Enema fascination

Can anyone explain to me the fascination about enemas? In the uk we dont as a matter of course do them, perhaps thats why the thought of having one for me would be so embarrassing i dont know whether i would find this an erotic experience. We also dont do rectal temps as a matter of course? Is this just the British being British????

I would love to hear about your experiences.

The patients I have met for the most part like to include an enema, and enjoy anal play and/or rectal thermometers, as part of their exam. Some have not, and I have conducted exams with and without.

From my perspective it evolves around the aspect of control and embarrassment. Taking control and giving it up. Being subjected to an embarrassing procedure.

Well it's not my kind of thing either but I understand that some people like it. in Portugal it's not common to ask it for medical purposes but many years ago it was more common. Maybe in hospitals in some constipation situations.

It's such an interesting experiance, something going in where it should normally go out.

My enemas have always been lonely, personal affairs. Alone in a bathroom with a couple of bottles of Fleet; no nurses in sight. These were before having colonoscopies.

For me it is the humiliation of a woman taking control of such a personal part of my body. That woman has the power of being an authority figure.

It is strange the way, Just the tought of being giving a hot soapy enema by a female of any age makes me hard as a rock.

My fascination started when I was seven years old in a childrens hospital where I spent twelve years.The nurses gave me enemas for surgery prep,for having no BM for three days and they gave me many enemas for training exercises by new nurse recruits.After all those enemas for so many years,I found enemas to be enjoyable,sexy and healthful.My brain is constantly planning the next session.Enemas are clean loving fun,I advise everyone to try a few.

Let the good times FLOW,three quarts will do.w/m73yrs/Western Ma

In my part of the USA neither rectal temps nor enemas are very common medically. My personal Dr uses all kinds of thermometers and accommodates her patients preference. From childhood I was anal curious if not anal erotic. The idea of being exposed and embarrassed with my butt peeking out and being treated by another just always seemed erotic to me. Having something inserted into my rectum enhances the feeling.

Even hearing the word thermometer or enema will get me excited. The anticipation of knowing I will receive either gets me most excited. I suspect those who enjoy either for reasons other than health are also anal erotic.

😃 I agree with Vickie but as for me I would have my temp taken rectally until I was about seven years old. I remember being over either my mom knee or a nurse's knee to have it taken. One time a girl that was a few years younger than me asked how mine was taken and I told her. She told that she had never had hers taken that way.

For me it's psychological: my mother was verbally abusive much of the time, rarely if ever showing approval or affection. Yet I have a dim recollection of her giving me an enema and exclaiming "good boy" as I expelled. Some deep connection was made, and it still lingers many many years later. (worse stuff in Alfred Hitchcock I suppose).

Most of the fascination relates to childhood memories, so of course if you never received enemas at hat time there is no curiosity to relive those ambiguous experiences.

So if you are interested to know what the feeling is, there is only one way :try it! You should then discover some of the features that makes one practice enemas : the emotion ressented by forcing yourself to something you fear, the arousing when the tips penetrates the anal area, the marvelous sensation of the warm water flowing in your bowels, and the feeling once evrything is over.

Try it, then tell us if you are still disgusted.

I'm surprised you say that enemas are not done in the UK What about all what has been said about Lady Di's having frequent enemas in a specialized clinic?

In UK hospitals retention bag enemas, mixed with antibiotics, are usually only given prior to abdominal surgery after initial clear water enemas to evacuate the lower bowel. Even then, it's not usually a nurse administering the enema, but an aid that gives the enemas. Anal administered drugs, administered when a patient cannot tolerate by mouth, are usually in suppository form. Fleet enemas are given for constipation, but not after abdominal surgery. Bag enemas are given only in cases of serious compaction. The misconception that nurses accommodate patients asking for them for an enema or prostate messsages is pure rubbish. The National Trust regulations strictly prohibit any patient involvement like this. We act strictly on doctor's scripts. We nurses are professional people and are not sex fiends or objects trying to gain favor or sexual gratification with any bloke that comes along in or out of the hospital. We detest and discourage that erroneous image. Nor are we all the perfect figure, scantily dressed on duty or in public. Yes, a few of us enjoy enemas either alone and/or with our partners and a few of us are also exhibitionists, but we separate that from our professional lives. Some of us just happen to be nurses, that is all. We are grown women first. I don't see all this fuss about women in other professions fancying giving men enemas. I originally hated enemas when my Mum first gave them to me growing up, but began to take a fancy to them when I was about 15. I met a few nurses in the nursing school I boarded at and we routinely shared, in private, our enema desires which have continued to this day. Not all nurses are exhibitions either even though some of my friends and I are. Now if you ask me if I get excited giving a male an enema. I would be lying if I did not said yes, but that was during my nursing school days and I kept that feeling strictly to myself and did not involve the patient in my feelings. The only male I have really expressed my true feelings on this subject is my older gentleman friend and we do enjoy giving each other enemas.

I'm surprised how many people, including many of the women I've known, Don't know if they're anal erotic--although a couple of them found out Realy Quick when I got frisky--lol.

I think it's due to early childhood experience. In my case, enemas were used to treat constipation, flu, gastroenteritis, and postop following a hernia repair (age 5) to "prevent straining".

(Really? Prevent straining in a kid who's receiving an enema? Very fuzzy thinking all around for the medical establishment.)

I also think the popular culture of the time re: enemas, probably had a lot to do with the belief that manipulating the bowel was the one means we had to control health. That and the (until recently) lack of efficacy of medical treatments.

It seems for me that my mother enjoyed giving me an enema yet never let on in any way that she felt that way. As a child i initially resisted and she was very insistant , firm, but caring and loving. She would tell me it would be ok, i would feel much better, she loved me and , for me most important that i was a good girl. eventually i realized that it wasn't so bad and i actually allowed myself to surrender to mom as she gave me my enema. I wanted so much for her to tell me i was a good girl that this "act of surrender" was how i learned to accept her doing this for me. She was never sexual or erotic, or anything but loving and caring and eventually i found the process to be highly arousing

Kathy, your honest reply from a nurse's perspective is appreciated. How you evolved into enjoy enemas. Your patients are lucky, I think one who enjoys enemas is probably better at giving them, feeling empathy for what can be a fabulous pleasure when done right!

I think for men like myself, the attraction to enemas comes for the heat and pressure that an enema puts on the prostate as it fills the rectum and the lower intestine. Retaining an enema for a man causes him also to keep his PC muscles in tension for long periods of time with brief tightenings caused by peristaltic action. These muscles also apply pressure to the prostate. This is the reason that males tend to leak pre-cum when they are given enemas even though they may not be physically masturbating.

Kathy, it's nice to hear from another English girl, I was beginning to think I was the only one on this board. I'm not a nurse or in any way connected with the medical profession and the wonderland of equipment that seems to be available to our American friends is just beyond imagination.

To put it very plainly

i do enemas and rectal temps for pure enjoyment

It's easy to answer why enemas become fascinate thing, because when talking the enemas everybody have to show their secret area such as their ass, vagina for women like me or anus and penis, balls for men. They can not hide them in enemas process and the expulsion is also really embarrassed bodily function

I think part of the fascination comes from out parents. As we are growing up, we are told that the anal area is a dirty area and not to paly around back there. For me, when told that, I wanted to plaly around back there to see what it felt like. I got real good vibe when playing in the anal area and sticking things up my butt, such as warm water enemas. another plus to the fascination comes from seeing someone else taking an enema and their reaction to it.

Although my parents believed in enemas, they were only for health reasons and were used frequently for anything from coming down with a cold to just being cranky (irritable) ... mom would always say "I think it's time you need a good cleaning out." And both my sister and I would get them ... even if only one of us needed it.

When we go into our teens, mom said we should be able to judge on our own when we needed an enema ... we had open permissiono to take one and she would never question why ... and she never did. I started taking them more frequently because they just felt good, but I always did it alone.

My sister and I got into giving each other enemas just for the fun of doing it and we experiments and really enjoyed both administering and receiving.

When my sister went off to college, I was solo again ... the pleasure was good, but not like when she was there ... but we more than made up for it when she came home for the holidays and breaks.

After college she got married, I was alone again ... started dating this guy I really liked, but never brought up my joy of enemas until a few months after we were married, I came home early from work, found out he had taken an enema, asked him why and he said "just for the fun of it\>" We talked about how much he enjoyed enemas but was afraid to mentionit to me ... I confessed the same pleasures and fears, and it opened up a whole new area of residential recreation for us.

A couple years ago, we bought a rural residence, plenty of privacy and our enema pleasures were enhanced both indoors during the cold weather months, but moreso outdoors during the summer.

We both simply enjoy and accept any suggests the other person has for giving or receivng ... it only enhances the pleasure.

Have you ever taken an enema, laying on the wet dew-soaked lawn on a hot summer's night? Or simply taken one outdoors, out in the open, then used the outdoor privy? Or just romped nude, out-of-doors, because it felt good. Those are all the reasons my hubby and I enjoy our enema recreation.

Oh yes, just in case you're going to ask the question, we also take them at the first hint of a cold, when we feel cranky, or anything like that ... any reason to get out the bag or bulb and one or more of the many nozzles we use for our sport. We just love it.

Sometimes my husband calls me about 10 a.m. at work and simply says "tonight!" I know what he means and my concentration is lost the rest of the day.

Or, if we meet for lunch, I'll sometimes take my panties off before meeting him for lunch ... then between ordering and getting our food, I'll reach across the table and ask "Will you take care of these for me this afternoon? I can tell you, his afternoon is one big distraction, too!

That's why we are fascinated with enemas ... it's so totally enjoyable when both partners love this.

What do you say to someone who has never received one, and doesn't really want to, but really wants to give them out?

Enemas are a sexually charged event wherein I am both giving and receiving sex. This sex is different from the drive for orgasm; it is to fulfill--no pun intended--the giver and receiver: me. Orgasm during this sex is nice but only becomes the focus after an hour or so.

Dear Josie,

I'd say wait for it and you will make someone special a very happy person. Better to give than recieve! Lol

Does everything need to be "Explained?"

Can't some parts of the human condition just be what they are?

Everything doesn't need to be explained, but hose4fun wanted to know about this.

@LisaK, Some people just want to know. An answer can help them to understand "why" this or that happens. I've just given up trying to understand the "why" for my sub's fascination with enemas and all the other kinks he has(even my own) I just enjoy. There sometimes isn't any easy reason for the enjoyment.