I definitely get damp with a male dentist , I like the submissive aspect , my old dentist (who's now moved away) was a handsome older father figure type who was so confident , he seemed to enjoy instructing me in a soothing low voice to open wide , then a little wider . I love how dentists almost treat you like a you're not there at first , talking to the assistant about your teeth and calling out numbers. And if he found a problem he would really focus intensely and push the prob deep into my tooth distorting my mouth shape slightly , was a rather helpless feeling .
And when he told me a I need a filling saying it so gently chastising , like I had been a bit naughty .
I loved the way he seemed to deliberately pull my mouth really wide and make small noises of contentment .
When he was about to drill he was talking so calmingly and caring , also once a filling really hurt and he stopped for me as my eyes were watering , he had been drilling deep into my back tooth and it felt like forever , he just heat saying , "just a bit more" as I lay there helpless in the chair reclined right back .
He always gave me amalgam fillings , I don't think he liked white ones . My new dentist does tho , so eventually I'll be probably getting them replaced as they wear out . Kinda sad , like losing a memory haha