My wife had her first gyn exam at the age of 20 (26 years ago). She went there to get the BC pill and I came with her for support.
First she had to do some paperwork. After that she was sent to the restroom to give aurine sample and next blood pressure was controlled and they got her weight, height and so on.
Then we had to go back to the waiting room for about 15 min when the Nurse called her back. She asked me to come with her and so we went to the exam room where the doctor (a female one) already had been waiting.
She was asked to take offher blouse and the doctor performed a breast exam. Then she put on the blouse again and took aoff skirt and panties. Next she had to take seat on the "chair" and place her legs in the legholders. (The chairs in Germany are a little different to the ones used in the US. They don't have just stirrups but legholders, which hold the legs under the knee and parts of the lower leg - so the feet are kind of high in the air)
No I was the one to get surprised because the doctor asked her if she would mind having me a closer look. My girlfriend (That time we were not yet married) agreed and so the doctor asked me to get behind her and watch what was to come now.
First the doctor put on a pair of gloves and then slid two fingers of the left Hand into my girlfriend's vagina. With her left hand she moved in the vagina and with her rigth hand she tried to feel the uterus and the ovaries through the abdomen.
When she was ready she took a speculum and inserted into the vagina, took some looks using a colposcope and collected a sample from the cervix using a cervix brush.
Then she removed the speculum and performed a rectovaginal exam. When the doctor slid a finger into her anus my girlfrined looked really surprised. That was a Thing she had'nt counted with.
With that the exam was done, my gf put her clothes on agin and got the prescription for the BC pill and we left the doctor's office.