For the women: what do you do/think about in the moments before RT insertion?

For the women: what do you do/think about in the moments before RT insertion?

I'd love to hear your thoughts, ladies.

Well... you are fully exposed and something cold (or not) is going to penetrate you. And you are waiting for that slippery sensation of lube and glass to slip into you. I personaly start to feel a tingle in my sex... very sensual.

This is my very favorite moment in a exam. It makes fantasy fantasy, and brings up all sorts of stuff about invasiveness and privacy and deep evaluation.

Just the anticipation of what is to come ( a vaseline covered thermometer) and enter my rectum. Just the though of the thermometer going in turns me on.

From the perspective of a male physician, who happens to enjoy the dominant physician/submissive patient power exchange, I like Aya's explanation. I can think of no more submissive act a woman can perform than to willingly undress after being told to do so, and get into position to have her bottom spread apart, exposing the most intimate areas of her body, and wait for another person to slide a thermometer inside. It's so impersonal-a cold glass rod-yet so sensual at the same time. I imagine that most of the women on the site enjoy the thrill of the anticipation. How long would you ladies like the anticipation to build? And inve the thermometer is in, how long do you want it to stay in? Just long enough to register? Do you prefer for the doctor to take his time, teasing you with it, possibly letting his fingers explore you a bit, to make the experience that much more enjoyable?

I love the anticipation. Knowing that someone else in in charge and that he can see everything. Its embarrassing because it makes me feel like a child, and knowing that it's "more accurate" doesn't help. When I'm asked ot be on my tummy, I know what's coming and I know that I'm going to be exposed and prodded. eeeeep!

Indeed... isn't it the vulnerability... the yielding of control over her most hidden and intimate portals that causes the flutters in her tummy and the whirling rush in both her mind and her vagina? Waiting, and even yearning for the sensation of his touch as the tiny invader slips inside her upturned anus?

. . . . I can think of no more submissive act a woman can perform than to willingly undress after being told to do so, and get into position to have her bottom spread apart, exposing the most intimate areas of her body, and wait for another person to slide a thermometer inside. It's so impersonal-a cold glass rod-yet so sensual at the same time. I imagine that most of the women on the site enjoy the thrill of the anticipation. How long would you ladies like the anticipation to build? . . . .

An act is really only one of submission if the person in the submissive role doesn't actually want to do what is requested. While I am not into rectal temps (I want an insertion I really know is in there), if we are role playing, I will assume the position and have you spreading my cheeks before you have finished stating your request.

Another video clip of the exact same scenario could have a different soundtrack of me saying "I'm in the stirrups, wet and lubricated. Get over here and stuff that dildo up my ass, dammit." So you see, a genuinely whining apprehensive real patient is performing an act of submission, while I would be telling you to hurry up and do what the real, apprehensive, submissive real patient wants to avoid.

I also love the anticipation.... to know that something very embarrassing and humiliating is happening the next moment.

i just put my face into my pillow and let it happen... just the same way as when i was a little child.

my imagination starts running wild the moment that my boyfriend tells me that i feel hot and that we should check my temp

I agree with bieb=ne and in answer to Wolf, I like the docotr to take his/her time and leave it in as long as they feel is needed. Moving it around only heightens the experience:-)

The anticipation, threat of exposure, exposure and verbal cues. The right words are are a turn-on for me. That, and someone having the right to do that to my body.

Yes, the anticipation. I also like the feel of the paper under my bare stomach and breasts.

For me it's so hard to hide my excitement. Although I am lying perfectly still, it completely masks my anticipation. I can't really think of anything. I'm too busy visualizing that plump little silver bulb being eased up into my rectum, slick with lubricant.

Anticipation, feeling hot over exposure

Start123, what are the "verbal cues" and "right words" that turn you on, so?

I understand the question is put to women, but may I intervenne to ask them whether the anticipation of the insertion of the thermometer is not rather similar to the anticipation of the insertion of the penis in the case of anal sex or even regular vaginal sex?

The anticipation, excitement it's gonna bring.

This is one of those things that I never have gotten used to even though it's not unexpected at my physical exams. My NP takes temps rectally as will my doctor so it's not a surprise but when I am instructed to "turn over" or "turn onto my side," I feel nervous and my tummy tightens as the gown naturally opens and my ample bottom is on display in a few seconds. When she then spreads my cheeks, my eyes close, and I feel it slip into me, cold and slippery, yet it does shock me! I always wonder, "my goodness, how many of these rosebuds has she seen today?"

Mostly when doc tells u to lay on the exam table with underwear down to ankles and sometimes taking underwear off too!! You never know right?? Lol the best part not knowing haha

I dont think about anything because i get anxiety. Ive taken my temp rectally my entire life except for once or twice but i still find my heart racing and breathing heavily when im told i need to get this done in a medical setting. The last time was a year ago cause i had strep throat and my temp was 103 in triage that the physician requested a rectal reading. It was 104.3 rectally. The penicillin injection in my butt is a whole other story.

@julie13 I have long wondered the same thing about nurses!

I haven't had that done to me at a doctor's office in... well I cannot remember. At home only in play or when I am sick. I love the feeling. When I worked trauma we were on a college campus. Heat exhaustion and heat stroke are very real here. Then you have the GSW's. Sometimes after getting shot they would start to go into shock and the doctor might request it. Sometimes for car accidents. All the time for drug OD's and alcohol OD. We would do it and insert a catheter. There some days as Julie said I would see rosebuds all day. Some days none. We just never took rectal temps much at all. There had to be a reason. It was work so it never turned me on.

While on vacation in Minnesota several years ago, I was treated in an urgent care for a migraine and was throwing up. A nurse asked "if I minded" that she took my temperature "in my bottom." I got chills and could feel my heart thumping. I still remember that.

I only took rectal temperature myself, never had my mom or nurse or even play doctor to do that. Only started that due to Covid-19. At first it was more like medical feeling, well mainly because I like to have cup of tea or coffee and so that place appeared to be the place to take my temps.....

I must admit I am rectal/anal person, so the first insertions felt like: small, not too long and does it in short time.

But now I view it as a pleasure and even joy.