Clothed Female - Nude Male aka CFNM

Hi! I joined about a month ago and have not identified postings on this topic. I have been intrigued by CFNM scenes since I was a boy and will start off by discussing my most recent activity.

About four years ago when my wife returned to work after staying at home with our kids until the youngest started school, we hired a housekeeper,, Monica who comes on alternating Fridays. Monica is from Costa Rica (legally immigrated) and is in her early 50s and mostly speaks Spanish with limited English. I often work from home on Fridays and about two months after Monica started, I woke up late one morning long after my wife and kids had left for work & school and did not realize Monica was already in the house as I walked into the kitchen naked to get some coffee from the carafe.

Monica had been dusting the family room which is open to the kitchen and saw me full frontal. She put her hand to her mouth and blushed a bit, but did not seem upset or anything and did not make any comments. It was an immense rush for me and from time to time I will get into situations where Monica will see me undressed. The only time she made a comment is where I stripped off my swim trunks after laps in the pool this past summer in front of her and she pointed to my penis and said, "You look like my little boy", referring to my shriveled state from the cold water.

Would like to hear of other's experiences!

Sorry just had to look CFNM up on Google.

I can join in this discussion. My wife’s sister is divorced so when my wife and I go on holiday she comes with us otherwise she wouldn't get a holiday. In our case this is a motor home holiday (some of you may call it a camper-van) anyway when it comes to going to bed all three of us are in the motor home. It has become accepted that I go to bed first leaving my wife and her sister a bit of privacy. When we first went away I used to change in the little bathroom but this is really small and very awkward to change in. One night I decided I wouldn't use the bathroom went to the far end of motor home and started stripping off, leaving my shirt on while I took my shorts off then putting on my PJ trousers all the time facing away from my sister-in-law.

To my surprise nothing was said, I finished getting changed then climbed up into the bed and left them to change in private. This has now progressed. Now when we’re going to bed I just strip completely, I still face away from my sister-in-law but for a few moments I am completely naked in the same space as the two of them and I have to admit I enjoy the sensation.

I thought CFNM was a Canadian TV station LOL.

My first experience with CFNM was just a bit of bad luck. My girlfriend and her two sisters challenged me to a game of strip poker. I couldn't resist that. I expected to see at least one of them naked. No such luck! I have never had so little luck at cards. None of them had lost more than just shoes and socks when I lost my boxers. I blushed scarlet as I slowly removed my shorts. The embarrassment caused an immediated erection. "Look! He likes it!" Someone shouted. Now I had to remain naked for the rest of the evening and be the women's servant. After my initial embarrassment I found it was a lot of fun to be the naked guy. My girlfriend also loved it.

About six months later we were married. My wife immediately set up rules that I had to follow. Breaking a rule means demerits. Enough demerits means a period of time with no clothes. She deliberately set up very complicated rules to make it hard to be perfect. She printed them all out on four pages with font size 6. I was given two days to memorize the rules. Obviously she wanted to get me naked very often. What she didn't know was that I wanted to be naked around her and other women. I had to play it very carefully to break enough rules to end up naked, without making it look like I was breaking rules deliberately.

Hhhobo,

Very unusual, with gf and her sisters, maybe they are cut from same CFNM cloth? Wonder how that started with them?

Since you like the experience, your cooperation with the "rules" game is a sure indication to her she has got a man who plays her kind of game. You didn't say if this was a recent occurence or not, is this continuing or what?

My ex years ago had artistic bent and liked to sketch me nude, would move and fondle my penis to get it into "just the right position". I had no problem with this, never bothered me to be nude in front of others.

Since you just joined, a first karma point to you!

I had another experience with Monica this past Friday. After working out in my garage gym, I went into the master bathroom to get showered and while shaving (still nude), Monica asked if she could start cleaning the master bedroom, and I said yes. The master bath is completely open to the bedroom and as Monica entered, she could see my reflection in the mirror and vice versa, and while trying to make it look like a casual glance, her eyes were no doubt focused on my penis, and I could see a grin on her face for aout 10 seconds, before she moved on to start dusting the furniture.

I have had a few experiences with CFNM scenes. The first two were not intentional on my part but are exciting to think about now. When I was in my early 20s I got together regularly with a man in his late 40s who did physical exams on me. We used his home office for our activities. I would be stripped down to a pair of white briefs for the exams which would concluded with my briefs being pulled down to my mid thighs with the man doing an examination of my penis and testicles followed by him beating me off. He would remain fully clothed throughout the process. One day when I was standing in front of him with my briefs pulled down and him working to get me fully erect so he could commence with the hand job, his girlfriend's daughter walked in on us. The door she came in through gave her a full, unobstructed view of my genitalia. I reflexly reached down to pull up my briefs, but he grabbed my hand to stop me giving her a nice long look at me with a full erection.

The second time was an insurance physical. The doctor kept his female nurse in the room during the exam and spoke to her with his findings so she could fill out the chart. I was in my briefs with a gown on which tied in the front over one of my hips. As the final event during the exam, the doctor instructed me to stand on the pull out step at the end of the exam table. As I stood there, he reached out and untied the gown with one pull and then just parted the two sides of the gown to expose my abdomen and the front of the briefs. He then instructed me to "let your shorts come down." The nurse was standing right there looking as my penis and scrotum were exposed. "Penis normal, circumcised, testicles normal, no hernias" he told her for the record.

Now I have a middle-aged female play examiner who stays completely dressed while she does full body exams, including genitals and rectal. She finishes up by beating me off and sometimes finishing me up in her mouth swallowing mu semen.

Well, this most recent Friday, I did not have an opportunity to be nude in front of Monica. I had the day off, but volunteered to take my ill 9 your old niece Katy to the doctor for my sister-in-law, and by the time I took Katy to the doctor and out for ice cream afterwards to make her feel better, it was already late afternoon when I got home and my two boys would be home form school any minute.

However, kind of a twist, Monica almost always wears jeans and a fullt-shirt when cleaning our house. I chatted with her right before she finished for the day and she bent over at one point to get the windex spray bottle, and I was a bit stunned because she had on a v-neck shirt that day and I got a good look at her ample cleavage and I found it it to be a turn on. Monicas breast tissue was completely pale so she must rarely be out in the sun and I got just a glimpse of her left nipple, which was very dark in constrast to her pale skin.

I like CFNM scenario

A long while back I was in the mens locker room at the gym. This gym had a pool/whirlpool area accessable from both the mens and womens locker rooms. I was the only guy in the locker and was totally nude as I toweled off after taking a shower. Two girls in bathing suits walked in (around 20 years old) and saw me in all my glory. They looked at me quizicaly, and looked around the locker room realizing that they had taken the wrong door from the pool. They apologized for coming in, turned around and left. I later thought I should have told them that they were welcome to join me in the shower, but I think it was an honest mistake.

I have been a self employed swiming pool plumber / serviceman for 20 years............. :b.....twist my arm. lol

Due to my work and travel schedule, several Fridays went by without the opportunity for Monica our housekeeper to see me nude. This past week, I got home about 1AM Friday morning from the airport and crashed, waking up about 9:30 realizing that my wife had already left for work and taken the kids to school. I got up and headed down to the kitchen, hoping my wife had left coffee in the carafe.

To be honest, my Fridays were jumbled and I could not remember if this was Monica's alternating Friday and did not hear any noise as I headed downstairs to the kitchen nude and sporting morning wood. I was pouring coffee when Monica popped her head into the kitchen from dining room and greeted me, and being startled I almost dropped my coffee cup.

I turned around and as I started to wake up, realized that while Monica had seen my flaccid penis many times in the past, this was the first time I could recall being erect, and I wasn't sure how she would react. She stared right at me very quiet for about 15 seconds, her face got a bit red, but then she had the biggest grin. She then mentioned that she was glad I was up, and had refrained from using the vaccum cleaner as my wife had told her I was sleeping in, hence the reason I had heard no commotion.

CFNM is the only way my mistress will allow a session.

I also like to walk around home naked having my bum exposed for a sudden playfull slapp while mopping the floor.Swimming naked is also fantastic,summer time of course..I just have to swimm 100m or less away from others make fast my speedoes on my left hand and enjoy the sea.If i am spanked the salt water and the sun makes me feel wonderful.

By contrast, CMNF is a huge turn on for me. It's kind of degrading and humiliating, but that also makes it so pleasurable 😃

I was recently invited to a large BDSM party, and as I was leaving at 3 am, I noticed that there was a completely nude attractive young woman lying on the bar, and a guy was having a drink there. First time I ever saw that at a party. (No, she didn't shave.)

I've never heard the term CMNF before and thanks for introducing me to an exciting new nomenclature! Having said that, I wanted to share an incident that happened when I was in college that could fit into this conversation:

I was acting in a college play and by the time I arrived backstage, all the changing rooms were occupied. The director looked at his watch then at me (and a few other late-comers like me) and asked us to go up to one of the college hostels and beg to use one of the rooms, just to save time. I went to one of the men's hostel nearest the auditorium. I had a few friends there - one of them gladly let me use his room and walked off.

I quickly laid out my costume and stripped naked because I had to wear leotards instead of trousers.

In my hurry I was fumbling with the garment.

Without warning, the door of the room suddenly burst open.

I straightened up and turned. Only to offer a full frontal to my friend's girlfriend who had entered the room.

(I must mention here that most of the rooms in this hostel did not have working latches. Secondly, women were not permitted beyond the reception area of the hostel - a restriction that was almost always ignored!)

We gaped at each other for the most horrific moments in my life, before she smiled at me slowly.

I could see her eyes shifting between my face and my nether region. Up and down, up and down they went, those soft brown eyes.

I stood frozen with embarrassment.

Then, putting her hands up, she slowly backed out of the room. I could hear her giggling as she ran down the corridor. The sound of her footsteps fading away.

I felt weak and dizzy for a while, not knowing how I would face my friend and this girl again.

Gaining my wits, I quickly got into my costume and rushed back to the auditorium.

When I entered the stage to do my part, I saw this girl sitting in the front row with my friend. I caught her eye. She blushed and I forgot my lines...

Although being a nudist, I am probably more an exhibitionist as I really like it when others see me. Especially when aroused. As I am usually naked in the house, I don't have curtains, I also go out on the balcony naked. I live up on the 15th floor so I am pretty sure it is difficult to see anything from street level but the idea really makes me hard.

When in my other apartment I usually leave a small opening in the curtains while I am naked and playing with myself.

I've recently taken up modelling for local artists quite often just a portrait but I've had a couple of more interesting jobs.

The first artist was just a friend who I didn’t know painted until I was visiting one day and saw her sketchbook in the room. We started to talk about her interest and she let me look through her sketch book and she told me she went to a regular art group at the local community centre. The conversation developed and she confessed that she had only taken the art up since retiring (she is about 10/12 years older than me) but regretted that she’d not had formal lessons when young and always found figures difficult so few of her pictures had people in the landscapes.

I decided to take a chance and offered to pose for her and she accepted and took up her sketch pad. After about ten minutes she was still shaking her head rubbing out frequently and said she just couldn’t get the drawings to look right so I decided to go one further and said I suppose most artists use ‘life models’ when learning and she agreed but said her art classes did do those.

It was now or never; I stood up (I’d been sitting next to her looking at her efforts) and said why don’t I do that for you? She replied ‘Oh I couldn’t ask you to do that’ but I said ‘I don’t mind, we’ve been friends and neighbours for years’. By this time I’d removed my shoes and socks and was unbuttoning my shirt.

I think it might have been just shock but she didn’t say anything else while I removed my jeans and put them with my other clothes and then turning slightly away from her slipped my shorts off. Once naked I asked what pose she would like to try first and when she didn’t answer right away I said ‘why don’t I just sit on the stool again’ and did so.

We must have spent the next hour with me completely naked in her lounge sitting on the stool, sitting on the floor and finally stood facing her while she sketched. We took a break for a coffee and while she made it I took a look at her efforts, when she returned with the coffee she sat down beside me and we discussed her progress and I think she had almost forgotten that I was still naked.

After the coffee I asked if she wanted to continue and she asked, rather shyly I thought, if she could watch me ‘move’ so I spent the next half hour walking up and down, sitting and standing, stretching and bending while she watched and sketched how my body moved.

The other artist Sue invited me to her flat to see some of her art and to model for her. When I arrived I was offered the usual coffee and a biscuit and spent some time admiring the art that filled her walls.

After about half an hour chatting she took out her drawing materials and asked if I wanted to use her bedroom to undress while she got ready but I chose to undress where I was, slowly stripping to just my shorts until she was ready. I purposely left them on until she was ready then dropped and stepped out of them and stood completely naked in front of her and asked her how she wanted me.

I had the pleasure of her concentrating on me for about an hour during which I posed in three different positions for her.

I felt bit guilty after both these sessions especially the first as I’d so much enjoyed stripping naked in front of this neighbour and friend and being naked while she was fully clothed but I just love the feeling of stripping in front of someone male or female while they remain dressed.

My girlfriend watched me shower naked while she was fully clothed in the bathroom with me.

With travel and summer vacations, I had not been nude in front of our housekeeper Monica for several of her alternating Fridays. Then last Friday, I got home from a business trip about noon time, with my wife at work and the boys off at summer camp prior to school starting next week. I said hi to Monica and put my suitcase in the room and stripped nude for some excersise in the pool.

I walked into my older boy's room where Monica was currently cleaning and she smiled at seeing me nude. I then asked her to bring me out a cold beer in a plastic cup. in about a half hour after I swam my laps so I would not get water tracked onto the now clean kitchen floor. She acknowledged my request and I headed outside.

Just as I finished my laps and slipped off my goggles, Monica came out with my beer. As she had once before, she pointed to my penis and giggeld "shrink".

Back in school, we had to take showers after PE class. The stalls were sectioned off individually, but they were only about 1 foot above waist level. One day, some of the girls in our class sneaked in, and watched us shower. We didn't even know they were in there until one of them started sniggering. They all started cheering loud when we turned around to see who it was. Too late to cover up, they saw all of our peckers. Evidently, Mrs. Nash heard them in there. All the girls got caught coming out the door. Everyone had already been warned at the beginning of the school year to stay out of the opposite sex shower/dress rooms. All of those girls got the choice of suspension or a paddling with a note sent home. There was eight of them, and six chose the paddle. A couple of the girls were the spoiled teacher's pet types, but Mrs. Nash didn't give a fuck. Right before I stepped out of the locker room, I heard 4 loud pops. The co-captain of the cheerleading squad came around the corner about to start crying. She was the first to get her panties dusted. The others waiting in line were red faced with a look of dread. And justfully so, because Stella Nash was a strong armed softball coach who worked out religiously at Gold's Gym. She could make that 5/8" slab of maple whistle on its way to the seat of your pants. She tore my ass up once for throwing all the 4-square balls on top of the building. That paddling really hurt, and I didn't fuck with her no more.

One of the paddled girls was my friend. She didn't cry much, but I sat beside her and put my arm around her. I kind of felt sorry for all of them. They didn't really do any of us any harm. Hell, half of them had seen us naked before anyway.

^^^^ They did school paddling/corporal punishment when you were in high school, which based on your age would be about the late 1990's ????????????

A junior high school in North Carolina in the 1980s.....9th grade was still in the Junior High for my district then....till 1991. They'd wear your ass out in a heartbeat in those days.

I've just had another CFNM experience. I started corresponding through email with a woman of 40 who I found out only lives about 3 miles from me. I contacted her through Craigslist Personal ads when she advertised massage sessions and asked the cost of one of her half hour sessions only to find out it was a bit more than a massage that was on offer. I thanked her but said I was genuinely only looking for a massage to help with a back problem that had come back but somehow we kept in touch anyway as she related a few funny stories to me.

Eventually I ended up being invited around to meet her in person and I left work early to visit however as I got near the 'heavens opened' as they say and I got drenched with rain so I arrived soaked through to the skin. When she opened the door she took my coat and I offered to slip off my soaking wet shoes and socks so as not to spoil her polished wood floors and she said she would get me a towel. When she came back with the towel it was pretty obvious that I was soaked to the skin and she kindly asked if I wanted her to dry my things out while I took a shower. Though a little surprised at this offer between two strangers I was grateful and let her show me the way to her bathroom.

After showing me the bathroom she asked if I’d like a coffee and went off to make it returning to the bathroom without knocking as I was getting undressed at this point I was down to my wet shirt and boxers and I waited while she picked up my other wet things expecting her to leave me to shower but she simply said ‘I’ll take those as well’ referring to my shirt and boxer shorts. I’ll admit I quite happily complied removing my shirt and then pretending to be modest I turned away and slipped of my boxer shorts.

I enjoyed a nice shower which warmed me through but was surprised when I turned it off and turned around to see that she was sitting on the toilet seat watching me and stood to offer me a fresh clean towel. I took the towel and covered myself as I’d gained a partial erection as I showered thinking about just having stripped naked in front of this woman and was grateful that I hadn’t decided to ‘relieve myself’ in the shower.

‘Why don't you come through to the fire to get dried’ she said and I followed her through to her comfortable little lounge where she took the towel from me and dried my back and legs before disappearing to go and finish making the coffee.When she returned she said she’d put my clothes in the tumble dryer and they would be dry in about 30 to 45 minutes.

The towel was now wet so she said she’d get me a dry one to cover myself but held her hand out for the wet one. I knew my erection had subsided so happily handed it to her and enjoying the CFNM moment. When she returned I was stood in front of the fire and turned to face her but before handing me the fresh towel she looked me up and down and commented that she thought I was in good shape for my age and a lot better than some of her ‘clients’.

We sat and enjoyed a coffee together and I only loosely covered myself with the towel and when she fetched my dried clothes I put on my socks and shirt and tie before reluctantly replacing my boxers all the time chatting and in full view of her.

Nothing else happened, no massage, no touching but I do have a wonderful memory of a woman 23years younger than me seeming to be happy to enjoy my naked company.

My girlfriend many times spanks me while I am naked and she is at least partially dressed.

IMO CFNM scenes don't include sexual interaction in which you are naked and your girlfriend/wife is clothed. It has more to do with the humility of being seen by a a stranger/woman while naked - as an example .. one time at the doctors office I being checked for what we determined was a benign mole on one of my testicles - I was standing with my hands on my hips, underpants to my thighs, and the doctor slouched over examining me when IN comes one of the nurses who needed to get an item from a cabinet. She did her best to avert her eyes, but she looked at me for a good second or two and then was quickly on her way. I was shocked but made no mention, and she did quickly apologize.

Another time, I had joined a weight loss plan who made it their practice of weighing you weekly. Fully clothed i was a good 3 pounds heavier than my weight coming out of the shower. I mentioned this to the girl who was weighing me . This girl who was around 22 or 23 at most ( I was about 30) who replied - "hey if you wanna get naked Im cool with that " - and then she quickly laughed and apologized explaining "you know what I mean .." I responded that I wouldn't get naked, but Ill strip to my boxers - which I did. Granted - I wasn't "nude" , but the same kind of thing though - being undressed in front of a "stranger" who happens to be a fully clothed woman.

Thanks johncrossley for sharing your experiences in rich details.

This morning, my housekeeper inadvertently walked in on me in my bathroom, just after I'd emerged from the shower, still nude. I had my back to her, but our eyes met in the big mirror on the opposite wall, so I know she had gotten a good look. Nothing was said, she simply pulled the sheets out of the laundry basket and went off to wash them.

However, just at that moment I'd been applying some lotion to my penis, which I've found to be necessary at times in late winter, and I'd become semi erect from the touching. And of course the stuff is white, so one can imagine what she must have thought I was doing.

I find it interesting that people consider CFNM as nudism. I associate it with Ds. For me, nudism is not sexual, just the opposite. When I go to nudist resorts or clubs, sexual behavior is not tolerated in public.