What's Analingus Really Like?

I like to have my wife in the knee chest position and have her reach back and spread her big buns so I can go to town on her butthole. I love it and she loves it too. We don't do it every time we make love, but quite often. I'd say most of the time. Sometimes I'll ram a dildo in her pussy while I'm licking her ass out and sometimes she'll work her clit with a vibrator. And sometimes both! Either way she comes in no time flat. Dam! I'm horny now!

When rimming, do you just lick around the anus or do you insert your tongue? If you go in, how far? Do you suck on the anus?

Cleanliness is very important along with your state of horniness.

When rimming, do you just lick around the anus or do you insert your tongue? If you go in, how far? Do you suck on the anus?

The anal sphincter doesn't usually admit something as "soft and weak" as the tongue, even if the person is quite used to anal penetration. The person licks the outer anus directly, including its opening, but can't get in. I've never had anyone attempt to suck it.

There is a lot of “how to” literature on rimming/analingus if you look for it. Licking, tongue penetration, sucking are all described. There’s lots of porn out there if you look for “tongue fucking”. Most rim jobs are just that, licking and kissing the external area, but penetration with the tongue is possible and not uncommon.

You can add a little BDSM to it for more fun. During a rather intense session my FWB grabbed my by the hair and forced my face into my husband’s ass to rim him from behind while I was jerking him (hubby) off. It was intense. I licked the outside. It was soft and tasted faintly metallic. Hubby loved it and FWB railed me from behind.

I like to think I'm pretty adventurous but I can't make this one happen even in my mind. I love playing with women's bottoms, teasing them, fingering them, inserting toys & plugs in them, giving enemas & suppositories to them, best of all fucking them & pumping semen in them but sticking my tongue in them? No thanks. I'm sure the sensations might be interesting & arousing but I couldn't do it & I'd even feel less than comfortable if a female partner wanted to do it to me.

... I love playing with women's bottoms, ... but sticking my tongue in them? No thanks...

@alan20cm I understand completely. However, when my girlfriend and I rimmed each other, there was never any penetration with our tongues. It was always 100% on the outside. We knocked on the backdoor, but we never opened it. We also only did it after we had recently bathed and were clean. Still, every time we did it, whether giving or receiving, there was always an ick factor the first few moments. However, those feeling are quickly replaced with pure bliss. For us, this almost always lead into other butt play.

I think I will pass on this one. The old saying Looks like Sh.. Smells like Sh.. Must be sh.. Not my cup of pee.

Rimming isn’t for everyone. But it has nothing to do with feces or scat play (except for maybe .00000000001% of people who are into that). A freshly washed anus probably has fewer germs than one’s lips.

I did have a friend "with privileges" who like giving massages. I would strip naked and lie on my belly on a towel on the living room floor. After massaging my neck, back, butt, legs, feet, and toes, followed by my arms, hands, and fingers. She would then pause for a bit, and start licking the bottom of my butt, delicately flicking her tongue on the area of the cheeks around my anus without actually touching it. Lovely.

I think I will pass on this one. The old saying Looks like Sh.. Smells like Sh.. Must be sh.. Not my cup of pee.

Soap and water, copiously and diligently applied beforehand is obviously the way to go. Especially with nicely scented soap.

I actually found it to be a courtesy to be extended to all sexual activity that isn't strictly spur-of-the-moment.

There is a reason why bidets were invented. Not only to wash after sexual activity, but also to wash and prepare the sexual regions before sexual activity.

I'm inexperienced here. Not due to being dirty or anything, I mean all the bumholes I've seen have been very clean so...

Just haven't done anything more than some sweet kisses. Obviously it will need to be a special someone.

The girls are afraid that while your down there that you’ll go back and forth between the two goals and contaminate the prize and every thing else that touches it. You,your fingers, dick and then kissing sucking and all the other fun stuff.

One other thing is that we have a Toto Washlet in all three bathrooms; heated seat, warm water spray and pulse, so every time we go potty we use the entire appliance as part of living in the material sensual world.

Ready for oral play all the time.

@Unknown_Jerome

One other thing is that we have a Toto Washlet in all three bathrooms; heated seat, warm water spray and pulse, so every time we go potty we use the entire appliance as part of living in the material sensual world.

Ready for oral play all the time.

We also have a TOTO washlet, but long before we had it we had lots of oral and analingus…...we were clean and usually showered, - or trusted each other, or didn’t care when caught up in the passion! The oscillating spray on the TOTO pretty much feels like analingus, without the benefit of a partner! 😕

The girls are afraid that while your down there that you’ll go back and forth between the two goals and contaminate the prize and every thing else that touches it. You,your fingers, dick and then kissing sucking and all the other fun stuff.

We never worried about orally going back and forth from the butt to the vagina. Analingus was only external for both of us and we never had any health problems. I never went from penetrative anal to pentrative vaginal (well, maybe once or twice! 😈).

There are three girls and one guy in our family playtime. I do not remember anyone having any concerns with tongs and fingers rooting around from one place or another and they go everywhere!

I am not even going to bring up the Futa strap on play that goes on.

To have a good sex life, you have to be experimental. The first time that a lover performed analingus on me, I told him that he was in the wrong place. He retorted. "I know where I am and it's not the wrong place." There are a lot of nerve endings around and in the anal opening and having them stimulated is pleasurable.

To have a good sex life, you have to be experimental. The first time that a lover performed analingus on me, I told him that he was in the wrong place. He retorted. "I know where I am and it's not the wrong place." There are a lot of nerve endings around and in the anal opening and having them stimulated is pleasurable.

Yes of course, so it is !! - and also very pleasurable !!

@Rigel: I never went from penetrative anal to pentrative vaginal..

Yes, something I also avoided.... okay, maybe once or twice! 🥵🥶😱 - also never any problems though.

There are three girls and one guy in our family playtime. I do not remember anyone having any concerns with tongs and fingers rooting around from one place or another and they go everywhere!

I am not even going to bring up the Futa strap on play that goes on.

Nothing really to say on the topic, but god this sounds hot!!!

I've both given and received anillingus only once. While my partner praised my skills (it was my first time and I've always been blessed with beginners luck) my receiving was a disappointment.