I still have old neighbors, each calling a couple times a year and ask for an enema visit, some naming the day, but others wanting me to name the day.. I like to stress the importance of feeling the flow at the anus for best colonic stimulation. I pretty much know where it belongs, but i enjoy their responses and am able to give them the best ride when i get good clues. I ask them to teach me. That way they engage easier than if i were to say, "when it feels good." I keep my fingers on it and give it subtle moves. One lady easily coos, but most need me to ask, so they don't give away their delight too easily. Sometimes we visit a while as they entertain their minds with anticipation before we start. I always ask permission to grease their shoot. I like it when they giggle and "MmmHhhmm". I leave it in and rub their back as they test the thickness. If it's a neighbor lady i also ask permission to start with the enema. (The men, i keep a more clinical control) If they are still not through milking my finger, i leave off rubbing their upper back and focus on the low back, and eventually insist we proceed. They like exchanging desires, but try not to be too obvious about it, as if we are washing dishes or something. After a quart is in, i'll start rubbing the tummy with massage oil or hair conditioner, depending on what they provide. (i don't bring my own stuff, but make purchase recommendations) I always admire their tension with comforting sounds or words. I like a bolster under the hips, but some like mamma's Sims position. It is a delicate balance to know who likes what, so i make notes when i get home. I think that familiarity makes them feel more like family, which they are, to me. In all i have only 6, but once in a while one will want me to treat a family member somewhere. They either bring them home, or we ride out in their car and discuss the situation thoroughly... People in town tend to acknowledge me as a friend, of course i'm a 70 year old fixture. But no new ones ever ask for a treatment like they used to. I am still a farmer, and have never advertised my skill at the back door. So, it is common knowledge mostly with the older set, i think. Not even sure i would be comfortable with a younger person. I would need more introduction to be sure. I allow them complete freedom with themselves when the flow starts saying, "If this gets a little overwhelming you may comfort yourself as necessary." I also need to keep friends as friends, not playmates in this supposed health endeavor. That just keeps it simpler for all. Two have picked up on my jug siphon method, but most enjoy seeing their old bags bulging and hanging ready. For all it is something of a social event and most even coach me in preparing their stuff for their treatment. I especially like that personal intercourse of desires and preferences. It is important. Depending on the neighbor, not all are paying friends, and that makes me happy too. I don't get much pleasure from cash any more.