I have been perplexed by this for quite sometime. I remember talking to my aunt about how things have changed over the years, She said I was fortunate to be in my youth during this period of time. I asked why she went form underwear to sanitary napkins. She told me hygiene and enema products were readily available everywhere but condoms and Kotex were hidden from view. I gathered from this that we are embarrassed about enemas and on TV they advertise condoms and douches and vibrators thongs etc etc I also do not understand our parents and doctors would give us enemas but after 9 years old we did not need them anymore. Please tell me what changed? It is to bad that most of us are brought together on these forums to share our interest and if we discussed this with our Dr they think we are crazy. This is just something I had to post because my friends would not understand.