OK, my first post. I will tell you what I know about my wife's first gyno exam, a pre marital exam back in the 70's. She went to an older male Dr. with the reputation of relaxing his patients by being informal during the exam and by making somewhat risque remarks. In other words, a "dirty old man" reputation. He was also known to be a very good Dr.
She first started by meeting with the Dr. in his office. He asked a lot of questions regarding sexual habits, birth control, etc. He recommended the pill and proceeded to explain the exam to her. Then he escorted her to the hall where a nurse took her to the exam room.
There, she took vitals, made her pee in the cup, etc. Then she was asked to undress totally, including bra and panties. She then put on a cloth gown that opened down the front. The Dr. finally came in and as she said, started at the top and worked his way down. He checked neck lymph nodes, etc. on her neck then asked her to lay back. He untied the gown and totally spread it apart, and said, "Wow, I bet your boyfriend stays horny all the time." When my wife told me this, I about came in my pants, and I immediately had a gyno fetish.
Well, the exam proceeded but when my wife saw my reaction she became a little less descriptive. The one other interesting comment was when he had her spread her legs in the stirrups. She was reluctant, this being her first time (she was also a virgin). He said, "Come on, you can do better that that." The nurse then held her legs separated for the rest of the exam.
As I said, this description did it for me. I was hooked on gyno exams. Unfortunately she now sees a female in the same practice, but I still get worked up and think about that first exam. I know she does not, but she understands my fetish and we enjoy reliving the exam.