Female urethral play

You are right , female sounding does not get as much attention as male sounding. I have experience in sounding personally and have sounded several females.

I think concerns about UTI's is a factor in deterring some women from engaging in sounding. Also it's a little more difficult to do by yourself as a beginner. Like anal there is some discomfort that goes with sounding. There should NOT be any significant levels of out right pain. Pain means you are not lubing enough, or pushing to hard on a sound that may be to large for your urethra. Sounding is not a race to the finish . It is an acquired taste that you develop over time. Sounding is a pleasure that you can enjoy your entire life.

A female actually has more useful anatomical parts than a male which all can be stimulated simultaneously. The hub is the urethra and bladder, then add the clit, vagina, lips and groin and the anus. Any or all of these may be stimulated while sounding the urethra and bladder. Remember your urethra is short( about 2-3 inches depending on how big you are). A male urethra is about 6-10 inches.

Try to start with a 5-7mm ( 16fr. - 22fr.) sound. Pratt sounds made of stainless steel are good to purchase as their tip is narrower and tapered longer tan other sounds. It also good to invest in a second set of short one end flattened Hegar 8'' long sounds. These have a rounded more blunt tip. Sounding can get addictive and you may want to enlarge you pee hole to 12-14mm or more. If you are into Med-Fet then sounding fits right in. Also many female use a speculum in the beginning . Some stay with it every time ,others get more experienced and don't use it. Vibraters, dildos,string, clothes pins, needles, and electrodes( The sound can become an electrode) are a few additions that can be made to a sounding session. Electo - stim with an Sextek 312B power box is wild. You will be back for more.

Learning how to prep yourself for sounding is a must ,as is sterilization of the sound(s). You should read up on technique and prep for female catheterization. Also purchase of catheter insertion kit could be helpful in the beginning. While talking about catheters ,have you been cathed with a foley cath connected to a drain bag? Med-Fet

Ask any question you like , I will attempt to answer it or some else may chime in also. Go for It.

I enjoy sounds and catheters. As long as everything is very clean things always go well. I'm usually on my exam table with my feet in the stirrups or my legs in the Knee Crutches. Sometimes we do this at bed side. It's gentle and I like it.

Are women as likely to get a UTI if a sound is inserted in the urethra as they are when a catheter is inserted? Or does the nature of the catheter material make it more likely to "grab" and transfer bacteria?

Are women as likely to get a UTI if a sound is inserted in the urethra as they are when a catheter is inserted? Or does the nature of the catheter material make it more likely to "grab" and transfer bacteria?

YES and the nature of sounding with the repetitious insertions and removal are just as likely to cause an infection as a catheter.

My GF loves it when I use a vibrating sounder on her. It will send her through the roof with a huge orgasm. The other thing she is now enjoying is when I insert a clear catheter in her and drink her nectar, She says she loves to watch my head between her legs as I slowly drink every last drop of pee. I believe I saw a link on her to 2 woman doing that and I tried it myself. Very erotic as well as tasty. I always wash my hands thoroughly as well as using a surgical lubricant on the catheter before inserting. The other thing one should be sure to do is pee afterwards if you can to wash out any possible bacteria. This will help in preventing UTIs.

Thanks for sharing your experience and knowledge - you certainly give some good advice.

I would like to try this, but I'm having an impossible time finding sounds for women. Any of you ladies have suggestions?

You can use silicone sounds from silicone nozzles or the stainless steel ones men use.

Your urethra is short so the sound type isn't really important.

Pratt, Dittel, Van Buren or Bakes (rosebud) sounds are all useable.

Check their shapes for what you think you would enjoy most.

Personally, I do NOT like Bakes/rosebud sounds. They feel OK going into the bladder, but hurt when they are withdrawn. At least that's my experience.

Silicone sounded good, until I read several reviews from women saying that they tend to have "stick" to them, so are difficult to move around. *shudders*

I have a set in my basket on thechaingang.com. I hate to buy an entire set when I only need one or two, though.

I never used a silicone sound, but from using silicone and latex catheters I can relate to them feeling like they don't glide in as smoothly as stainless steel and stick sometimes especially on removal.

I don't think you are going to leave a silicone sound in place and go about your daily business. That would be a very good way to get a very bad UTI.

Silicone sounds can be fun. Many catheters are 'siliconized', which is a covering that makes them more flexible and 'lubricious', meaning easier passage. Yes, caution and gentlenss required. A UTI is always a risk, but from where Im sitting, usually a delightful risk, as the benefit outweighs the risk, when urologics thrill us... I know... been there, done that , and will happily do more. Ive had 2-3 UTI's over the years (odd in a male)... and all easily managed. Again, the benefit (and the enjoyment/invasion) outweighed the risk. Taking some antibiotics prior to being cathed or dilated usually helps, and drinking lots of water. A minor issue, when looked at from the entire picture.

I plan on drinking cranberry juice to reduce the risk, plus more water. But yeah... I want to try this.

@repressed, a lot of sites that sell sounds sell them individually or in groups of 2-5. If you're not certain of a certain style or don't want to buy a full kit, you might look into those kinds of options.

I recently got the SSND-SBT 6-7.5mm silicone sound from siliconenozzles.com. It's 12" long and the ball tip is 7.5mm diameter and the shaft is 6mm. It slides in and out easily with the use of some K-Y. I've noticed no "stick" with it, and the sensation is wonderful. Definitely, a fun toy.

When I was a teenager I managed to slip a thin plastic tube into my urethra. I watched myself pee out of the tube, and was fascinated.

Afterwards, it burned like hell for four days when I peed. I never did it again.

The plastic tube wasn't sterile (I don't even know if it was clean), and just had ends I'd clipped off with wire cutters.

I'm surprised I did not give myself a dandy infection.

One of the most important things is to drink huge quantities of water before and especially after in order to flush any bacteria out of the bladder. You need to pee, pee, and pee some more. Even using sterile equipment still pushes bacteria from the urethra into the bladder. Another tip is to pee forcefully before playing. I have been doing this for years and have never had a UTI from urethral play.

It is very pleasurable, too. Would that my husband enjoyed administering as much as I enjoy receiving. It's one of the few ways I have been able to orgasm without the use of a vibrator - and very intensely. I would enjoy experiencing catheter play in a medfet situation (for that matter, I would enjoy experiencing a medfet situation).

UTI's are common, even under the most strictest of sterilty settings... many times, they just cant be avoided. Ive had a few over the years, due to my own medfet explroation, but then i have knowledge and a medical background... they come with the territory.

^Yes, I had a cath in hospital last month and got a UTI from it.

Hi to everyone i play with my urethra about one year.

I use expecially heager sound set with great pleasure.

I like so much feel the sound inside my bladder.

How do you use the sound inside? Do you move the sound while it is inside or do you like push it in and out?

Apart the haeger i have used my fingers, and a sound connected to TENS unit.

Can you give some advices what can i use to feel other sensations?

Thanks

Hegar sounds are a good start, I have found the best sensations are at about 2 inches into the female urethra, this is where the bladder sphincter sits, if you use mild pressure on the sound at this point it will push through into the bladder, you do not want to go any further once you are in the bladder, pull the sound back out and then slowly push it in out at around 2 inches deep to open and close your sphincter muscle, this is the most effective way to reach orgasm

My husband likes to insert sounds into my urethra. I love the feeling of letting him in to such an intimate place. He does it very carefully and makes sure everything is sterile. It’s really quite enjoyable, sadly we’ve both tried to look up stuff about it and there is mostly just male urethra play not much about female. Which is sad since female urethra play is so hot.

The Women's urethra is relatively short, therefore, one is fast in the bladder and there the risk of infection is very high. In the area of the vulva, it is almost impossible to work sterile. As be careful. In men, a meatus external and urethral stretch is relatively safe because the urethra to the prostate is about 19cm long. If one does not penetrate into the urinary bladder is the risk of infection is not high. Because the urethra can always rinse with sterile urine.

Once I got very ill after I had urethral play and I got a little afraid of it. But it is usually a given if I have a sound in me while I am stimulating my clit, so I got a couple of metal sounds to use, and I am very particular about cleanliness. No problem since. To me, having a good sound in my urethra and sliding it in and out is like stimulating my g-spot's g-spot. Double whammy!

@Ladybug761

I just saw your post regarding orgasms from catheter play. I play with silicone sounds (giving and receiving) and I have to say that as a male I cannot imagine a more intense orgasm. My "nurse" will ever so slowly manipulate the sound that has been passed through my prostate and it keeps me constantly at the very edge of orgasm. The longest that she has done this is about 20 minutes, finally making me cum by steadily withdrawing the sound while stimulating my frenulum. O_M_G, the pleasure!

I would imagine it to be stimulating for a woman because, and someone can correct me if I'm wrong, the urethra passes through the the g-spot; the female equivalent of the prostate. I hope you continue to have incredible urethral orgasms, Ladybug.

@jajonly , I enjoyed the candid comfort level you discussed your sounding sessions. You really get to enjoy fetish play. As usual we often want to know how much we can increase the size on an insertable, like a sound. I can get a 15mm silicone sound in but a stainless steel sound is not as easy to insert.

The only reason I have for wanting to go bigger is simply, '' Because I can". how about you and others out in Fetish land ?? are you comfortable with your play??? Do you want to increase you your tolerances to more and bigger??? Why ??? Jajonly you understand how your body’s pleasure machine works. Cool ! i'll bet you figured out that vibrators, dildos , electro, fucking machine and colon tubes all can almost drive you insane with intense stimulation or make you squirt, while sounding. That one sound can trigger lots of power.

Can we take it ?? And why are we back for more??? As for your feeling bad after a sounding session. Most likely a number of sounds were inserted into your urethra and bladder. There is a lot of traffic over delicate membranes. Also you may have gotten a UTI. This scenario has happened to me. Also I have used an antibiotic as a prophylaxis on later such occasions. I felt it improved the situation. I won't use it often.

Sounding mutually at the same time, each doing the other is another treat. Lots of sterile gloves and Hibiclens or it's generic as a skin prep before and during can help reduce UTI risks well as using 2or 4 gram individual packets of Surgilube or equal instead one larger tube of lube.

I Would like to hear your thoughts and experiences and from others who read this. I'm constantly learning. There is is always more to learn a participate in.

Always best to drink plenty before urethral play and pee afterwards, even though it may sting!

First and foremost , that wonderful forbidden place : has gone through and Identify change !!! You've created your own Gold Mine of Pleasure. You now have the freedom to please yourself or be pleased and pleasured.

Thanks to your problem solving and positive thinking , the female concerns of urethral play are belayed and addressed resulting in a comfort zone for you. I love to see creative people in action. Enjoy

I encourage everyone to explore even if there is potential risks, you will never know if you try and life is too short not to explore! I agree with the other posts regarding drinking lots of fluids and making sure you do it as clean as possible.

The most important hinge are to use sterile gloves, these are different then regular gloves and there’s a certain way to put on sterile gloves. This is not a clean procedure, it’s sterile. And don’t pull it in and out this can cause a uti for sure.