Play Exam Styles

As a Dr., I prefer mostly realistic starts that evolve towards a bit more of the fantasy side. Not necessarily ending with sex, but the idea of testing erotic response with different stimuli are interesting to me. From testing sensitivity with something super soft and gentle like a cosmetic brush up to the intense sensations from a Hitachi Wand. I might perform bimanual and speculum exams before, during, and after sensitivity testing to evaluate changes to the sexual anatomy.

I would want the exams to be realistic in tone but totally unreal in events. Patient restrained for her own good, a male family chaperone required, complete nudity, sexual response tests, etc. The Dr. would be very firm and professional. All body parts referred to by their correct names. The Dr explaining to the chaperone what he was doing as he went. Almost ignoring except to preform checks and tests. No sexual interaction between patient and the all male medical personnel.

I want my play exams to be realistic, but embarrassing. I want all the right parts checked in he right order, but then extra time spent examining my genitals and anal area.

My style is such. Patient come to the doctor for examinstion and one of them(or, at times, both) are medfetishists. Doctor perform maximally realistic examination, during which one starts to seduce another with talks and suchlike and another fall for it.

When the doctor, in fact, finish the examination he starts to do erotica actions in the likeness of examination, continue (very seldom patient makes doctor give up examination in favour of erotic), and then petting and sex. This is my style.

Sometimes patient from the start says something of type "Wow! Ultrasound! I have not got ultrasound in so long! I like ultrasound, It's so pleasant" or "I can't believe, that i will be examined by such a beautiful woman now!"

For my wife and I, realistic play exams are what we like. We keep all aspects of the exam realistic, from vitals to changing into a vest and drape (for her) or undressing to boxer briefs (for me), and the physical itself. We do different scenarios, such as an unexpected preemployment physical, or sports physical, etc. I have my wife dress different for each appointment, sometimes wearing her business attire like a skirt suit or sheath dress like she's coming from work, or her spandex gym attire, or a nice tight pair of skinny jeans and tight shirt. But as soon as a play exam is over, sex always follows!

I want my play exams to be realistic, but embarrassing. I want all the right parts checked in he right order, but then extra time spent examining my genitals and anal area.

totally agree and prefer this approach whether the Doctor or the patient

I prefer the examination to be as realistic as possible but with certain extra procedures which would not be part of an exam in real life. This both as "doctor and "patient"

Personally I think a play exam should incorporate both realistic as well as fantasy aspects . Obviously any play exam has to be rooted in reality for the majority of the exam , as it provides a structure for the process and does outline what aspects of the body will be examined. Also as most women have experienced "well woman exams" and they expect a play exam to follow a similar format as well incorporating the correct exam technique when examine the lungs, heart , breast, abdomen , pelvic and rectal exams.

Off equal importance is possessing the correct equipment/instruments , like stethoscope, sphygmomanometer, thermometer , speculum ( vaginal and rectal) , anoscope etc , trying to add tho the realism , the play doctor attire (scrubs).

Now for aspects of the fantasy , longer time examining areas of particular importance to the patient ( patients request ) , breast , nipples , clit . vagina etc , that go beyond with is professionally accepted.

To me a play exam really is all about living out a fantasy , so a purely realistic exams does nothing but reminds the patient of the run of the mill exam , a purely fantasy looses it appeal as there is no central focus , so a mixture of both reality and fantasy ( but tailored made for the patient ) is unrivaled in my opinion .

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This is a really great question. There's a whole art in the doctor making it as real as possible, but at the same time finding innovative ways to 'enhance' the examination by playing to whatever turns the patient on like embarassment, intrusiveness, exposure etc.

If the examination loses realism that is not likely to happen. Personally I think it's important to keep a slight boundary between doctor and patient for as long as possible, else it risks descending to conventional sexual play.

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I like it to be somewhat realistic with some erotic twists, definitely rectal temps involved but if something happens towards end of exam then see how it goes, it's always nice to finish with a release

I like to give a realistic play exam that follows medical protocol. It runs for an extended period of time and starts with the patient fully dressed. Clothes are progressively removed, initially by the patient. Stirrups are used for both male and female patients and all orifices are examined. The patient has everything explained and correct medical terminology is used at all times. A selection of instruments, including some which will not be used, are clearly on display as the patient enters. I would wear medical scrubs rather than a lab-coat. There are endless possibilities. Tests can be made and the patient waits anxiously for a result that calls for yet more tests.... I have a range of fake electronic test boxes with meters and lights and alarms and probes!

If I am patient I would prefer a similar pattern to be followed and my playgroup tend to keep to this, introducing random 'surprises' to make things more exciting. Erotic arousal usually occurs; it is either ignored or commented on but not 'taken care of' (at least not in the playroom...)

~ MeiWei88

@Meiwei88 Sounds great! I'd love to be part of your playgroup once. Unfortunately this will never happen.

Have fun and enjoy!

Lana ?

I agree with @Susismith when she says to prefer the exams to be realistic in tone but not completely in events.

I prefer the correct medical terminology and instruments but at the same time I love toys too, maybe used to test some erotic response with different stimuli as someone has written.

I would love a sort of mixed style including restraint or spanking, for example, but definitely no traditional sexual interaction between patient and Doctor.

I like mine to feel more or less realistic, and for over-examination to always feel clinical rather than cross the line to abuse. Latex gloved hands and medical equipment only, if semen is involved then it's only as a sample into a jar.

When it comes to anal sex I top, but as a play patient I've had prostate exams since my mid 20s,enemas, speculums and proctoscopes (actually had a proctoscope for real at a STD clinic once), and a number of post-ejaculation prostate massages. While medically unnecessary they were all done in a detached clinical way and answered my needs.

I like a realistic role play examination. When I'm in the Dr role I try to make my examination as real as possible considering the location and available equipment.

I agree with RN1993. In the end every play exam is a fantasy which is based on a medical setting. So of course it is important to use realistic medical instruments etc. But that doesn’t prevent you from using other toys too. I also don’t see why you shouldn’t make your patient orgasm. After all the most important thing is to have fun.

For me it's all about being as authentic as possible, at least in the beginning. Real examinations turn me on, especially when I was younger waiting for the dreaded "Now I'm just going to lower your underpants....". That said I am very keen to have a thorough genital and rectal examination that does cross over into the fantasy side of things. For my last exam I presented as a gay man having difficulty "accommodating" my new partner's penis during anal sex. The good doctor knew just what to do and proceeded to gently dilate my anus with a series of Young's rectal dilators, a large Hegar dilator, and then a life-sized dildo. All done in that detached, professional way that pushes all my buttons. Needless to say, the Doctor thought it best to test my sexual function by extracting a semen sample and I almost managed to decorate the ceiling! That was the hottest scene I have ever experienced!

Medfet is about my getting laid. Sex is a different thing, but medfet pushes my buttons in a way that sex doesn't and vice versa.

I’d like there to be a switch between realistic and Fantasy/bdsm. Where I come in and the exam by the doctor is straight forward and normal. At the end of the exam I’m told there is a slight issue but there is a quick procedure to fix it. They ask me to lay down on the exam table, I do and they start strapping me down, I start to get panicked by this and question it. They tell it for my own good, that some patients have trouble with the treatments they are about to preform. Now I realize what they are going to do to me but it’s too late, I’m strapped down, at their mercy. Then from that point on its a bdsm/ Fantasy medical procedure.

I prefer realistic. I do have some fantasies, but they'll only work with the right doctor...

I agree with others here in that i like realism mixed with some elements of fun

In reference to play exams ... authenticity and realism is a must! I do not want to meet the exam provider beforehand. Of course, email correspondence is necessary for the initial setup. However, as just in the scope of my real exams, I prefer not knowing much about the doctor or what he looks like. In a play ... and real ... setting, I liked to be shirtless when meeting the doctor for the first time. At that point, I like to provide medical information and initiate medical discussion. I also like to be asked to strip to my underwear or asked to be stripped completely before donning an exam gown. I like the mental aspect of knowing that every article of clothing will be removed eventually. My favorite part of any exam is auscultation ... the longer the better. An EKG would be wonderful; however, the possibility of this is usually quite rare during a play exam. If semen is involved I will only provide a sample in a cup ... I do not want to be masturbated by the play doctor. Again ... authenticity and realism is the key for me!

I prefer realistic. I think it's totally different when going down the fantasy route. I'm thrilled by the awkwardness of a physical exam, and a realistic exam is what recreates that best in my opinion.

I prefer realistic.

I'm thrilled by the awkwardness of a physical exam, and a realistic exam is what recreates that best in my opinion.

I agree with you about the impact of "awkwardness." There are many examples but I find having a guy stripped to his undershorts and instructing him to stand and drop his shorts to unveil the genitalia is much more awkward and realistic than having him naked to begin the exam.

I always conduct my exams as clinically realistic as possible. I like to use patient's medical history and his/her current health concerns as my key as to where the patient wants to go. I will always go through the preliminaries (bp, temp, heart and lungs, etc) and not just jump into the gentilia exams.

I always use a safe word to allow patients to set limits so it can be done without breaking role. I will NEVER be nude while conducting an exam and will NEVER kiss or have intercourse with a patient...... totally unrealistic!

I may, if necessary, check patient's ability to respond to stimuli if the patient has reported painful intercourse or lack of lubrication, etc.

If my patient has incorporated age play into the exam, I have no problem in educating them on those parts of their body for which they show curiosity. I may be more lax in my use of terminology depending on the age of my patient.

When I am the patient in a role play, I want the same scenarios to be followed as when I am the doctor.

I prefer a mix. Clinical, yet needing to do extra “tests” regarding orgasms or whatever.

And a nice session of sex at the end is perfect too. ?

I only play with women doctors and I prefer it when she makes me get nude at the beginning and stay nude for the entire exam.

Well mine is not really a style.

My X wife and I used to do a lot of play exams, and they were more realistic than fantasy.

Like, she would come home from work, and say she didn't feel well, would I please take her temp, and see if she has a fever.

I would go to the bathroom and get my thermometer, and by the time I would get back to the bedroom, she would be on the bed, naked and in the sims position.

I would lube her bottom,insert the thermometer, and wait for the reading, it was always normal. I would then give her a realistic play exam.

When I play with a patient, I like to take her through a clinical examination, but with extra time and attention spent on the more sensitive parts of her body. Usually at the start of the exam, I'll set the expectation that it will be clinical in nature but will also be a deeper focus than just her regular ob/gyn exam. Love the mix of clinical with a little something extra.

I prefer a realistic exam and treatment. And I'm not looking to have sex with a patient. Now it does not mean that there are not some liberties taken...