While I do enjoy both, I've been more into wide toys than long ones, mainly because my tight spot at the entrance to the sigmoid (the "second sphincter" as some people call it) is stubborn and won't let much get past it. I've been able to fit a fairly slender 18" double-ended dildo all the way in. I have a couple other toys that are thicker but not too thick to reach into the sigmoid. I like to use the Bam dildo to open up my second sphincter, then follow it with the Rambone, which is narrower than Bam but firmer and more textured. Probing that deep feels good, but not for long as it gets worn out and sore pretty quickly. It feels like I hit a wall at 12"–14" unless I'm using a really soft and bendy toy.In the past year I've been trying to push my limits with wide toys. I can take the Ass Servant butt plug which is 3.75" diameter at its widest. And I'm working on the Ream & Dream butt plug which is about 4.25" diameter. I still have a couple inches to go before I can sit all the way down on that thing. Meanwhile, the big stretch feels great. My toy sessions usually involve lots of hopping back and forth between Bam and Ream & Dream.
I prefer fat over length. Three inches wide and about eight to ten inches long and I am good to go! I would really love to wrap my hole around something huge from Bad Dragon.
I agree, thick over long. and the hugely thick bad dragon is a dream on mine. I want one so bad and to take a huge load of "cum" in my ass from it. I take 3.5" diameter once in a great while and 3" diam. on a regular basis. I would love to get to 4" + diameter and take it with ease someday. I love the thought of having a huge gaping asshole.
I like fat dildos and start out usually after a high colonic with a 2.5" toy and work up to a 3" one. So nothing really big by fisting standards but nice. I'm usually fairly sore for the next day or so even with good lube. I've been playing with colon enema tubes from silicone nozzles and sometimes I can take 30" so it makes it through my sigmoid but lately I'm out of practice and can't get through my sigmoid. With water running through the tube as I work it, there is always leakage and even though it's clean water leaking out, the process is kind of messy. This is something which works FAR BETTER with a play partner which I'm always seeking.
The stretch is what gets me going. Working towards taking in a huge toy feels better than having it in... Though there's that sweet spot when it's just about to slip inside that really feels great.
For butt plugs I prefer fat. For dildo riding i prefer long and slender. I guess I like a variety of sizes for different uses.
For butt plugs I prefer fat. For dildo riding i prefer long and slender. I guess I like a variety of sizes for different uses.Yes, I agree. Same for me. I have both but mainly use the plugs or nozzles.Eric
The stretch is what gets me going. Working towards taking in a huge toy feels better than having it in... Though there's that sweet spot when it's just about to slip inside that really feels great.Totally agree with this!
I have to agree with Jimmy 1 . Plugs I like fat 2 1/2” -3” !!! Dildos I like them 8”-10” long from 1 3/4”-2 1/4”
I like both.. working on deeper.. Width is always preferred ... Nothing like the filling of a good stretch!
Not really into either. I like a toy about 13/4 inches dia and 8 inches long. I enjoy the feel at the anus of the toy going in an out.
Definitely not long or too fat. I prefer toys that are generally 1.5 times my own member and not bigger. tried them before just wasn't comfortable.
I like em 10-14 long and 2-3 wide any combination will be do the trick- I think it's the variety I have in that range that really spins my top-or rather bottom. And you can't forget about a good plug that is 1 3/4-2 1/2 is good all day or night. currently the 2 1/4" is just perfect for a bit of Zity reading. My most often indulged is 2 3/8 x 12 1/2.
I've been reading through and what a turn on it is finding out about all your toys ;-), I'm a length person, I have a 18" x 1.25" double ended jelly and it goes all the way in, as previously said the feeling of my ass closing when its all in is awesome ! I also love feeling it high though the wall of my stomach while working it in and out ;-)
I love long if it’s not too thick and flexible. A double ended flexible dildo is great. But I like thick if I want to masturbate. I especially like my thick penis dildo with a suction cup so I can fuck myself as I get myself off.
I prefer both. Long when I focus on depth play (usually a double ended dildo) or fat when I need to stretch my anus. Particularly I prefer fat ones as I enjoy more stretching my butt and I cum faster with a wide anus than when I deep play. Enjoy your sessions!
If I want to fuck myself I want a thicker toy and one with a strong suction cup. Then it will stick to something so I can get a good rhythm. But sometimes I want to go deep I want thinner and more flexible so it will go deeper.
Both. I’ve got thick short toys and long thinner toys. Lately I’ve been wanting to train to take wider toys deep, ultimately I’d love to take arm sized things all the way up!
I agree, nothing beats a nice stretch! Making my anal ring open to accommodate a cock or toy is always welcomed. My wife massages me first to get me relaxed and loosened a little then in goes a fat dildo and she works me nicely.
Since I enjoy my 18" colon tube..... I would have to say length.....I once had the pleasure to do a double ended dildo.... you could see it poking my tummy.