A (perhaps too) thorough pelvic exam

Hi Ladies! OK, here's a few questions that's been on my mind for a while.

Have you ever had a GYN while performing the manual or bi-manual portion of the pelvic exam leave you with the feeling or sense that he or she was just being a "little too thorough"?

Our "particular pleasures" aside, have you ever had pleasant sensations during the exam, the Dr noticing and subtly prolonging the examination without ever saying a word, or making it obvious that he/she was in any way?

Have you ever had a GYN touch you in such a way that they perceived it as a pain reaction or response, and indeed it was much the opposite, but you asked them to check again just to receive the sensation another time?

Finally, at what portion of the exam, from the time you here the words, "OK let's have you undress", do you feel the most turned on and, or feminine, if at all?

Your post reminds me of an episode of Family Guy, where Lois and a piano teacher she competes with were side by side in the clinic getting exams, and the other woman said to the gyno, "It's an EXAM, not a DATE."

OK, I am not a woman, but I can vouch for my wife.

I have had many experiences over the years with military male doctors examining my wife. I actually have kept a written log about her thorough exam experiences over the years at different military bases.

I am in the military and my wife is usually seen at the military base clinic and usually by her general family doctor or Primary Care Manager (PCM) as they are known. We have been to many bases over the years and her PCMs are usually males around 25-30 years old. She has had many times that she has gotten a very thorough annual exam or other times when she went in for a something else and the PCM decided that he had to check her internally to see if he could find a contributing factor to the problem that she was experiencing. I think that her PCMs are quick to put her in the stirrups and overly thorough with her because she is strikingly beautiful and a complete 10 from head to toe.

My diary is too long to post but I can message it to you if you want.....let me know.

I've never had a gynecologist seem like they took too long. Hmm... Not sure how I could tell.

My wife commented, many years ago, about a doctor she saw in her late teens and early twenties, that no matter what she went in for, he always found a reason get her panties off and on the exam table. She liked the doctor, maybe too much, and I did not get the idea she was complaining.

While I have written about this previously, I will briefly tell it again as it seems relevant to this thread.

My ex needed an physical to get into a community college LPN program. We were stationed in the military in a southern state and were clearly not “locals”. As I recall I was 19 and she was barely 18 and had just graduated high school. And she was smokin’ hot. Long blond hair, innocent face and what we used to call “puffies”- areola and nipples that stood out from her breast.

Now clearly a breast exam, pelvic and rectal exam ought to be part of a college physical- but they shouldn’t be all that were done!

I went with her and a nurse took us to the exam room and got her vitals (BP, Ht/Wt, temp, etc.). She then left with no other instructions. When the Dr walked in, he greeted us, looked at the forms and said “OK, let’s have you get completely undressed”. So far all is normal, although it seemed strange not to be offered a gown or drape. Then he stood and watched her disrobe. When she was nude, he told her to “jump up on the table”. Without looking at eyes, ears, nose or listening to her chest he went straight to her breasts- and spent a looong time looking at and feeling them up. By now she was blushing and her nipples were hard- but he want done yet. He had her lay, still nude on the table and felt each one up again. I was a combination of pissed off and horney as hell. But he wasn’t done yet. He then walked to the end of the table, pulled out the stirrups and said “put your feet in and slide all the way to the end”. As she did he (thankfully) slipped on gloves and squeezed some lube on the fingers. He had a bright light shining between her legs and as he parted her knees with his elbows he said “just let them fall to the sides and relax”. She looked at me with a terrified look on her face, but her knees fell apart. There she was, spread wide and lit up for him. This was back before women shaved their pubes and she had blond curly hairs running along either side of a pink pussy that was just slightly parted. I watched as he slid his index finger in and out. After a few timed he slid a second finger in. I heard her moan, but he continued literally finger-fucking her with me watching. No bi-manual, no speculum, just gliding his fingers in-and-out. When he had enough, he said “you can get dressed- your forms will be at the front desk”. And then he left without another word.

I don’t think either one of us had any idea of what had just happened. She got dressed, we got her forms and left.

I wish I could tell you that we went home and screwed, but in reality she was sore “down there” for several days.

I have not really had this done but I imagine that there are doctors out there who would do things that are definitely unprofessional. I wouldn't want that doctor.

I had one doctor that every time I went in he gave me a pelvic exam. I enjoyed it though so I kept going back to him

I had an experience about twenty years ago where I am pretty sure the doctor knew I was aroused, I couldn’t help it and she commented that I had a lot of natural lubrication. She spent a long time on the gyno part of the exam and did a recto vaginal exam which I never had before or since.