Partner present during gyn exam

I have been going to my wifes exams for quite a while at her request. She has me along both for moral support and to listen to what the Dr. has to say. She also goes along to my appointments for the same reasons. 2 sets of ears are better to hear everything the Dr. has to say.

I always go to my wifes exams. She has a gyne cancer and probably has been exam at least 20 times in the past year.

Went for the first time last week and was real nervous. She had a speculum, manual and vaginal ultrasound.

My wife and I are examined conjointly, and as such, have seen each other examined on several occasions. For us, it is a learning experience, support mechanism, and a normal part of our medical treatment.

To the men, when you go with your ladies, where do you stand in the room? Do you have a view of the exam, or are you just up by her head?

Love to stand behind the doctor, at her feet of course, try to stay out of his way

from this point of view you are able to see every detail.....

The last exam I was at I had the good fortune of sitting in a seat that was in a corner by her right foot so I had a great view if the preliminary events and then the doctor stood in the way for most of the main performance. If I dared to stand up and act too interested, my wife would have thought I was being more than just a helpful and supportive husband and banned me from any and all future exams. Usually I have to sit beside her and get a good view of the breast exam and just a fleeting glimpse of the pelvic exam. But it is far better than when I use to have to sit out in the waiting room so I abide by her unspoken rules of conduct.

To the men, when you go with your ladies, where do you stand in the room? Do you have a view of the exam, or are you just up by her head?

In reply to IloveGYN, there are usually 2 or 3 chairs along the wall at the foot of the table. I either sit in 1 of them and look over the Dr.s' shoulder as MrPeacock or I stand by my wifes shoulder and watch from that angle. Dr usually has the drape on the wife's stomach so that they can have eye contact while they talk, so, I see pretty much everything from there also.

I go with my wife sometimes, there are always a couple of chairs in the exam room so figure it must be pretty common, and always lots of fun

I went with my girlfriend, I sat in a chair with a good view of everything.

I took my hubby along to the pre natal exams for my first 3 pregnancies and I loved it because he could get involved with the baby. After all he was there for the start and he was there at all their births.

My husband went so some of the prenatal exams when I was pregnant with our two daughters. It wasn't because he had any med-fet oriented interest, he just wanted to be with me and see what was happening inside, and I don't mean peeking over the doctor's shoulders. 😁 He gets to see plenty at home!

His medfet interests are primarily concerned with my interests in being examined and exposed, and of course creating some discomfort for me which really falls more within the S&M realm..

I went with my wife to her prenatalexams, the sonagram was a life altering experience.

After much badgering my wife let me go and watch one of hers. Upon leaving she informed me with many swear words that they would be the last time I went because it made her feel uncomfortable. That night she lay on the bed, naked with her legs wide open wanting me to make love to her - I never understood her logic.

I've watched several exams on my wife including a trans-vaginal ultrasound. The technician applied a medical condom on the probe and lubed it well. She then grabbed the thing like a baseball bat and went to town on my wife. Not sure if she was having a bad day but my wife didn't complain!

Yessss! I got to be present at one while my wife was pregnant. I stood by her head and the doc (female) had draped her lower half. I was just happy to be there.

Doc was doing the checks and they chatted with each other. I couldn't see anything.

The doc looked to the side as she did the exam. Seemed like she looked away to focus on what she was feeling with her fingers.

Suddenly, she snapped her head up and looked right into my wife's eyes.

"Relax your bottom," she said sternly.

My wife sighed and raised her eyes to the ceiling.

I damn near came right there and then. I couldn't see what was happening, but knowing was enough.

(The doc was obviously doing a rectal exam and my wife had clenched as the doc's finger pushed against her anus)

Up until that point, I had only lightly fingered her outer ring and taken her rectal temperature. That might have been the first time anyone had ever slipped a finger up her rear.

Needless to say, we had great sex later that evening because I was on fire.

This was a decade ago. She regularly takes more than a finger up her bottom these days. I've been to several of her appointments since then, both for support and for my pleasure.

I am sure my partner would not be interested, and that's fine with me. A real exam is not an erotic experience for me, so it would be uncomfortable to have him there watching with a sexual interest, and since I've been having routine exams on my own for years I certainly don't need him there for "support."

Of course if it were a prenatal exam, or if I was facing a serious medical issue and actually needed the support, that would be different.

I've brought my hubby with me a couple of times so that he would watch... still can't get him interested, though!

Do you have your partner present during your gyn exams? Mine wants to be there.

darissub

I am always with my wife and I record them also

I go, we really enjoy it.

I always go with my wife, huge turn-on for me and I think she likes it as well as she is usually very wet for the exam.

Yes, my wife and her doctor are both accepting of me being there. I enjoy being there quite a bit personally.

Always there, never miss it!

My SO went one time when I needed a biopsy and freaked out!!! And it wasn't even anything major-doc put me in stirrups, did her thing and we were done. Hubby never ventured further south than my shoulders. I was scared that something was wrong and just wanted the moral support. He basically runs the other way every time I mention it's time to go see the doc now. That's why you see me on here, and not him-this isn't his kink!!!! 😉

I tried going with my (now) wife last time but they didn't let me back, but I've always wanted to go with her.

Next time I'll go...she said she'll check on the phone when she makes the appointment.

I have had a partner go with me and I went with her.

I never went with my ex to the gyn. I was present when she had an amniocentesis and when she delivered by C section. (I always enjoy C sections as the process is so fast. I usually attended because I had to resuscitate the newborn.) I digress, sorry. I think it is important for a partner to support his mate so I would be always willing to go with.

^^^^ Keep in mind that the reason most people here go or want to go with their mates is the excitement and arousal factor. 😁

Susie I welcome partners in my gyn exams. However I once had a man have a vaso vagal reaction when he watched me. He fell forward and lacerated his face down to the frontalis fascia. I had to do a three layer closure during a very busy shift when I was by myself.