Ultimate fantasy: no control

I have this fantasy of being in a scenario that takes away any and all control of all my bodily functions while I'm stimulated and brought to orgasm over and over again. This would have to include a foley catheter and colon tube to handle all my waste. Nasogastric tube for periodic feeding. IV for hydration. Awake intubation to control my breathing. All while being monitored. I could see this going on for a full day or two with periodic breaks of just rest....

If you want your body to be totally controlled, you need your body to be ALMOST brought to orgasm over and over again, denying your orgasm every time you get close. THAT is someone taking control of your body.

Sounds like fun.

"..you need your body to be ALMOST brought to orgasm over and over again, denying your orgasm every time you get close."

Works for me. Most of my fantasies have included this kind of element, usually by one (or more) hot nurses or doctors!

I like fantasy and acting out: I tie myself up in restraints at night, with a catheter. However just make sure your fantasy is just that.

I’ve had 2 real hospitalizations that approached the scenario. I was struck walking across the street, and had a head injury, multiple abrasions and both hands badly hurt. I had an IV. With both hands strung up in the air I couldn’t use a urinal so they put a condom catheter on my penis. So I wouldn’t roll over and pull off the external catheter they put on ankle restraints to go with the strung up hands. Restraint for days does not allow movement—that’s the whole idea—and I got joint and back pain. Not fun. In real life one does NOT get ‘breaks.’ After 4 days without a bowel movement the nurse gave me 2 enemas and finally had to ‘disimpact’ me, digging out some of the hard stool. It hurt, and I felt embarrassment and extremely humiliation. After the third enema I had to discharge everything into the bedside commode, making a mess, not to mention the horrible smell. In the compassion department: When I apologized to the nurse for the trouble & smell, she said that none of the care bothered her. Many of her patients had diarrhea, needed enemas, and had dirty diapers. It was part of nursing care to take care of everything, and any woman who could not do the work, with compassion for the patient needed to find a different line of work.

The other experience is posted in New Text & Stories as “Naked in the Hospital.”

For me, the fantasy (never reality, too dangerous) is to be given the paralyzing drug used in some surgery but wide awake, stripped naked, intubated, catheterized and summarily sexuality abused by a mixed gender group.

Oh yes, the whole muscle relaxant thing really gets me going. I have had a long running fantasy of being admitted to a clinic for a month of 'tests' (admitted by my husband under pressure from my disgraced GP), and during the tests I am given such a drug. I am then slowly but crudely stripped nude, fondled and patted and felt up and then lain on the gyne couch. Several doctors, nurses and 'helpers' then abuse me for hours for thier amusement and all under the name of therapy. I orgasm helplessly the whole time, and I know it is all being taped for their later enjoyment and possibly blackmail. God, it makes me wet.

@lisagart: I really do like this fantasy very, very much!

Wow. This total lack of control is very hot (as a fantasy)- experiencing all that while not being able to move would be interesting.

The thought of no control is very kinky. I imagine myself or someone else spread and bound to a gynecological chair, and strapped in to limit movement. It's a very vulnerable position, especially if some specula are holding open the vagina and anus. No control over what goes in and out of your body, or what bodily functions you can perform. I like to imagine a dozen or so gawking eyes staring into my open holes.

This fantasy presses all my buttons.

Once again I'm totally creeped out by this thread. I've both been a patient with loss of control of breathing, urination and bowel function. It isn't one bit fun. As a doc I've taken care of many patients who've been on respirators, had Foley catheters and been totally bedridden. I always thought to myself there but for the grace of God go I. I saw a trauma victim who finally managed to kill himself by plugging his teach tube after months totally confined to bed in the ICU. Keep such thoughts as a fantasy. The reality is terrifying, dehumanizing and not one bit fun. We give heavy duty drugs to help people through such hospitalizations. Be careful what you wish for!

That's what these are...fantasies. My own fantasies (many of which parallel this one) are nothing I would attempt in real life, just like I would not actually blow the brains out of the bastard who just cut me off in traffic (but it certainly feels good thinking about it). One article I read postulates that the reason we have fantasies is so that we can mentally simulate extreme scenarios (from the beginning all the way to suffering the severe consequences) instead of acting out our every impulse, and that allows our mind to say, "see, the consequences aren't worth it...don't do it" while still getting to experience some of the pleasure.

If you want to be TOTALLY controlled, I have two words for you: consensual non-consensuallity.

No safe word and no way out. You get whatever you get -- sometimes by a person you don't know and never met.

My lack of control fantasy is what I really endured during childhood and adolescence - pants down and bending over the lap of a receptionist, who held me immobile and helpless to resist as I awaited and got injections in my vulnerable bare bottom.

That would be my ultimate Fantasy as well to be helpless to wims of another.

That would be my ultimate Fantasy as well to be helpless to wims of another.

Does that mean a man could rape you at knife point and then your daughter while you were forced to watch?

I would love this. i would want them to completely control my orgasms, how many i get and if i get any at all.

Does that mean a man could rape you at knife point and then your daughter while you were forced to watch?

Wow. That took a rather dark turn in a hurry.

boon said

That would be my ultimate Fantasy as well to be helpless to wims of another.

Switchablesusie said

Does that mean a man could rape you at knife point and then your daughter while you were forced to watch?

wino69 said

Wow. That took a rather dark turn in a hurry.

You must know by now I have a very dark side that comes out to play once in a while. 😁 😁 😁

The reason I mentioned the rapes is because many people replying SAY they want a complete loss of control, but in the same sentence tell HOW they want someone to control them.

You can't have it both ways.

The reason I mentioned the rapes is because many people replying SAY they want a complete loss of control, but in the same sentence tell HOW they want someone to control them.

You can't have it both ways.

Losing control in a fantasy context doesn't mean I have to see a family member being raped. Remember, it's still my fantasy. I can make it be anything I want it to be. Or stop it from going anywhere I don't want it to go.

Another way of looking at it, giving yourself over to a dominatrix doesn't mean she gets control over your entire family. She just gets you during the prescribed session.

The reason I mentioned the rapes is because many people replying SAY they want a complete loss of control, but in the same sentence tell HOW they want someone to control them.

You can't have it both ways.

Losing control in a fantasy context doesn't mean I have to see a family member being raped. Remember, it's still my fantasy. I can make it be anything I want it to be. Or stop it from going anywhere I don't want it to go.

Another way of looking at it, giving yourself over to a dominatrix doesn't mean she gets control over your entire family. She just gets you during the prescribed session.

I agree 100% with you wino69, you just have to understand the person of the post.

Another way of looking at it, giving yourself over to a dominatrix doesn't mean she gets control over your entire family. She just gets you during the prescribed session.

What a dom really does - or what a competent one is supposed to do - is let you control her, so that she can enact your fantasy for your pleasure. There isn't really any loss of control, only a pretend loss of control, the parameters of which have been delineated beforehand.