Tips for enema newbies

While I'm a newbie at this site, I've enjoyed enemas all my life, especially the taking of them. Most of my what not to do's I see here already, but sometimes a thing has to be repeated, lol.

Never take alcohol in an enema; it's just too dangerous.

Always clean the equipment thoroughly, with lots of soap and hot water after, and then use alcohol inside and outside of anything that gets inserted.

Always lubricate well.

Any time you use soap, coffee, or other additivies, after you've gotten rid of that enema, you need a clear water rinse, to get the additives completely out.

Never hang nor hold the bag higher than 18" or so above the person getting the enema. Even if the person is horribly stuffed, just give it time: water always finds its own level.

Be careful with volume: ALWAYS listen to your body, or to the person you're giving the enema too.

Be careful about sharing this fetish with new lovers; many will claim an interest at first, assuming they can wean you of it when the relationship is firmly established. N.B.: they CAN'T, lol. 😃

After years of participation in enemas I would strongly encourage the new person to "take is slow" use plain water or water with salt as explained in the "receipes section" Test the water for Temp and be reasonable in using a temp close to body temp. my personal feeling is the enema is for enjoyment not punishment, the enjoyable feelings will last longer if you be careful and use moderation in everything. Particularly the " fascination with large enemas "3 qt/4 qt" takes a lot of practice before successfully accomplishing. Last but not least be careful, others have said it better, don't put up your rectum anything you wouldn't put in your mouth. Extra care about alcohol, Very very dangerous rapid absorbing into the intestinal walls and there is no turning it around, too late and could easily lead to unwanted death.

roberth34

^^^^^ WOW, RADDIL, you're brave! Two quarts of a 50-50 mix of wine and water is about a bottle and a third of wine! I'd be afraid to drink that much, even though the worst I'd expect from drinking it would be a terrible hangover. Making it cheap wine gave you an experience you'll always remember! I once did a bottle of wine (750ml) diluted to a 2 quart solution. I was lying on the floor, enjoying the very slow instillation of fluid, being oralled by my husband and the slowly increasing high. I was in enema heaven for the first 20 minutes, especially after two orgasms, which required my body to just rest quietly for a while. After that, I started to get a little woozy and more than a little light headed. My double balloon nozzle kept everything neatly in place--and that could have been an extreme danger if I was alone and my husband wasn't right there. (If I had just used a regular nozzle, I probably would not have been able to hold the enema and would have just expelled it and made a mess on the bathroom floor instead of retaining it and allowing more and more to get absorbed.) After about 45 minutes, my skin was flushed all over my body and I was sweating like it was 100 degrees. I had a hard time getting up, and my husband had to help me to the toilet. I was totally blitzed and felt weak while I expelled what was left of the enema.

I learned a big lesson from this. DON'T HAVE ANY MORE ALCOHOL IN YOUR ENEMA THAN YOU WOULD DRINK IN AN EVENING- YOU ARE GOING TO ABSORB IT ALL AT ONCE--THREE - TWO OUNCE DRINKS OR HALF A BOTTLE OF WINE MAXIMUM will give you a VERY good buzz, but not put you over the edge into a stupor where you can't take care of yourself.

I still have and enjoy alcoholic enemas, but I know my limitations. It is better to have an enema that is too weak and make it stronger next time than to start off too strong--you might not get a "next time."

No Susie, I wasn’t brave. I was stupid. Thank you for reinforcing my post. You can find yourself over the limit in more than one way with alcohol enemas. If any of you reading this decide to try it, do so with MODERATION. You have no idea how little it takes to cause a real problem. Thank goodness your husband was there for you. I was alone when I tried it. Things could have been much worse.

I disagree when you say NEVER use alcohol in enemas.I have been using alcohol every other week for fifteen years .It all depends on knowing how to use the alcohol.I won't get into what I use for alcohol,but if you are carefull and use your head . by carfully measuring the amount of alcohol along with the volume of water,you can have a super experiance without an ill efect.I am 72 years old and have checkups four times a year,no problems.

Dove said that she is new to enemas back in February; but was looking for advice on positions. At 68, I have been in a lot of different positions during my self administering career. I have found that the MOST comfortable position for giving myself an enea is to put a thick towel down on the bathroom floor. I fill my combo bag and wrap it in a small towel to keep the solution warm. The bag goes of its flat side on the cover of the toilet, I lay down on the floor towel with my feet flat on the floor and my knees bent. This position relaxws the tummy muscles. I find it is easy to insert the nozzle and easy to control the flow with the clamp in one hand. I just relax and let the solution fill me slowly; stopping each time there is the slightest cramping.

I find that it takes maybe 15 minutes to infuse two quarts. I am able to stop often enough to massage my tummy to insure that the enema completely fills the entire large colon. I find that I can retain the enema for 10 to 15 minutes. There is seldom a feeling of urgency to expel. Which is good, because at 68, I am not able to jump up to sit on the toilet.

The evacuation of the enema takes another 15 to 20 minutes. However, when all of the enema seems to be out of me; I only have to go back for a "second sitting" about every fourth time that I use this position. In other words, I get a good cleaning out. After this type of enema, I am relaxed enough to go to bed and sleep a whole night through.

I hope that this will be of some help to those new to the pleasures of the enema.

Joan T.

I thought I could add a slant that hasn't been brought up so far. I am certainly not a minimalist but I do think that in a sense less (not quantity rather "enhancements") is better.

I find that I personally have as much of my enema in my mind as I do in my ass. Consequently, my wife and I will utilize but a few variations on warm tap water. Castile soap usually is indicative of punishment, especially if it is the bar variety vs Dr. Bronners which carries a much less threatening connotation. You get the point.

Anyway the point is that there is so much more to an enema then the contents of the bag, can, or bulb. My favorite is vocabulary! (might start a vocabulary post for our favorite words or phrases!!!!).

I have been most pleased to see the sensibilities shown by the various posters and want to encourage you to play safe and sane and not to forget yourself to some moment of bad judgment that will result in a poor result if not worse. IMHO, jeeter

Letsgo,

Agree with others - no big, intimidating bulging bags and hoses, no peppermint soap or anything else that would irritate the colon and encourage cramps. Get a disposable enema and go slowly, using lots of lube. Since she likes anal sex and is obviously anally erotic, prepare her well with your finger, then pleasure her with the enema nozzle for a while before administering the enema. Play around and have some fun.

Arianna

Everyone seems to have their own opinion when it comes either to given or teaching enemas to a newbe. So i'll give you mind. To avoid scaring a newbe, first show her the enema equipment and explain in detail how it's done.Let her watch you take the first one. After you have expelled the first enema,you now let the lady help you with another enema.The idea is to show her there is nothing to be afraid of.

Now is the time to ask your girl to give the enema a try,be gentle and slow with her, don't use soap for the first one ,she won't be able to hold much water with the first few, that's OK but in time as she takes more enemas the volume will increase.

^^^^^ For quickie anal, that doesn't go on and on, try a small enema, a quart or even a pint. Hold one or two minutes then expel. Then an 8 oz bulbful a few times. The object is to clear a moderate amount NOT THE WHOLE COLON with a moderate amount of water to get out the feces in the descending, sigmoid and rectum, then small rinses to get the rectum clean and clear. It doesn't take a long time and it also doesn't leave you with a lot of residual water that may come out while being butt-fucked, which for us is a turn-off. If you're having an extended anal session with long dildos and long fat tubes for the sake of pushing large diameter tubes in and out, you'll need a full colon cleanout with several large enemas followed by a period of time for residual water to be absorbed.

I like to think "Douche" instead of enema. Since I am only concerned with the rectum when it comes to "non messy sex" sitting on the toilet using a larger nozzle and holding and releasing warm tap water gets me nice and clean as well getting the added benefit of creating mood and having your partner hold the bag and watch is even better. You can tell how successful you are by the color of the water. Half a bag should do the trick but I like to do it twice cause I like to do it ! jeeter

If you took too much alcohol in your enema by mistake,the best you can do is to expell the solution right away,do not hold the enema very long.Take two or three enemas to flush out any alcohol residue that may still be in the colon.This willhelp you sober up.

I dont know why so many do want to try goofy and dangerous things for enemas, like alcohol, tupentine ect, or very large enemas like 2 gallons, All you need for a good enema is the standard 2 qt like mom gave us, with just warm water and ivory baby bar soap solution or castlie soap, I also fron on those very large nozzles you can get on the net, I did try one and no way could i get it in it was just to painfull and that nozzle ended up in the trash dumpster, The douche nozzle and the double balloon rectal catheter works just fine with me, Put it this way if those very large dildo type of nozzles worked so well they would be using them n a hosptial, Just stick with the nozzles i mentioned or any type of barium enema nozzle, if the hosptials use it then its ok,, Not trying to freak peeps out but common sence should prevail with enema use.

I did read that the human colon can hold or take 2 gallons of water but those experments were done on CADAVERS with no complaints from the patient if ya get my drift.

Just go with tap water or Ivory or a castille soapsuds enema and take only what is reasonably comfortable - there should be some pressure for the enjoyment but don't overdo! You can try larger enemas as time goes by. My partner used to complain after the first quart but now happily goes up to 2 and a half.

Yes, do not use any sort of vinegar solution. I tried that once and it led not only to intense cramping and continual dirrhea, but also bleeding. I had to see a doctor.

Kneeling and leaning forward onto the edge of the tub. Spread your legs wide and let your tummy muscles relax. Your tummy will droop naturaly as you fill. This allows the most fluid to enter you while being somewhat comfortable.

Head the advice of our forum. Start out with simple solutions, volumes and stay away from harsh chemicals and slowly build a slate of experience that you alone can manage. Don't damage yourself in the process of exploring your sexual or physical interest. The simple message is be safe and be around for a long time

I find that the Fleet enemas are not quite sufficient, and believe that a bag enema is best. Going that route, even a bulb might be worth investing in, as it is a smaller container that she may have seen for the douche process. If so, that would be an ideal application for this item, though I suggest as eparate one for enemas from the one for douches. Or you8 could get a bag, and have done, getting all of it out of the way all at once, and having a permanent addition to your toy collection. If you go the disposable route, I think it gets too expensive, as they are usually quite small bottles, and it might take three or four, though I do not know for sure in your case, obviously. Trial and error, done slowly, is often the best procedure in this case, so long as she goes along with it. Try a small one first, and see what happens, going from there.

^^^^ More than three enemas is still not a problem when you want a complete clean-out unless you have very severe endocrine or kidney problems. If you assume you absorb a pint of water from a three quart enema and take four of them to clean out, and I strongly doubt you absorb a pint of water from an enema unless you hold it a LONG time, what you absorb after four enemas like that would be half a gallon. Therefore, drinking a half gallon of water the over say, a two hour period which might be the same amount of time for you to take four, three quart enemas will have the same amount of water absorption, one way through the stomach the other way through the colon. In other words, it isn't a problem.

Use water and some salt every time!

Then you can try some more things.

I'm not sure if peppermint soap would be so nice because the peppermint can cause heavy cramping, even when you expelled all the liquid.

So take care with it.

I think the good old 2 qt. bag with the douche pipe is the best, but don't fill the bag to capacity the first time. Work your way up to larger volumes. And take two or three in succession to get clean.

Four puqrts is easily enough taken if it is done slowly enough, or if you have done it enough to enjoy taking it quickly. I remember my first four-quarter. It was almost thirty years ago, and I was new to enemas, but had purchased a combo bag. I later bought a douche bag, filled the two-quart bag, which came from the drug store, then filled the douche bag, having attached it to the combo bag. I ran the second bag into the first bag, then got into the shower and took it there. It was quite easy to take, and rather enjoyable as well. And Dove, you might try taking a smaller enema that way, in the shower, to see how you feel. it was not so difficult to do it that way. But don't try to equal anyone here unless you have done it for a while. It is more difficult to take large enemas at first, until you accustomed to them.

Dr. E's advice is excellent,with the possible exception of the advice on a beer enema. Alcohol is so dangerous no one should engage in the practice by themself. If you can find a doctor you trust one might consider letting them administer an alcohol enema. If you want to get a buzz or get drunk, do it the old fashion way.

Hiya,

I came across this site and found it interesting to the point of wanting to give it a try. So I went out and bought myself a Fautless enema kit. I really do not know what I'm doing so I thought I'd post on here and ask for some advice. I've seen very briefly on the TV on a health program, someone having an enema, it was like a flow going in and a flow going out. However this bag/kit as far as I can tell only seems to have a way to flow the fluid into you, and if I'm not mistaken, its up to you to get yourself near a toilet and let it all out.. Is that correct?

I'm sorry to sound like such a noob, but the instructions are not very clear and I don't want to end up doing some damage inside... From what I've read on the net, it says with other kits disinfect your bag afterwards... So this has me thinking that maybe I'm doing something wrong? I can't see a way to have the after water go back into the bag ????

Also how do you know when you've had enough before you cause damage. I mean is it dangerous? The bag holds two quarts. Are you supposed to let that all in before letting it out? And how long should you try to keep it in before you let it all out? Hopefully someone can guide me up the right path, so i can enjoy an enema without the worry of harming myself.

Just use plain water temp 103 degs hag the bag 18to 24 inches higher then you lube the nozzle and when it bets hard to hold water get up go over sit down and let it out ,

You have purchased a good bag for your first. Fill your bag with tap water around 103 degrees, hang it 18 inches above your

hips, lubricate your rectum and the nozzle (use the douche nozzle), lay down on your back and insert the nozzle, release the clamp fully for a few seconds and close, open again and repeat this until you have received about a pint and go to the toilet and expel it. Then repeat until bag is empty. As time go by you can decide what position is best for you and how much solution and what kind you can hold. Hope you have a better enema this time than the first.

I think that the amount that's safe for one to take is governed by their own body and mindset.

As much as I have enjoyed my first few enemas, I can't see myself going from less than 1 quart to four in a week's time.

We're both new to this - I suggest taking it slow. Work out the kinks before we get too carried away. There's lots of time for more volume down the road.

And read up - there is a good deal of good information available right here on this website - homepage - lower left corner. And I did some other websearching and found similar advice on other sites.

Having learned from the way plain water has left me feeling the last few days, I invested in some sea salt today. I'll be adding a little of that to my next plain water enema in the hopes of keeping the 'weak at the knees' feelings at bay.

Beware of exotic solutions and super large volumes. And pay attention to pain. If you want more sensation, holding the enema longer will often suffice.

Take it slow. If you get too "excited", and that isn't the word I'm looking for, you will stress yourself out and make it harder to enjoy them. You have to relax, but not too much so you can retain your water long enough to make it to the toilet. Practice, practice, practice. With time you will be comfortable taking a bit more water with each enema. You will understand how it feels to your body. The body usually recognizes a "full" feeling as having to expell. You have to retrain your body to recognize that when you are getting an enema that "full" is meaning something a little bit different. Do you have a partner? Maybe they could help you to relax. Try also setting the mood up so it is relaxing and comfortable for you. Good luck.

After you give yourself two enemas to clean out, try the next one ( plain warm water) on your back. Hang the bag low so it goes into your colon slowly. As it enters your backside place a vibrator on your clit. Experiment a little and slide the nozzle in and out over your sphincter but not completely out. You can even do this while the water is draining up inside you. You'll have a delicious climax. 😉

I usually do this on the bed. I hang the enema bag on a floor lamp placed beside the bed. Lay back and enjoy the sensations. If your bowels are cleaned out before hand you won't have that urgency to run to the bathroom. This enema will feel relaxing and sensual. But go slow and that includes the vibrator. Place it on the lowest setting and wait for the gradual buildup. You can place the vibrator on your labia lips and then back to your clit. Another way is inserting a dildo type of vibrator up inside your vagina as the warm flow enters you. Every person's body responds differently but you have a good chance of feeling the sweet sensations up your bottom and genital area at the same time. If you have a lover who can help administer than all the better. Enjoy, trust me its going to feel great!