Blindfolds

toshe63 said

When you get to the point as a submisdive you ask for a blinfold, you know your trust in your partner is complete

When you are wearing a blindfold and have all four limbs securely restrained THEN you know your trust in your partner is complete.

A blindfold without bodily restraints only makes the activities slightly more interesting.

At first I was not into blindfold use, but over time it almost became a must. The fear/excitement of not knowing whats coming next.

If I am lying back on the exam table staring at the ceiling and not watching what the doctor is doing, it is very similar as if wearing a blindfold. At any point during the exam, if you're not watching, only feeling the doctor examining you, I would think that has the same effect.

I tried blindfolding my girlfriend for the first time two days ago, she have wanted me to do that for quite some time now. She has a lot of experience with being blindfolded by an old fuckbuddy of hers, so she knew she would like it. It was quite a nice experience teasing her and her not knowing what will happen or when it happens.

Didn't do alot though, the blindfold kept moving all the time but it was a nice experience for both of us and something we will try soon again.

I enjoy blindfolds! I think it enhances your other senses!

As I'm turning into somewhat of a watcher, I'd like to start in a room just the two of us, blindfold her, have another person or couple enter and have their way with her. When done, they leave and she would never know what they looked like it who they were. That's another fantasy swirling in my head lol

I like when my husband blindfolds me during sex. He will also tie me up to the bed as well. My favorite part of being blindfolded is that you don't know what is going to happen, it just happens and you accept it.

For example, when I'm blindfolded, he may start sucking my cock, then he'll stop and move and the next thing I know his cock is being shoved in my mouth and down my throat. If I'm face down on the bed, he'll sometimes surprise me by spanking me a few times and shove his cock in my ass.

Since I can't see or move, I just accept whatever he does to me, which I enjoy a lot.

Blindfolds heighten the other senses. If you allow your partner to also tie you up or restrain you you are giving them total control which takes a lot of trust.

I like blindfolds, but I prefer latex masks that covers the eyes.

I don't like being hindered by a blindfold. I don't like not breathing freely with a mask.

My sub on the other hand enjoys a latex hood, a gas mask, and even the occasional plastic bag (with much watching and supervision for his safety). It is much more of a turn on for him to wear than for me. I've gotten more accepting of them. The gas mask made me giggle the first time because it made him look like a bug. Needless to say my giggling ruined the mood. I know they make him hornier and harder. So why not use them for fun.

@MissStress , you doesnt like hoods because of your Domme nature or because of the feeling? Because there are some masks that you can breathe normally.

Being tied up by my wife and having her blindfold me and then put on a pair of head phones with load music is one of my favorite things that she does for me. I love not being able to see or hear anything that she has planed for me.

Intrigued with the use of blindfolds on me as as genuinely craving submissive patient type. I am however claustrophobic in most natural circumstances (crowded elevators etc) so not sure how that would play out for me emotionally. I'd think short periods of being blindfolded by someone I explicitly trust might be a powerful stimulant however. Can you tell? I've still got lots to figure out about myself even in my old age! Breathing easily though without masks etc though will forever be important to me.

First of all, it's all in your head.

Second, a blindfold has the same effect as closing your eyes.

Third, when some people go for an MRI I tell them to close their eyes and not to look at the tunnel they are slid into. A blindfold does NOT give the same sensation as a crowded elevator. In the crowded elevator, you SEE you are in a closed space. With a blindfold, it's just like closing your eyes. A blindfold is actually very relaxing.

Finally, just get a blindfold and lie in bed or sit in a chair wearing one. DO THIS ALONE before doing it with a partner. You will accommodate.

Susie you are right about the tunnel in the MRI. I am a big guy and I hate getting slid into the tunnel. The first time I did it I made them pull me back out and give me about 4 Xanax. That worked good for me. Now I just put a cloth over my eyes before they put me in and it is fine. I have never been claustrophobic, I guess it is head first into the tunnel that freaks me out.

I like giving a spanking with a blindfold because sometimes if using a crop you lay it on, the next time is just a feather touch as you slowly drag it across. Makes for more anticipation..

For those who are bothered by enclosure, a blindfold can be less fearsome than an elevator with a few people in it.

You will accommodate.

Or acclimate?

I personally like blindfolds with Guys i know, not so much with strangers i don't have a bond of trust with.

A big part of my sexual interaction is anonymous hook up because i have discovered just how much more experience with more diverse people i can have by removing the visual element (as a bottom, i am often face down and never see my Top by design). That can do something for both parties, it removes the bias of visual attraction on my part and it can give a degree of confidence to the Top by removing that bias since they don't have to worry about how i think they look. i've found it to be very powerful.

Blindfolding, however, effects me differently. For me it's more of a commitment to not seeing my Top and involves a deeper emotional/psychological submission, kind of like submitting to being bound, like my vision is being bound? i have no reluctance to being face down and not seeing an anonymous stranger fuck me. But to submit to a blindfold, i need to have at least one experience, or in some other way established a certain bond of trust with my Top first.

As far as it heightening other senses, it certainly does for me and it can be especially wonderful for both Top and bottom when the Top knows how to manipulate that difference of perception. i had a Top FB who got together with me about once a week for over a year and a half before i moved. He approached me from CL and explained that He was into giving massage. He was very articulate and established trust with me in writing before we met, so i didn't hesitate when He said He wanted me waiting for Him naked, face down and blind folded. He was patient, almost to a fault. He never elevated 'play' until He was more than certain that He had established trust. i found myself wondering if He was using hypnotic technique with me by combining blindfold with massage/touch and vocal (He continually talked in a certain way almost the entire time) and the overall effect way to make me very...pliable. It was awhile before i even realized His primary desire and kink was opening my hole, that's how subtle He was. He used the blindfold to intensify my response and openness to sound and touch and knew how to use both of those in ways that compensated for that loss of sight by intensifying my auditory and kinesthetic perceptions.

JimmyJohnson said

Or acclimate?

Thesaurus.com says they are synonyms.

@MissStress , you don't like hoods because of your Domme nature or because of the feeling? Because there are some masks that you can breathe normally.

I don't like being enclosed in a hood because it doesn't just come off. A blindfold can be instantly slipped off if removal is needed. Hoods, atleast the one we have, takes a bit longer and I know when I want it off, I want it off now.

I don't like being enclosed in a hood because it doesn't just come off. A blindfold can be instantly slipped off if removal is needed. Hoods, atleast the one we have, takes a bit longer and I know when I want it off, I want it off now.

DISCIPLINE

You must learn discipline. One purpose of the hood is to teach discipline and self control. Everything doesn't have to happen NOW.

DISCIPLINE

You must learn discipline. One purpose of the hood is to teach discipline and self control. Everything doesn't have to happen NOW.

Nope, it isn't happening. It might be for you, but it isn't happening here. I'll put my lessons in discipline in those areas that I feel are of most concern to me and my sub. Hoods are not on the top 10 list.

Some emotional DisStress is good for you. 😁

My wife has had several MRI's - when scheduling they always ask if she is claustrophobic. She's not and never has had a problem. But the fact that they ask, makes me wonder if maybe they can plan for some drugs to help a patient through it.

Don't know if that's true or not - maybe someone with medical knowledge can confirm or deny it.

I live in New England and there are many sites that have open MRI machines, much more similar to a CT scan machine.

I can get a bit of claustrophobic myself but it depends on the situation.

I have been in both the open and closed and the only difference to me was really the noise level of the open machine was quieter.

I suppose they could prescribe some type of meds to relax you but it really does not take very long and most offer head phone with your choice of music.

I can talk myself thru it of I start to get a little anxious though.

My biggest problem is keeping still , for some reason its when you are not supposed to move thats when you always get an itch on your nose or eye ! Lol

I have been in both the open and closed and the only difference to me was really the noise level of the open machine was quieter.

The images made in the CLOSED MRI is MUCH better than the open.

.

My wife has had several MRI's - when scheduling they always ask if she is claustrophobic. She's not and never has had a problem. But the fact that they ask, makes me wonder if maybe they can plan for some drugs to help a patient through it.

Don't know if that's true or not - maybe someone with medical knowledge can confirm or deny it.

Sometimes the radiologist will have ready drugs, other times the referring MD will prescribe a xanax for the procedure if the patient mentions their problem.

I wear a blindfold to sleep. I've often thought it would be fun to wear for a play session (medical is my main kink). I think by not being able to see, I'd be forced to experience the physical sensations more in-depth.

I wear a blindfold to sleep. . . .

On long boring airline flights I wear a heavy-duty black leather blindfold that looks seriously imposing. The total blockage of any light makes it easier to sleep, pass the time and prevent any jet lag. One time the passenger sitting next to me said it was freaking her out!

People usually leave me alone and let me sleep. 😁

Yes I have incorporate blindfolds in my play .

When I'm blindfolded I feel more submissive. Not knowing who is fondling me, examining me or doing erotic things to me increases and heightens the fun. I cannot focus on visual things only touch. Hot!