I am very suseptible to UTIs but have been fascinated with cath play for some time now. I found that intermittent catheters from Rochester medical have worked great for me. They offer many varieties. I ordered the antibacterial for a female and also use the iodine swabs. I make my hubby glove up and use three swabs on the urethera area prior to the cath. he then uses sterile Sugilube lube to lube the cath. he then uses a new pair of gloves and puts the catheter in that wonderful fobidden place and drains me dry. Awesome feeling that I cannot describe! Ordered 6 of them to start and need to place another order. We do not incoprorate this every doctor session as I would like to keep it a "treat" I never know when it's coming. The doctor decides when this is necessary. I am afraid to try a foley as they are more in depth and am afraid of possible complications. I just wish my hubby would share my interest in receiving a cath. he only likes to deliver !