How do you Prepare for anal sex

Gradually increase the size...start with a rectal thermometer, then move on to a finger or a suppository, then you're more relaxed, lubed up and ready for something bigger.

A 2 qt followed by a 3qt, try for at least an hour before to absorb the water. Then lots of lube and some fingering trying for three then away we go. Both for me and my partner

Usually small enema, then fingers, prostate toy and finally a dildo!

I have tried with my wife but she had a lot of pain. I'm not sure how to suggest we try again. I do not want to hurt her

Dr bob

My guy is really small so there is no preparation with us. It does not hurt at all and actually feels nice as he gently inserts it. But for those who must accept a larger size, try stretching the opening using candles, tiny cucumbers, or oriental egg plants. Later, for the real event, use lots of lube, relax, and have him go slow and gentle. Better yet, stay in control by having him lie on his back while you lower your butt onto his penis. That way you can stop and restart if it feels uncomfortable.

One of my friends told me she will not eat or eat very little the day before she plans on having anal. She says she likes to eat fruits if any thing. She also said she has to start small with fingers then move on to multiple fingers. Then maybe a toy depending in her partner. The most important thing is that your relaxed and have had enough foreplay. Hope this helps you out if you haven't already figured it out

Lots of lube. Have a drink first to be really relaxed and lots of anal play beforehand. 1 finger then 2 fingers while he's stimulating you clit. I like getting oral while he works on my ass. Then go reaaaaal slow

My first experience was extremely painful, so I still have problems to relax/loosen enough. I want to try again, though.

I will prepare by giving myself enemas until I am clean down there. I also bought several lubricants. I will play with a small dildo first, slowly ... hope this works.

The only way I have anal sex is by doing it to myself. I start out with a series of 3-4 4qt. enemas until clear, wait about 3 hrs. and then use some toys.

I always do an enema before and I love the clean feeling it gives too. And anal afterwards is just cool.

First, a fleets or two for cleanliness, then silicone lube for comfort without goo.

Nurse Phillips, I like your advice about having a drink first. I would only add you might cuddle while having the drink.

One time I took three very small enemas, only enough each time, I thought, to clean out the rectum. However, his penis pushed beyond the valve at the top of the rectum into the Sigmoid colon, and the result was messy. Thus it seems to me that preparation depends in part on your partner's length and the length of your rectum before the valve. I think the length of my rectum is about 6" or 6.5" but am not certain. For a partner longer than that it seems to me that a larger enema is in order, perhaps the conventional two quarts administered three times. Anyone succeeded in measuring the length of their rectum?

I would say, it depends on the person you are having sex with. If the woman has tried it many times before and like to get fucked hard, it doesn' mean that it's the wright way to do it with all women. You have to make her relax. When I have anal sex with my sub, I start to take her temperature rectally. I just do it like I was I nurse. I just put the thermometer in and wait for 3 or 5 minutes and then I remove it. Then I gently massage her but and play i little with her pussy. Then I put the thermometer in again and move it slowly in and out. Every woman I have played with likes that. I do it for a while and then I start licking her pussy, just a little bit. Then I can see she is getting wet and then I remove the thermometer and I fuck her. I just put my dick inside her pussy and fuck her hard. She likes that, and they all do (them I have played with, of course I can't speak for every women in the world). Then after we have fucked, I being to give her massage and make her relax again. Then I begin to finger her anally. Very easy and don't put all the finger in in the beginning. Keep calm. Then she will like it and then you will be allowed to do it again. You have to respect the woman and you have to be able to control yourself. After fingering her ass, you can use anal beads or a small dildo to play with. Just remember, be careful and easy and listen to her. If you are not complete asshole, then you will she how she responds and when you see she is getting used to have something in her ass and she is getting very horny, than you can try use your dick. Put it in nice and slowly. And always listen to your partner and always respect what she says.

Just don't be an asshole. Listen to your partner and respect your partner.

I also forgot to say that giving her Microlax and then an enema, is very good for her because then she's empty 😃

Very good advice in your posts medical Master! You seem to have "mastered" the approach so that someone looks forward to anal sex down the road. Your best advice is "don't be an asshole" and "listen to the recipient". Too bad more of us don't follow those "golden rules"!

Yes watertrain. Because if we all would do that, it would just be the best thing for all of us 😃

I try to do anal with my husband after I've gotten a colonic. When you get a colonic, everything comes out of you. You don't have to worry about your husband getting disgusting, brown residual water on his genitals because a regular enema only cleaned you out partially. And having a colonic speculum up your butt for 45 minutes helps to dilate your internal sphincter(with more help from fingers and toys).....making it easier to accommodate him if he's thick.....and your anus is small like mine. I'm not too crazy about taking it up the pooper, but it's not unbearable if I go at my own pace. I do it because I know my husband really loves it, and I'll get to play with his little ass with toys too. I just like to make sure I'm clean back there.

Did you ever end up trying it? Lots of really great advice here...would love to know the end result.

Lube and take it slow

Enemas, of course. Then one finger, two fingers, lubes...

I use a condom to avoid anything entering my penis

I feel the best way for this play would be that you and your husband both do anal play! That way you both have a feel of how things are going! Slow and easy with a good lube.

Enemas relax the anal muscles and gets you nice and clean. The rest depends on the expertise of her partner.

When either my wife and I decide to have some anal play we pull out the enema bag. She always takes hers first so I fill the bag with warm water a couple drops of mint oil (numb the ass a little) she takes hers I put a plug in her and then she gives me one we consider it foreplay. Then I'm usually the one who gets it first with her strap on then I get a crack at her lovely rear

I can not believe a full enema directly before anal would be a good thing, I leave it 24hrs, after a enema and eat nothing or very little, then a few good clean out`s with a tube and flowing water, or a spontaneous method is one or two Fleet enemas, which I find really relax your muscles and make for a very enjoyable time.

I am careful to clean the anus and rectum to the point there is no residue or odor, but not go any higher into the sigmoid region. This gives a clean area for any penetration that I would want to handle on most occasions. I find once you start larger volume enemas, which sounds like a great idea, that you are creating a couple of hours process getting it all clean enough for sex.

I keep an empty Fleet bottle under the sink, and I will fill with warm water ,lube, and squirt, usually doing this twice. That's about 8 ounces, which pretty much fills my rectum. After expulsion, I will repeat with two more bottles and evacuate, which is almost always clean water at this point.

There is nothing really sexy for me when I do this, except that I get excited anticipating what nice slippery objects are soon to enter me! Even if I don't get the opportunity to play anally at the time, I love the confidence that I have had my BM for the day and won't have to be interrupted later on at an inconvenient time or place. Then at night in bed, I can still relax before sleep with my fingers stroking my still clean bottom.

For a quick fuck in the butt, maybe no prep at all, just a good injection of lube.

If I have plans for it, I may do a quick flush of the rectum and sigmoid. If I have plans for extended or deep play there, I will do thorough cleanouts several hours before--usually in the morning in anticipation of the evening play time.

An 8oz. bulb of warm tap water is a must if I think there is a chance I'll get fingered, or get a DRE from a Dr.

I just bend over and let him shove it in! The harder the better!!