WOMEN: How do you orgasm easiest and most often?

For the women: Just wondering, how do you cum most often and easiest? I have all my orgasms through oral sex. I've never had an orgasm through intercourse. BUT...when my husband eats my pussy, I will cum over and over and over again!! (he's REALLY good at eating pussy! I'm a VERY lucky woman! ;-))

Well, aside from masturbation, that is. I can get myself off anytime I want :-) I wish I could cum from having my hubby's dick thrusting in and out of me. Just wondering how many women cum that way?

I can orgasm during intercourse, but it takes longer than when I masturbate or my husband masturbates or orals me. But that's OK because I like to fuck, and if I came too fast during intercourse, I might be too sensitive to continue, and I like to have intercourse for a long time before I cum.

Damn me so horny. (Did I say that out loud?) I can cum through all different types of sex with Doc, some are easier than others. One of my favorites though is with a little help from my purple nubbed egg vibe. I like to sit on top of him and ride him hard. With the egg on my clit it allows me to cum hard, cum everytime, and also allows us to always cum together. That we really really love. Mmmmmm. Oh Doc, I miss you so much!

Mashie

By thought alone quite frequently. The mind wanders with sexual scenarios/wishes and I find that can be very arousing and lead me to the point of no return. Most of the time when this happens its without any form of touching. They say women don't think, but this one does and rampantly at times!

Masturbation was the only way that could orgasm. But over the last few years, I am opening up and telling sub to what turns me on. Then I can orgasm with sub during sex. The best position is on top for me.

Due to neuropathy, it takes a little more time, patience, and effort to get me to that place but the time spent is well worth it. Surprisingly, masturbation does nothing for me and vibrators tend to annoy me. My partner's fingers and lips are the best tools God made for the purpose.

In my experiences of having sex with females (my only choice of playing with a partner), is that most seem to enjoy manual stimulation, over penal insertion. I love having sex with a partner this way, as it's fun to help the female the most effectively, and can always masturbate myself, or have some help there, too. I experienced those too, that enjoy the manual play in the butt area, as well as the vaginal area.

Are there females out there, that find the manual type of of play to be more enjoyable, than conventional humping?

I think that guys should always be sensitive enough to help the female in the area that stimulates them the most.

Easiest? Naughty whispers from seduction or dominance, anal penetration/enema and fingers on my clit. The combination of emotional arousal with anal and clit stimulation is explosive.

Most often? Follow that first orgasm with G spot or vaginal penetration and the orgasms can unfold more frequently from there, depending upon intensity.

The emotional play is the ignition.

But I'm sure there are buttons I've yet to discover!

I absolutely LOVE it when Doc talks dirty to me. Nothing gets me hotter quicker actually. And when he demands me to ummm, suck his cock, and uses those words, well, I can almost cum hands free, lol.

Mashie

The only thing that will push me right over that edge is a vibrator on the clit - but that edge is MUCH more rewarding if I have something solid to clench with my ass. Other stimulation gets me going, but doesn't tip me over that edge (sadly).

Elizabeth2010, Wow! You can cum by thought alone? Without any kind of rubbing at all? That's amazing!!! Wish I could do that!! Very cool!

Yes, definitely would love to see a demo! Come to think of it, I'd love to see any female masturbation videos. :-) Please feel free to post any.

I find that once I get into "the zone" I have an easier time. Mood music (in my case funerary classical/chamber music) can help, sometimes strange religious sex makes for a fantastic orgasm - nun porn, etc. Also, I have a tendency to appreciate strange sexual phenomena - and thereafter I have a better time with climax. As constructed as possible without feeling fake, I enjoy creating scenarios with which to come.

Yes CAS by thought alone! At least one person has seen me do this.

Hmmm. Well in order from 'easiest' ie most frequent to hardest:

Vibrator

BFs fingers

Oral (takes longer than his fingers but I cum harder)

My fingers/masturbation without a vibe

Penetrative sex

Nurse Phillips, do you have a favorite vibe?

I do but it's nothing major. The boy got it for me. No name battery operated. Big head with one of those clit nubs. I call it Barney the Purple Dinosaur.

I usually orgasm best from a sensual buildup.

My husband and I both have an anal-enema fetish and outside of that we can usually experience orgasmic satisfaction from what would normally, if you can really define normal or normally “Standard marital activities” with lots of manual and oral foreplay before the final event.

However my best orgasms happen from a combination of several things, if I’m alone it’s an enema and a vibrator or if I don’t have time for the enema, with the vibrator alone.

With my husband it’s the anticipation buildup from selecting the enema “toys”, then what the enema it will be, preparation and finally the event itself lying across the bed with my legs pulled back as he kneels on the floor giving the enema as he twirls and strokes the nozzle in me as he alternately goes back and forth between; lightly caressing the inside of my thighs, cleft of my buttocks and around my pussy with his nails, and sucking and licking me without touching my clit until the bag empties, all the while I feel myself building up for a huge orgasm. Finally when the bag empties he rapidly strokes the nozzle as he sucks and tongues my clit which takes me over the top with waive after waive of pleasure. It takes time but it’s the best and worth every second of it.

I cum best and quickly with intense g-spot stimulation. Being a Gemini, I love fingers and hands so when a man is working his fingers inside me, stroking my g-spot, I ride his hand and get it lined up with my sweet spot and cum to my heart's content as much and as often as I want or that he can stand. My lover knows exactly what to do. He lies down a couple of towels and tells me to lie back on them with my legs spread. He grabs the lube and gets to it. He loves hearing me sigh, moan, scream and call out his name. He gently teases me by asking if it feels good for his honey and if I want to cum, knowing full well that he has me, literally, in his hands. He's not satisfied with just one or two orgasms. He wants me to keep going until I squirt and soak the towels and sheets. He wants to make me cum until I'm completely exhausted and sated. And even though it takes only a few minutes to get me to cum that way, he often keeps it up for hours until his hands cramp from carpal-tunnel syndrome. The side effect of having been a first chair violin player for a dozen years and from being an IT nerd with his hands always caressing a keyboard. But it's always fun while it lasts. Even if his hand cramps up, he'll use a toy to finish me off. He's quite insistent that I'm satisfied.

I have never had a organism while having sex. The only way I can is from rubbing my clit myself, or from my guy licking my clit and playing with my g spot. That everything makes me squirt a lot and it feels amazing

I come quickest when my husband is licking my clit and has one finger in my pussy and one in my rectum. Second fastest is when we r having intercourse with him standing on the floor, me on my back on the edge of the bed, and he rubbing my clit as we do it.

Lots of clit play and him teasing my lips and breasts as i peek i love him to press hard on my clit

I have found my 'spot' to be located just off center of my clit right around '11 O'clock' position. If I use my Magic Wand, I can achieve orgasm within a minute or two, and sometimes instantly. I'm also very multi-orgasmic, and I am often wore out far sooner than I am satisfied. LOL! This is not such a bad thing. The 'shower massage' works almost as well as the Magic Wand. I have also been able to achieve orgasm having sex with a partner, but the really good ones (the only ones worth noting) only happened with one person who seemed to fit me just perfectly when I was on top. *wink* Wow, do I miss him. *sighs*

I have found my 'spot' to be located just off center of my clit right around '11 O'clock' position.

Many, if not most women have a particular spot they like best.

MEN, how many times have you been masturbating or fucking your woman and they say with urgency, "don't stop, do it right there or just like that?"

Men who think they can do the same thing for every women, even the same way on the same woman each time, may be disappointed and their partners will not be satisfied either. You have to follow the woman's lead and do what feels best to her at the time. For some women the place stays the same, for others it changes from time to time.

I and my sub are still trying to figure this out. The manual did not come with me and if it had I am betting it was in some unreadable language. But I and sub will continue to try out different places and such. Oh the fun of continuing to try, try, and try some more. 😁

Though if I have my sub in a bit of discomfort or think of him having to do something I know he does not like to do...... that can be a great asset to push me over the edge.

Why do women's orgasms have to be so complicated, with mind, body, and soul being in sync? Grrrr!

Sometimes trying too hard gets the job done at a slower rate than if you just relax and enjoy each others company.

Mashie

The most explosive orgasms I ever had was when my husband was deep in my ass and rubbing my clit and fingering my pussy all at once. God, I miss that...

Quickest orgasm for me comes from rubbing two fingers on my clit, pressing down gently as the flesh sort of moves around with my fingers (as compared to my fingers sliding freely on my clit). To make it more explosive, i love having a butt plug or finger in my ass. But my old standby is two fingers on the clit. I sometimes use a vibe but when I do, it's through a diaper I've just wet, or through panties or clothes generally.

For sex with a partner, my fastest orgasms come from being eaten out. I actually don't care much for having anything in my pussy, I guess I've gotten used to clit action only!

Best for me involves anal, the bigger, more stimulating, the better.

I have a feeling I would really enjoy oral. But only vaginal stimulation is either too sensitive for me, or not sensitive enough, I can't quite decide. It's like it's overwhelming, but doesn't really lead to an orgasm.

Why would any woman want to have an orgasm as FAST as possible?

I like to help a woman have long, intense, multi- and continuous orgasms. Some women have had 20, 30, 40 and even 50 distinct ones in 2-3 hours. Some said they had a continuous 2-3 hr orgasm. After these, women frequently say that they experienced the most intense orgasm of their life, and that they feel more relaxed than they've ever been in their lilfe -- and the feeling lasts for days.