How did you learn to give a really good enema?

Ummmm… others have said it better, but I learned by paying attention. In other words to the need, want, past practice, present knowledge, and ultimately Safe and Sane (SAS) rules, or RACK.

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So, you may have learned initially from a parent or an aunt or a nurse as medicinal, but later evolved to the complex relationship of a spouse, play partner, Dom or sub, masochist or Sadist, but your mastery as a receiver or giver evolves onward through constant learning, communication and….. paying attention… V/r

I learned by receiving really good enemas from my mother and older sister and later much more adventurous ones from my college girlfriend roommate and after that from my current girlfriend. I was a very good student at receiving as well as giving sensual, erotic enemas.

I always thought an enema was just an enema! But, after really thinking about the question I realize, for me at least, it is not the enema it is the emotional thought of an impending enema that makes an enema "good"! All the wild solutions and/or unique nozzles are worthless with out that anticipation, that slow build up to the thoughts of what WILL happen. Talking about a "good enema" is like talking about a "good climax" with out taking into account the foreplay, the compatibility of one's partner; the use of personal emotionally charged words and phrases. A "good" enema will never be "good" in an isolated context.

So many “lucky” old timers who learned from getting a ton of them growing up from family members and in proper medical settings. I'm almost jealous. Almost.

I give an enema the same as making love. Soft, sensual, orgasmic. From start to finish 😉

That's my take as well. I want the experience to be erotic and do everything I can to make sure it happens. If you pay attention to the non verbal feedback you can easily tell.

remember L.E.J!!! I as well dropped in upon occasion in my early years of E adventures. Just more or less watched than spoke. Boy have l changed!!!!

As a mere male I was consigned to the garage of LEJ. However, just before it closed I was appointed as the first male mod! Some may remember me from there as “Male Nurse”!

There are only 2 kinds of enemas. One moves the bowels. The other the spirit.

I've never given anybody an enema, but if they really wanted one, it would be a punishment enema by the time I was done with them.

The best teacher in the world is REPITITION!!!!!!!!!!!!

It has been around since the beginning of time and it works well. Just remember not every recipient is the same.

Having gotten my share of enemas while growing up I did pay enough attention to understand what was going on. Years later when I had to give one to myself I more or less knew what to do. That was knowing the basics, but after I started taking one monthly and eventually two monthly I learned what I liked and didn't like. That's what got me to adjust the procedure so that it was both comfortable and effective. To be honest an enema is not just an enema. A couple years later when I was married and ended up giving that first one to my husband it turned out that he was very favorably impressed to the point that we soon became enemates. 😃

I learned (and still am learning) by finding out what I really enjoy and sharing that with others. As has been said before, everyone is different, but if the body language is carefully watched, the procedure is adjusted to accommodate.

@Patty10

…. Talking about a "good enema" is like talking about a "good climax" with out taking into account the foreplay, the compatibility of one's partner; the use of personal emotionally charged words and phrases. A "good" enema will never be "good" in an isolated context.

Hello Patty,

an Enema has always been a form of foreplay for me. And a good foreplay creates the prerequisite for an even better climax.

Sometimes I knew that I gave a really good enema by "the next morning response." One morning my older daughter showed up at breakfast, dressed for a morning run. I was astounded. No less than 12 hours earlier she was feeling so miserable with cramps she asked for a hot water bottle and for me to give her an enema before bed. I asked her how she was feeling, she couldn't possibly have recovered that fast. "Fine. Thanks, Mom." She downed some apple juice, grabbed a banana and disappeared out the door. I guess that response defined what was "a really good enema."

“To be honest an enema is not just an enema.”

Thank you, Emom! I could write a novel and not say it better.

Trial and error mostly, remembering how I felt recieving them; try keep the better bits and work round any issues.

Like anything practice makes perfect. Once you can give self a “good enema” you can give one to others.

Sometimes I knew that I gave a really good enema by "the next morning response." One morning my older daughter showed up at breakfast, dressed for a morning run. I was astounded. No less than 12 hours earlier she was feeling so miserable with cramps she asked for a hot water bottle and for me to give her an enema before bed. I asked her how she was feeling, she couldn't possibly have recovered that fast. "Fine. Thanks, Mom."

The old miracle enema. Amazing what an enema and good nights sleep will achieve.

“The old miracle enema. Amazing what an enema and good night's sleep will achieve.”

Thank you, Sarawitches! Too many times this has been achieved to count!

I am looking forward to receiving a REALLY GOOD enema. The only one I received were from mom and as part of some other sex play. I hope that from receiving REALL GOOD enemas I will be able to give REALLY GOOD enemas!!

Having started off early, about now I have about 25 yrs of experience (yea i know, young rinusch got kinky like way to fast).

I had a lot of practice, but nothin beats practice on someone else, making mental notes of reactions.

But also, try loads of different things (be sure to do your homework!!) and dont be afraid to fail in experiments, repeat and foremost: Enjoy yourself. Your enema game will improve continiously.

I learned by being given enemas from others. Some of them were punishment enemas and very large ones. That is the way I like them today. I also like to give others, both males and females punishment enemas.

By simply following The Golden Rule!

I went to nursing school. I not only give great enemas I get paid to give them

I had a lot of practice, but nothin beats practice on someone else, making mental notes of reactions.

I can attest that @Rinusch definitely learned to give a good enema! Massaging the belly, playing with the air bubbles…making you relaxed or squirm, depending on what he wants. Full control. Truly next level and I am trying to learn it from him.

I went to nursing school. I not only give great enemas I get paid to give them

So @ginnie , I'm curious as to whether nursing students practice on each other or if that is an urban myth. I'm leaning towards myth but enlighten us!

So @ginnie , I'm curious as to whether nursing students practice on each other or if that is an urban myth. I'm leaning towards myth but enlighten us!

That is a myth at least in my school

So @ginnie , I'm curious as to whether nursing students practice on each other or if that is an urban myth. I'm leaning towards myth but enlighten us!

Yes… echoing Moppy: pray tell. Fact or fiction.

I can attest that @Rinusch definitely learned to give a good enema! Massaging the belly, playing with the air bubbles…making you relaxed or squirm, depending on what he wants. Full control. Truly next level and I am trying to learn it from him.

It's not like your enemas are bad though, I find them most enjoyable, also, you're a wee bit more subtle then me ^^

In college, my then gf was a nursing student. I was her practice partner for enemas….and a lot of other things

During a conversation with an older nurse in the park where I live in winter , she stated , “The six of us that roomed together , gave each other enemas , frequently , we got pretty good at it ”. Yes indeedy she does give a good enema ! Was one of my health aides one season .

Learning to give a good enema is down to trial and error and communication.

What does the receiver call a good enema. Is it for kinky play or tummy trouble.

Do they want strong nasty cramps etc.

Then its like anything repetition makes you good at something.

I had what i consider now, really poor quality enema experiences with my mom growing up. In spite of her lack of skills, I became enamored with the enema process. Especially after being trained at St. Joseph hospital, in Elgin, to be an orderly. ( basically in the 60’s what would be a CNA today) So being trained and having a whole ward of patients to enema. So today my enema skills are quite good. Now at 76, I feel maybe I have a PHD in enema skills. Too bad I have no one to prove it to! 🤪