Gender and enemas

Are there more males or females doing enemas? It looks like more males??

A quick glance at the posts, indicates there are definately more males, but I wonder if that's the case in the general population? It might be simply that more males populate this website than females, for whatever reason, but very possibly, there are many many females out there who enjoy enemas just as much as men. I suppose there are some statistics out there, but I sure don't know them.

I think because of healthy reasons more females, but they hide her obsession, or they doing it without arousement.

I think there is a greater acceptance by society of females behaving in an overtly sexual way. As a result, in private, males have a chance to express their sexuality MORE.

Females are also taught to tolerate embarrassment better. We can talk about feelings MORE, and because of that, we are LESS inclined to get so far down the list that we are talking openly about enemas.

I'm definitely female and where enemas are concerned, I much prefer giving to receiving. My partner would love to give me one but we're not quite "there" yet. I do experience arousal when a man gives me an enema but when I do it myself, it's just a chore.

I think there are more men doing enemas. Water running over the little prostate gland is so pleasurable you want to do it all of the time.

Many women love enemas, many men love enemas, but not all women want to go public or many men not want to go public. Not all women love enemas and not all men love enemas, but sharing an enema experience between women or between men or woman to man or man to woman can be very powerful and enjoyable. That is definate. The rest is just conjecture.

My guess is the numbers are about equal. This site, like all the other enema sites, appears to be heavily weighted with men. It wouldn't surprise me to learn that there are many women lurkers out there that just can't bring themselves to participate in a website like this because it's such a personal, private activity. Just a guess.

There seem to be more males than females getting enemas. Check the members of a group and there are probably more than 4 times men than women.

I think that the number most likely are nearly balanced with slightly more men than women into enemas. I find that women often are far more reluctant to talk about enemas than men are which creates an impression that women are less interested.

I think that adult men are more likely to at least speak openly about enemas, past and present, although the treatment is shared fairly equally by the genders. Of course, moms and female nurses were/are far more likely to give enemas to others.

I can't even begin to guess who is enjoying more enemas.......men vs women, but I can surmise that men are more likely to discuss enemas on a forum such as this, than are women....particularly due to the sexual nature of enemas for the vast majority of individuals on this site......which is why men far outnumber women here. By-in-large, women just tend to be more private about their sexual preferences than men, hence you see fewer of them on this site. But, is there a huge difference in the ratio of men vs women who enjoy recreational enemas? I will go out on a limb, and say probably not.

I think women are more likely to give themselves enemas but less likely to talk about it on sites like this. Maybe it starts because we are more prone to constipation. And maybe we are more tolerant of the cramps and discomfort from an enema than men. After childbirth, what is a little enema cramp anyway?

I think fewer men give themselves enemas but are more likely to sexualize it and fantasize about giving enemas to a woman. If you check the links people post here, there are many solo women, women couples, and guys giving to a woman, but very few women giving to guys. Why is this?

I'm female and prefer to receive but mine are all solos at this time in my life. I think the numbers of males vs. Females are pretty close to even.

I thimks us guys talk more about are enema fun than the girls do but i know my wife enjoys enemas and from what she says so do most of the women she know takes enemas some enjoyed them as we do for fun and helth and the the rest will take them if need for helth .also she says alot of the women she knows get colonics,

I am male and very much into receiving. In my professional life I was always in a command position. I find being submissive is relaxing and takes me away from all the cares and responsibilities that I deal with every day. I also am shy and feel more comfortable with the assertive women.

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Enemas more males

Colon Hydrotherapy more females

I think there are more men. i get constant communications from men asking about enemas, and rarely one from a woman. i live in houston,texas, and have yet to make a female enema connection.

I dont know many girls that do it... maybe they keep it a dirty little secret....

I think more men are into enema play then women. I think women also use enemas but are not as open and as inquisitive as we men.

I think men are more into anal stimulation through enemas and are also more willing to talk about it.

On this board it definitely seems like more men but I just attribute that to more males on the board period. In real life I have never met a person that openly said they use enemas. My mom said she had one when she was in labor with me, and my grandmother had a bag, but never discussed it. I've confided in my bf and a couple female friends that I use them and enjoy it and they all look at me like I have two heads.

Don't take the ratio male-female members on sites like this to estimate which gender is doing more enemas! I've noticed all sex related sites, even "normal" forums dealing with questions etc. about "normal" sex always have a lot more male members then females. (In fact, most general forums commonly have a lot more male then female members as well)

Maybe we, women, don't write about enjoying enemas as much as men do but don't think for a moment that our enjoying enemas. Someone said that men will write about enemas on line but not so much in person. When I was still a young girl I know my mother and her friends weren't shy when they were talking about giving us kids enemas. The would sometime say that they were going to need an enema them-self later that day but most of the time it was us, kids who were going to get it or had been given one the night before. You can guess how we kids felt when mom let every one know that we got an enema the night before or were going to get that night. I never heard men talk about enema to their friends, have you?

Robin

That's a very good point Robin. I think in person, men are more embarrassed about their bodies/illnesses than women. For example...you often hear women talking about and sharing their experiences at the gyno but I don't think I've ever heard guys discussing their prostate exam.

I think it's the same with enemas. How often did you get given enemas by the way? How did you feel about them?

I always felt that my mother enjoyed giving enemas and talking about them.After getting my first enema while in the hospital my mother was talking to the nurse about giving me another one two days later.Once after coming home home I told her I could not go to the bathroom. She just smiled as she prepared the filled the enema bag and told me I would feel alot better. Later I overheard her tell a neighbor that she had given me a good enema.

I like giving and recieving. My girl leans more to the giving.

For purely health (non-fetish) reasons, of course women get more enemas and colonics. For fetish reasons, undoubtedly it's men who are into enemas in greater number. That's just the way it is -- men are more fetishistic.

Is it connected with the way women go to the toilet in pairs or more, whereas men never do?

I am in to giving enemas as a form of punishment, humiliation, and just good ole fashion that is the way it is.