My favourite toy at the moment is a realistic vibrator that is 8½" x 1 ½”.I’ve just started to experiment with either a Perfect Fit Fat Boy 8" Extender or a Colt 3-In-1 Male Enhancer over the vibrator. These increase the thickness dramatically but they are soft/stretchy and a little forgiving over the solid vibrator.I’ll be moving up to a longer toy very soon – probably 10” x 2” ☺
10" to 12" length with 1.75" to 2" width toys are ideal. But finding something like this with ripples has been a frustrating task though. Never seem to be any in Adult stores.
Indy24, rippled, single ball & multi ball ended items can be found on www.amazon.com...one such brand name of Doc Johnson has a variety & then there's www.siliconenozzle.com that have the silicone snakes which are available in various lengths & firmness
Can I say both? Because I like both. Nice and long to feel filled up, nice and fat to feel stretched out. It's lovely to be able to feel both.
I like long over fat - my favorite is about 1" diameter soft and flexible and will go in about 30" after several enemas so that I am completely clean inside. Feels lovely going in and just as good coming out.....
My largest nozzle is about 1-3/4" dia, which is plenty for me. I regularly use a 36" colon tube.hankb
I have a selection of long toys that go from 7/8 inch to about 2 inches in diameter. It is fun to work my way up from the smallest to larger diameters. Then I move to the larger diameter shorter toys for a nice long stretch. My favorite position is to stack 4 or 5 pillows on the floor and climb on top using the pillows to push back against the dildo. I place a chair in front of me for added support. This way I can raise up and down, rotate my hips and rock back and forth. Wonderful feelings.So if I had to choose between long or fat, I would choose fat.
Long and fat for me. I like playing with them while taking an enema. I fill my ass up with water, then shove the toys up too. They tend to go deeper when water is filling me first.
Sometimes I use a long and fat (8"x1-7/8") dildo type nozzle so that I can fuck myself while the water is flowing. As the water goes in, filling my rectum, I am able to put it in further, which allows longer strokes, which are more pleasurable. Trying to put it in all of the way from the start does not work because it is uncomfortable and the tip of the nozzle hits against my colon and blocks the water flow.hankb
The wider the better and not too long. I'm currently at 3.5" diameter (11" circumference) and would love to move to 4" diameter (12.5" circumference) this year. With some toys like the Butt Stretcher Butt Plug from Big Sex Toy Store, dynamic playing is difficult to do without cumming. And I like to prolong the game, so I have to be very careful when I use this one.
Ideally, my anal toy is a solid stainless steel butt plug of at least eight inches in length. My anal toys need to penetrate me deeply. I also must have my hole stretched, so sufficient width to feel comfortably stretched for hours, or even days, on end is a must. For this, at least 2 - 2.5 inches diameter is good. I love my plugs to stay in all the time, so I need the depth, width and, importantly weight and firmness that only a steel plug provides in order to feel properly full and sufficiently plugged. This also ensures my gape is held in a firm, round position and that I'm keenly aware of my anal stretch at all times. So in essence, for me, length and width are equally important; as are weight and solidity. All four elements are needed in a plug I will wear on a regular basis.
Long and less tapered when alone. I hate reaching behind when inserting a fatter toy and enjoy when my GF helps me to accomplish being stretched. Besides, I never seem to use enough lube when I'm alone.
I used to prefer fat toys and the feeling of being really stretched. I got up to 3.5" diameter or so. Then my preference shifted to deeper anal penetration. Seems as I get older I'm not as "stretchy". So, I'm happy now with 2" - 2.5" diameter, and my new favorite toy is a 1" X 24" no-bore snake with a 2" retention ball. Great toy from Silicone Sounds. Feels wonderful.
Having now reached 3.7" diameter toys I can honestly say that thicker is better than length for me. I like toys about 8" to 9" long on the inside of me but no longer to avoid a dull ache inside that really doesn't work for me sexually. I'm all about the stretch of the sphincter and filling pressure just inside my rectum and specifically against my prostate. I'll be graduating up in size again but I think I'll need an oval shaft shape so I can squeeze it between the hip bone gap.
Except for the extreme toys, I think there's a reason that most "large" anal toys average around 2.25" or 6 cm and that's because that's the average maximum size an adult anus/rectum/colon can accommodate without excessive stretching.I'm more into depth now myself. Bigger than 2.5" seems unnecessary to me.
While I enjoy a good stretch from time to time, length is what I enjoy most. An 18" dildo about 1 1/2" diameter is my favorite toy. All the way in is a great feeling.
For me its all about width. I absolutely love the feeling of being stretched and the full feeling of having a thick toy inside me.Both, at different times.I'm greedy.
Currently working easily with 3.5" diam have gone to 4".....width is an amazing feeling.....depth isn't for me...unless it was long and fat..
Depending on what's going on, for walking around the house, I like a firm butt plug that sticks out of my butt about 2 inches. It has a medium thick bulb end, tapers down, then wide again. Has a suction cup on the end if want to stick it to a smooth surface.If I'm sitting down, a 5 inch silicone butt plug with a wide flair. Its red and flexible. Nice when sitting down. I cum very hard with them.
Just purchased the Squarepeg Slink and getting both in one. 20" of insertion and 2 1/5" of width. Hits the Sigmoid and fills me up! If I want more depth I insert the Squarepeg 38" Depth Probe which slides in easily after starting with the Slink and gets really deep inside of me.
For me personally I prefer girth to length.... I have a 2 1/2" silicone plug working my way up ?.... as for length 8" seems to work and feel very good...
I like long an slender but like to be given two deep enemas first. Would love to do a double dong with my lover
I started years ago with standard size 1.5" diameter and about 8 inches long dildo only to discover I wanted to go deeper. After a good enema, I started using doubled end dildos and got a small one (1" dia) past the sigmoid and into the descending colon. Once past the tight area, it was pretty easy to go 17" to 18" deep. Over time I was able to increase diameter to 1.5" and then 2" and going deep. So I like fairly slow long strokes from a soft flexible dildo.
Like to wear plug in the house, different sizes and shape, work in my way till it inflates, one 4 inch diameter
I prefer girth to length. That said, length needs to be at least 8-10 inches. Now that may sound odd, but you don't have to insert the toy the entire length, but if the girth is not what it should be, you can't add to it. I've never tried anything that is inflatable. That may be the better of both worlds.I do prefer toys that have a "natural feel." I have a few silicone butt plugs and a dildo along with a glass plug and metal probe that are all hard. They are okay to start and open up; but for a long workout, a toy with a softer natural feel is better.
I like bigger girth as well up to a point. I can only go about 6" and then it just stops like I've hit a wall. I wish I could go deeper.