was a little boy about 10 years old. I was raised by a single mother who did her best.

We had been out shopping and I remember complaining to my mum that my bum hurt, it stung and when I walked the entry to my young anus stung and burned. I think it is called "Pruritus ani". Anyway we continued shopping and it got worse, so we went home. I remember almost crying due to the pain, and being the caring mother that she was she pulled down my pants and gently rubbed my hole. I remember her at first being ever so slightly hesitant but once she saw that it bought me great relief she got more into it. It wasn't sexual (of course) just a mother making her boy's ass feel better by gently rubbing it. Looking back it was such a beautiful caring act, I was lying on my stomach on my bed and she was sitting next to me.

I remember she went and got some vasoline and rubbed it for about 10 mins until I feel asleep. It was so comforting. I completely forgot about this incident until a few years ago (28 now) when I was trying to trace back my first anal experiences.

Anybody else experienced something similar?

. . . . my bum hurt, i. . . "Pruritus ani". . . . .being the caring mother that she was she pulled down my pants and gently rubbed my hole. I remember her at first being ever so slightly hesitant but once she saw that it bought me great relief she got more into it. It wasn't sexual (of course) . . . . she went and got some vasoline and rubbed it for about 10 mins until I feel asleep.. . .

It is at least VERY unorthodox treatment. A quick wipe with neosporin ointment would do the same thing.

I do think your mother got a thrill out of it and you were too young to know.

I'm not so sure, it is possible she did but I don't believe so. If she did, it was perhaps at a sub-conscience level.

It was more mum not knowing exactly what was wrong, when she pulled down my undies and exposed my anus she touched the hole gently and that kind of relieved the pain.

Speaking of a sub-conscience level, I think you really knew the answer to your question before you posted it, didn't you? Otherwise, you would not have brought this up in a forum title "Anal Eroticism", would you have?

What your mother did was not way out of line, I don't think. I think she was trying to make you feel better. Butt please don't kid yourself into thinking that she did not in some way enjoy this herself.

I also had a similar experience as a young boy and was tenderly and lovingly rubbed and massaged like that and 1st off, there was no psychological or physical damage and 2nd of importance, the person that was kind enough to give me this caring treatment was welcome to feel how ever it was they felt at the time for helping me "get through it". It was positive for us both and never happened again that I can recall. Generally, the majority of people are far too uptight about being kind to one another and in so doing, it having the possibility of (god forbid) good feeling as a result. What the heck is wrong with us that we do that??

No but it reminds me that I used to fantasize about my mom's friend, our next door neighbor Patricia, coming over to take my temperature and caressing my anus like that. That's definitely a teenage fantasy I used to have alot.